What's wrong with wanting to be a top only?

[robertlouis]

There is nothing wrong whatsoever with being a top only or with enjoying being a bottom. it's all about preferences. But many get ridiculed and slagged off here for their preferences. Which is so sad considering this is supposed to be a forum of people liberated from stupid prejudices.

Very true. But it seems that those of us who prefer only to top get it worse than anyone else (except the girls, of course, which is utterly shameful in a place like this).

I don't understand it, but it doesn't bother me. I know what I like and no amount of stupid cat-calling will change that.

[thestud]

Absolutely nothing at all. As long as both parties are into it, anything goes--but both means BOTH. However there are some people who, just because they like to do certain things, assume everyone else does too, and then get all hissy when they get told they're wrong.
They ought to do the maths: most transwomen would much rather be fucked (a good proportion won't even let you touch their dicks). So that means that 'top' only men who like transwomen have a much larger dating pool. Simples.

I agree I like that too I like to do the fucking not the one being fucked. I have only be with one TS and that was 7 months ago and I was the one doing the fucking. I still do not understand how TS or gays feel pleasure if they are not the one giving because when you make love or are having sex with a women the way nature designed us is that both feel pleasure at the same time and please I not say every single women feels pleasure when having sex. I say on average and since there are seven billion in this world the average of that is still a lot. Any way back to what I was saying when I was pumping the hell out of that TS i fell pleasure hmm good times and when she asked me whether she could fuck me I polite declined and she wankered herself of. But the question I like to ask any TS is when you are taking it up to ass do you feel pleasure or are you saying hurry up this hurting like hell

[dderek123]

Compromise happens in a relationship. And mix in a little experimentation. Then who knows what places you will go.

[nysprod]

So since when did refusing to do certain things in bed amount to being 'selfish'? You think sexual blackmail is OK? And in this thread he's asking about why some people get a bee in their bonnets about men who 'top'. It's up there in the thread title.

You're a bit thick, so I'll explain...the op is being disingenuous with the thread title...the point is that he's trying to get his wife to do exactly what he wants without reciprocating...and he's here asking for help with it.

In other words, the thread has nothing to do with people getting a bee in their bonnets about men who top

In your opinion he is. But as long as he respects her decision and she respects his decision, what's your beef?

Try to read this carefully because I'm going to explain it for the last time. He is not respecting her at all...he's trying to find a way to get her to do what he wants without having to do what she wants.

He came on a forum dedicated to transwomen and asked advice about transwomen? Shocking. Shouldn't be allowed.

Do you see now this is not the point of this thread...that he's not here asking advice about transwomen?

[MacShreach]

I'm going to explain it for the last time.

Since you've said exactly the same thing in each of your previous posts, I agree, it would be a good idea to get off your wee soapbox and shut up. Don't let the door catch you now.

The rest of us will carry on discussing the thread topic, instead of your thinly disguised pro-bottom polemic.

[nysprod]

Since you've said exactly the same thing in each of your previous posts, I agree, it would be a good idea to get off your wee soapbox and shut up. Don't let the door catch you now.

The rest of us will carry on discussing the thread topic, instead of your thinly disguised pro-bottom polemic.

You really are utterly clueless...I'll stop wasting my time now...

[MacShreach]

You really are utterly clueless...I'll stop wasting my time now...

Good stuff.

[amberskyi]

This shit again

[Sulka_bewitched_me]

This shit again

[MacShreach]

This shit again

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