Blow Job questions and discussion

[MrBlonde]

Hi gang I am a fledgling writer here and I have a desire to write something from the female perspective in my story. The problem is I have NO frame of reference for what I want to write about.

I have never given a bj and only know what it's like from the receiving side of things. It's ok with me if some of you guys want to chime in with your thoughts as well, I'll use anything I think can help me with what I want to convey.

First if someone could describe in fairly good detail the sensations you feel, the texture, the hardness, so on of the actual act. What does it feel like in your mouth, what do you like or not like about that? How does it feel different when the guy is about to cum, or does it it feel any different at all? Just be as descriptive as you can please. Add anything you like or whatever, please just fill in the blanks so to speak for me.

Next I'd like to know the emotional side of things for the blow job giver. Obviously there are times when little emotion will come into play but lets say it's a relationship your in and you deeply care for the guy you are going down on. What goes through your mind when you are going down on him? Are you mostly concerned with how it is for him or does doing the deed actually bring you real personal satisfaction yourself (physically)? Or are you just getting satisfied knowing you are pleasing him and that's what does it for you? How many out there are "Only" blowing your man because it's something he really wants and would most likely choose not to do it if you didn't have too?

Damn so many questions I have. Sorry if it's a bit redundant but I really have no one I could ask about this without bringing up all kinds of strange reactions and stuff. I do really appreciate any and all info any of you can share about this. Thanks so much!

[MrBlonde]

There is no one here willing to help on this? Not pointing fingers but damn, there are a lot of people with some experience on this topic and no one can be bothered?

[Ms.Stepford]

If you want to write about sucking cock, go suck some cock!
Write what you know, y'know?

I know all about it, but it's for me to write about on my own time.
I did my homework.

[Merkurie]

It is way past time for you to go out into the big wide world.

[Rusty Eldora]

Some how to in a vid by Professor BJ Brooke herself

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=611580268

[danthepoetman]

Really nice vid, Rusty!

[MacShreach]

To the OP: Not everybody wants to suck penises, so don't worry about the comments from those who do. However, you are a writer? Use your I-M-A-G-I-N-A-T-I-O-N.

If you want to see this in action in the context you are discussing, why not get my book, The Warm Pink Jelly Express Train? Sex, action and transbabes.

[danthepoetman]

To the OP: Not everybody wants to suck penises, so don't worry about the comments from those who do. However, you are a writer? Use your I-M-A-G-I-N-A-T-I-O-N.

If you want to see this in action in the context you are discussing, why not get my book, The Warm Pink Jelly Express Train? Sex, action and transbabes.

I've read a few lines on your blog, MacShreach, and I must say it is very well written. I'm sure it must be a great read.

[francisfkudrow]

I'm a cocksucker myself, but not a very good one yet. lol. As far as the actual sucking goes, it's really hard to describe. No matter what you look like, or how low your self-esteem is in general, at least part of you feels sexy with a dick in your mouth. I remember going down on a guy once where I could see myself in a nearby mirror; my head bobbing up and down between his legs, and it was very arousing.

As far as when he's about to cum, that I don't know. Like I said, I kind of suck at sucking so far, and haven't gotten anybody to cum that way. (but I'll keep trying)

[Prospero]

You can read plenty of good stuff about sucking cock if you visit various posts here, read some of the fiction and read mac's blog. And as he said, then use your imagination - or better still get some experience and then reflect upon it and then use your imagination.

But like a lot of pornography it is hard to make describing something like fellatio erotic.