Do you pay for sex?Prostitution and escorts in general...

[thestud]

At least with an escort there is no pretentense, no false palitudes all she is there is to do a job. She will do whatever you want her, make your fantaties come through, dressing up, watersports if you into that sort of thing all you have to do along is to treat her right and oh pay her.

The thing about escort love them or hate there are up front with you.

[xmattuk]

I have paid for sex in the past, although haven't for a while -but may well do so in the future - I'm often browsing sites looking at *possibilities*, both TS and GG.

I have a GF, and I love her and want a family with her. However, she doesn't quite cut it for me in the sack (and obviously doesn't have the extra bit of fun, when I'm fancying TS time).
That's partially why I haven't been able to bring myself to actually see an escort over the last few years now. The worry of catching something, and then passing onto her, and ruining the relationship has held me back. (Obviously I cover up for penetration with an escort, but being able to catch an STI through oral is a bit devastating. Damn viruses!)

[amberskyi]

I understand girls trying to weed out the guys what you are reffering to is courting once the guy has the number and his trying to develop a relationship, one can say trying to develop the early begins of a relationship.


So let say a girls want to get laid the above theory you mention applies but when the girl wants to get serious what are the chances of she dating someone that has no money.

I am talking about a girl not looking at you or given you her number because she wants someone better, someone who can take on holiday maybe five times a year, someone who can fly her to paris in moment notice.

Example

I was once coming out of a resturant and opposite the resturant there was a club and this guys pulls out his car must have been at least 30k - 35k he was dressed really sharp, gold chains, expensive designer shoes. I remember everyone circling the car taking pictures. I admit I was one of those people circling the car taking pictures. Damn he had a good car. But the point I was making was that there was lot girls too and each one of and most of them were flirting to get his attention when he came out of the club. I remeber one group of girls saying damn that guy got money.

Now imagine if you were looking to start a relationship after seeing that an ordinary guy came up to you and start to chat you up. What would you say?
instinctively you would compare him to that guy and say nope this guy cannot give me what I want and you probably tell him "nope not interested"

How does a guy commit with that if the girl does not even give him a chance to prove himself and even if she does she just want his money until someone richer can along

I not saying that every single girl is like this you might be the except I don't know but however most her

why do you think younger girls are always dating older guys?
Some date older guys and have a toyboy on the side

I've toyed with the idea of dating an older guy for financial stability but since i escort i want my personal life to be as enjoyable and normal as possible.dating an older guy would seem way to much like work and i would feel like I'm never off the clock.
My target audience when it comes to dating are regular 9 to 5 types who are only a few years older than me.no one older than 35

[Rabbiteyes]

But the point I was making was that there was lot girls too and each one of and most of them were flirting to get his attention when he came out of the club. I remeber one group of girls saying damn that guy got money.

Sure, there are some women who look at how much money a guy has... it can be fun to be treated to nice dinners and things. But, just like a guy cruising just for a hot body and sex....the girl is cruising for a short term situation that will make her feel good (a rich guy giving her attention).

I have a friend who gets a lot of attention from really rich guys. She goes on dates with them (and she even had a sugar daddy in her younger years), but they are really short relationships. She typically ends up with the guys who have a decent job (not rich, but just a decent job).

Basically, women aren't really looking for a super rich guy. It is fun, it can be exciting, but the cut-off in terms of money is MUUUCHHH lower.

Though, don't get me wrong! Money is important! Dating a guy who can't afford to go to the movies, or dinner, or even get gas for his car SUCKS. What kind of a life is that? But the level to have a decent life isn't that high (just some education and a career).

I wouldn't want to date a guy without money either. I eat out every night ~_~ I go see movies when I feel like it ~_~ I don't want a guy that I always have to be worried about affording things (or worse, paying for him !_!). Basically, it is a social class type of thing :P

((Oh, for the record, lots of girls are simply attracted to older guys :P They seem more secure, mature, patient, wise....it is pretty sexy :P I don't mean 80 year old guys, but 10-20 years older? Awesome :3))

[tranlove]

If you're not paying your just jacking off

[wiltthestilt]

Yes. Many times. I quite enjoy it. I pay mostly for gg's, but I've seen two TS's and would see TS's more often if a better selection were available where I am. I was on the West Coast on vacation last week and banged a really hot TS and hope to do so again soon.

I would save a lot of money (average $300 per session) if I didn't see escorts, but I wouldn't live any longer, and I want to enjoy my life while I have the chance. You can't take it with you. I don't spend money on alcohol, or fancy cars, or boats, or motorcycles, so I wind up spending a lot less than friends of mine who don't see escorts.

Many people who see escorts make up some kind of excuse for why they do it (I'm married, in a relationship, over-the-hill yada, yada, yada) but I think reality is that very few men, single or not, can bang a fresh hot young lady every few weeks without paying directly for it--and even among those who could, that number nose dives after age 30 or so. I could never get the quality and variety of women I currently get by trolling bars or dating sites. I admit that. If you don't want to pay for sex, don't. I enjoy it and don't give a fuck if others think it's a waste of money. To each his own.

[wiltthestilt]

As an escort, my only recommendation to anyone on the fence is DO IT. Lol. It's really not *that* big a deal, and it can be a lot of hassle-free fun. I might not recommend it if you are young and it would be your first sexual experience, or if you are putting a serious relationship at risk. Other than that, go for it. It doesn't make you a loser or mean you won't be able to have a regular girlfriend later on or whatever. All kinds of very successful/desirable guys do it.

As for myself I've never hired one, but I've thought about it... I'm bi and I can't see paying for a guy, it'd be a short/cute ts or tv or maybe Asian gg.

Agree 100%. It's really not that big a deal. After I got up the courage to do it, I was like, that was easy. If it's not worth it you don't have to do it again. The only caveat is always verify who you are seeing. Google the name, phone number, ect. She should have reviews verifying the pics are accurate and that the ad is not an LE sting. Never call a random BP girl, at least until you know what you're doing.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I have paid for companionship and sex and, I will do so again. I find it far less of a hassle and overall significantly less expensive than getting married for the same thing.

[nysprod]

Who's paying here for sex and who payed for sex in the past and those ones of you who have stopped to go to escorts what was the main reason for quiting it?


I have visted escorts in the past,and quited it.I couldnt' deal with the fact that these girls didn't have sex with me because of my attraction,only because of the money i gave them.

What are your thougts on this matter?

Nevertheless Prostituition should be legal in every country and i still support the liberal ideas behind it.

Fuck you if me or anyone else here pays for sex, how about that?

[Quiet Reflections]

I never have but I have nothing against those that do