Are there any tgirls in NJ that are hung and not just looking for money?

[wiltthestilt]

Are you calling me desperate?

Who could suggest such a thing? It's common knowledge that gorgeous TS's troll these boards looking for regular hook-ups all the time. I'm sure you wouldn't be requesting a gorgeous TS if you didn't deserve one.

[robertlouis]

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I'm pretty sure that Dino's reported on that movie.

He's probably slept with most of them too.

[robertlouis]

Who could suggest such a thing? It's common knowledge that gorgeous TS's troll these boards looking for regular hook-ups all the time. I'm sure you wouldn't be requesting a gorgeous TS if you didn't deserve one.

Where's that "sarcasm" emoticon when you need it?

[Dino Velvet]

I'm pretty sure that Dino's reported on that movie.

He's probably slept with most of them too.

I don't play with eels, only starfish. I don't have an issue with those who are eel aficionados since it's 2013 and all.

[bigman9238]

I came on here to ask for advise not to argue about stupid shit. I am new here so it's not like I know everything there is to know about this "community". So if you are telling me this is the wrong place to be posting fine but there is no reason to give me attitude. And God forbid somebody is honest about what they want. I'm sorry I'm not looking for some 40 year-old fat guy in a wig who sits at home wearing his mom's clothes when she goes grocery shopping. If I was desperate I would just say, "I don't care who or what it is as long as it has a pulse." Maybe I'm overreacting but I really appreciate helpful replies and not the sarcastic smug shit that spews out of some peoples' mouths.

[robertlouis]

I came on here to ask for advise not to argue about stupid shit. I am new here so it's not like I know everything there is to know about this "community". So if you are telling me this is the wrong place to be posting fine but there is no reason to give me attitude. And God forbid somebody is honest about what they want. I'm sorry I'm not looking for some 40 year-old fat guy in a wig who sits at home wearing his mom's clothes when she goes grocery shopping. If I was desperate I would just say, "I don't care who or what it is as long as it has a pulse." Maybe I'm overreacting but I really appreciate helpful replies and not the sarcastic smug shit that spews out of some peoples' mouths.

Fair enough. You're just picking up on the kind of banter that goes on here, but apologies if it's offended in any way.

Eva's advice is good, and I was also serious when I suggested TG dating sites. Yes, some are escorts looking for a hook-up, but others are stealth girls just living a normal life and looking for someone to care for.

Good luck.

[bigman9238]

Fair enough. You're just picking up on the kind of banter that goes on here, but apologies if it's offended in any way.

Eva's advice is good, and I was also serious when I suggested TG dating sites. Yes, some are escorts looking for a hook-up, but others are stealth girls just living a normal life and looking for someone to care for.

Good luck.

Thanks. I'm not offended. Just allergic to bullshit. Btw that last rant wasn't directed at you. Thanks for your advise.

[Ms.Stepford]

Hey! That sarcastic smug shit is funny!

You've already received the best advice you're going to get:

have you tried clubbing? some tgirls hang out in clubs...more or less in dance clubs, gay bars ( i know, "gay bars", but hey are you really gonna see a tgirl in a "bar", with macho men, country/rap/jazz, and "straight people" ) ( sometimes it happens, but not much ). If you are more of the "virtual connoisseur", try www.fetlife.com, www.transgenderdate.com, and www.okcupid.com. Those may work but, my vote is to go out to the club scene. Being human and personally interacting is more pleasing.

[EvaCassini]

I came on here to ask for advise not to argue about stupid shit. I am new here so it's not like I know everything there is to know about this "community". So if you are telling me this is the wrong place to be posting fine but there is no reason to give me attitude. And God forbid somebody is honest about what they want. I'm sorry I'm not looking for some 40 year-old fat guy in a wig who sits at home wearing his mom's clothes when she goes grocery shopping. If I was desperate I would just say, "I don't care who or what it is as long as it has a pulse." Maybe I'm overreacting but I really appreciate helpful replies and not the sarcastic smug shit that spews out of some peoples' mouths.

That happens here. But honestly, I was in your spot for the longest time and I completely agree with you, I don't want a fat man in a wig either lol.

Honestly, my best advice is to use your courage and go to the clubs regardless of wingman or not. And don't listen to someone like Chintree, because get this...I am a tgirl and I know where one would hang out...AND you are not likely going to find silicone parties unless you go to Mexico or Brazil or Thailand. That is a big myth about we girls that we go to clubs to "hookup" for escorting and silicone parties ( the truth about those silicone parties is that those are VERY desperate girls looking for the easy way to femininity, but don't understand the harm it will do to them ) . Regardless that I am in a relationship, I still enjoy going to clubs to just hangout, and get out of the house, like any rational person would.

If you do decide to go out by yourself, just be yourself and personable. Respect, courtesy, and a good sense of humor helps ALOT.

I hope you find what you are looking for take care hun!

[bigman9238]

That happens here. But honestly, I was in your spot for the longest time and I completely agree with you, I don't want a fat man in a wig either lol.

Honestly, my best advice is to use your courage and go to the clubs regardless of wingman or not. And don't listen to someone like Chintree, because get this...I am a tgirl and I know where one would hang out...AND you are not likely going to find silicone parties unless you go to Mexico or Brazil or Thailand. That is a big myth about we girls that we go to clubs to "hookup" for escorting and silicone parties ( the truth about those silicone parties is that those are VERY desperate girls looking for the easy way to femininity, but don't understand the harm it will do to them ) . Regardless that I am in a relationship, I still enjoy going to clubs to just hangout, and get out of the house, like any rational person would.

If you do decide to go out by yourself, just be yourself and personable. Respect, courtesy, and a good sense of humor helps ALOT.

I hope you find what you are looking for take care hun!

Thanks Eva! You are a total sweetheart. Too bad I can't find someone like you. I'll be sure to try out some of those clubs. Not sure I will fit in though with my camo hat, beard and shaved head lol.