Do you pay for sex?Prostitution and escorts in general...

[Prospero]

Yep - all part of life's rich tapestry. I am a sensualist.
It doesn't bother me if they think I'm attractive. I try to ensure we both enjoy ourselves. There are enough others out there i am involved in, one way or another. An old mistress called me today - seeking to reconnect - because she is tired of her husband. There we are.

[Cerberus]

Pay? Unfortunately yes.
I say unfortunately cause I've yet to find an escort that doesn't charge. Funny that!

[thestud]

One way or the other we all pay for sex whether it is up front or gradually. Let me give you an example suppose its a friday night and you go out and you hit the clubs. Inside you pocket you have 100 pounds or more and let say you meet a girl she hardly going to come back to your place immediately. So buy her a drink and another and another and then take that girl and hit another and club all the time buying her drinks. Maybe you go back to cash point and you withdrew more money. Finally you going back to her place via a cab in which you are paying for.

At the end of the night you have already spent well over a hundred pounds. The only difference is you spent it gradually maybe in 5, 10 or even 20 and did not even notice but( here the things it all adds up and some will say you work bloody hard for the sex). And here the kicker you probably wont see her again.

When you pay for an escort you pay all once and bypass the drinking, the clubs, etc but the end result is the same.

I do not mind any paying for sex god knows I have but I drawn the line on hookers that stand on street corner offering sex with 20 pounds with no condom. I rather pay 80 pound for licenced escort that allows their customers to use protection.

"I remember once walking down kings cross and saw a hooker standing in the corner and she came up to me and tried to flatter saying you looking cute do you want business and this point I said I play along with her so I asked do you have protection and guess what she said "no" but I am clean I have a daughter so I am trying to say clean. I remember thinking to myself you going out to do your business and you do not even have protection, imagine the things you will catch"

Finally when looking at escorts I look for the line that says:
Do you do bareback? and if the answer is yes then that is a no no for me.

[ed_jaxon]

I have spent thousands on escorts from the time I was 18 and for the most part have always had fun. So long as I am not married or seriously in a relationship I am cool with it.

Gives me a chance to meet girls who often become friends and because I know many of their back stories I know they need the dough. Never moved into a relationship because that rarely happens but fun nonetheless.

I have also had girls I just hook up with and had fun and the same applies to them as well. Many friends made out of hooking up.

Finally I have had a couple of relationships come out of hooking up but as I said never after paying. Never really worked out in the long run but I keep looking for one that will.

[Willie Escalade]

Of course I have. It hasn't happened in a long time due to my financial situation (I considered it a splurge); I've also been lucky...in the right place at the right time.

[bluesoul]

One way or the other we all pay for sex whether it is up front or gradually. Let me give you an example suppose its a friday night and you go out and you hit the clubs. Inside you pocket you have 100 pounds or more and let say you meet a girl she hardly going to come back to your place immediately. So buy her a drink and another and another and then take that girl and hit another and club all the time buying her drinks. Maybe you go back to cash point and you withdrew more money. Finally you going back to her place via a cab in which you are paying for.

At the end of the night you have already spent well over a hundred pounds. The only difference is you spent it gradually maybe in 5, 10 or even 20 and did not even notice but( here the things it all adds up and some will say you work bloody hard for the sex). And here the kicker you probably wont see her again.

the problem i have with this scenario is that you are equating any money spent to indirectly be a payment for sex, which is a very corrupt way of viewing relationships.

do you think if a man met his future wife in such a scenario he paid for his wife? i know that there are cultures that require a dowry payment for the parents of the wife, but this is strictly done as "proof" that one can substantially provide for her care and well being- not because they priced their daughter at a certain amount and anyone willing who can meet the required price point or make a better offer gets the girl. however with a prostitute/escort, this is exactly the case. because if i offered a better price than yours, then it only serves her better business to cancel with you and take my money instead (assuming we both pass whatever screening process she has).

real life doesn't work like that because real life isn't a fantasy for purchase.

[Dino Velvet]

I like to pay but not too much.

[thestud]

the problem i have with this scenario is that you are equating any money spent to indirectly be a payment for sex, which is a very corrupt way of viewing relationships.

do you think if a man met his future wife in such a scenario he paid for his wife? i know that there are cultures that require a dowry payment for the parents of the wife, but this is strictly done as "proof" that one can substantially provide for her care and well being- not because they priced their daughter at a certain amount and anyone willing who can meet the required price point or make a better offer gets the girl. however with a prostitute/escort, this is exactly the case. because if i offered a better price than yours, then it only serves her better business to cancel with you and take my money instead (assuming we both pass whatever screening process she has).

real life doesn't work like that because real life isn't a fantasy for purchase.

but come on if you were down at a club and a guy came up to you or a woman and said hey I like you but I have no money to spend on you would go off them.

My flat mate Jay has a lot of female friends and we quite close, we share everything, stories, girls, and one thing he tells me is that the girls tell him that they would never go for what they call a broke nigger. Hey the nigger word is not racism my flatmate use it all the time and hes black and beside most people are only interested in one night stands.

I rate anyone who has met his future wife this way

The point I making is one way or the other we pay for sex

[youngblood61]

No, but wouldn't be against it.

[sukumvit boy]

Hell ,yes! Pay gladly.
"When it comes to cooking and fucking ,it pays to find a professional." LOL