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05-24-2013 #1
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Straight Noob+Tranny OBSESSED.
Taking a chance on something new: actually discussing my lifelong obsession with trannies. I'm a straight man, freshly 40. In and out of straight relationships. Love females, love she-males. I live in BKLYN NY, and have been with a handful of escorts. I am looking for advice on:
1. Where the hell can I go to meet up with trannies on a CASUAL wavelength? Are they ALL just straight up prostitutes? I'm looking for a GFE. I will pay for it, and have (I got here by Googling reviews of a certain Kym in the BX on Backpage. Sad to read what a rip she is/was). But I'm wondering if there really are private trans girls who are looking for some companionship. And before you say it, FUCK paying for TS Dating.com. That would be like paying YOU to link me to BP/EROS.
2. Is my only hope a club? I'm not really up for slipping into a gay club alone (this is my dark secret remember). Read a few bits on here about a place called Luchos. I'm not an oiled-up 22 year old. I'm a grown man who walked out of the clubs several moons ago. With good advice however, I'll venture out to any establishment that you guys deem worthy.
I'm a noob to this forum. I'd like any advice that you good people are willing to share. Thanks.
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05-24-2013 #2
Re: Straight Noob+Tranny OBSESSED.
Transgenderdate.com
The girls are out there.
William Escalade is no more. He's done his service to the site.
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05-24-2013 #3
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Nobody wants to be someone's "deep dark secret" unless they're getting paid. Stick with the escorts...
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05-25-2013 #4
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Re: Straight Noob+Tranny OBSESSED.
I'm a straight, trans-curious man seeking advice. I'm not judging/condemning anyone, but without any genuine access or guidance, that's how it feels to me. A secret. And sticking to the escorts is not what I want.
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05-25-2013 #5
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Ryder..oh baby..I'd show you off to everyone!
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05-25-2013 #6
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Re: Straight Noob+Tranny OBSESSED.
what kind of "genuine access or guidance" do you need? road signs with a HUGE markee and arrows flashing "transsexual here"?
i'd suggest getting involved in some GLAAD type activities- eventually you'll meet a tranny or someone that knows one. also, you could relocate to an area with a high concentration of them to give yourself an advantage
lastly, have money. not always necessary but let's just say "it's very important"
oh, and lastly, don't be weird. this is the new "must give" advice.
good luck
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05-25-2013 #7
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I want a ts girl but its my deep dark secret....good luck dude cause every girl is going to tell you to get lost
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05-25-2013 #8
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If you aren't attached why hide it? If you are going to keep it as your deep dark secret you'll have to pay. I volunteer in an LBGT help program, and don't waste their time trying to hook up there, the transgender people that I see are looking to be recognized as who they are not kept in a dungeon.
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05-25-2013 #9
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Well, your post is kinda ambivalent. You can keep secret and pay. That's fine, and it's what a lot of men do. If you want something other than a business relationship, it's simply not fair to keep it secret. I'm not saying you have to walk down the street wearing a beanie hat and a big sign saying 'I date transwomen' but you know, just being prepared to take her for a drink or dinner. In public.
A lot of men, when they first get involved with transwomen, fail to understand two things: it is really expensive to transition, and it is much tougher for a transwoman to get a decent job. Not always, but in the absence of a PhD or Master's in a desirable area....you get my drift. So, you know, even if it's not a business relationship, be generous.
Apart from the above, most transgirls are kinda old-fashioned. They like you to open doors, pull out chairs, pick up the tab and buy them nice presents. Don't have to be really expensive presents, as my mother used to say, it's the thought that counts.
Transwomen can also be volatile. Learn to go with it and support her emotionally and it will be worthwhile.
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