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    hey guys and gals
    I've dilemma and just wanted your opinion, Im in a situation whereby im an admirer of the fine form of the wonderful tgirl world.. i find myself turned on by looking at pics and reading about these find women, however im now wondering should i take it to the next level and perhaps meet one for fun.. im afraid if i do it may ruin the fantasy and im a bit scared of being considered gay just because enjoy ladies with that little something extra...i was wondering how you found your 1st expereince and would tgirls be reluctant to play with guy who perhaps would just like to start by just playing with each other and not penetration...thanks



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    After my 1st time I was kicking myself for not doing it sooner!

    The only way to know is to try it... and get rid of any labels you might use for yourself. They're worthless.


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    It took me over a year of < I shouldn't > before I decided I should but then it was still 4 or 5 weeks. I was over in DT Seattle twice a week and was seeing GG escorts when there. I did a lot of research and lucked out both that my 1st one was very fem. TS Pamela

    That is the big difference to me, if they vibe feminine I'm good, if vibe so-so or masculine I freeze up. I was worried sick whether I could touch a cock, much less suck.

    It turned out that I was like a moth to a flame, really loved it including getting topped. My only regret was not doing it sooner. I would recommend a Tgirl escort the first few times at least, they are very used to first timers and are generally very happy with whatever goes in the session.

    I myself feel that I am no longer fully straight, but moved toward bi yet it doesn't really matter to me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by tgirlluver234 View Post
    hey guys and gals
    I've dilemma and just wanted your opinion, Im in a situation whereby im an admirer of the fine form of the wonderful tgirl world.. i find myself turned on by looking at pics and reading about these find women, however im now wondering should i take it to the next level and perhaps meet one for fun.. im afraid if i do it may ruin the fantasy and im a bit scared of being considered gay just because enjoy ladies with that little something extra...i was wondering how you found your 1st expereince and would tgirls be reluctant to play with guy who perhaps would just like to start by just playing with each other and not penetration...thanks
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    Going on about it in your head just turns transgendered folks into something other than human. They (we) are people - just fuck 'em or don't. It's not something worth loosing sleep over. Flesh is flesh, is flesh.


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    Best worst decision I ever made. BEST because I loved it. Worst best because I cant stop thinking about tgirls. DO IT!



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    I didn't know I'd do it- didn't even consider it- until I met my ex.

    I didn't think twice once I looked into those eyes. All I wanted was her number, a date, and for her to call me papi.


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    I suggest you don’t overrate your first experience one way or the other. Sometimes (in anything) it takes a few shots to feel comfortable. And you know, life is too short to spoil it thinking about “ifs” and “buts”. That doesn’t mean you should throw yourself head down in anything, but if you have such a desire, I think you shouldn’t hesitate to fulfill it. Being “gay” or not doesn’t mean much of anything. But even if it was, you have the right to be whom and what you want to be. Just be yourself and forget what other people think. I often have this ancient Greek quote in my mind, from poet Pindar, which most people don’t understand: “Become who you are!” Go for what you want, or else it will slip away one way or the other.
    As to your first experience, once again, it’s difficult to give you any advice. It will depend on the circumstances. But just allowing yourself to “be”, just to stop repressing yourself should be a great relief anyways, imo… Be safe though, and have fun.


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    Let go of the whole "am I gay?" thing. If you were gay, you probably would already have made some clandestine visits to the bath house or hooked up online.

    As for the tgirls: GO FOR IT!!!!! But I suggest NOT starting with an escort. You will be much better off hooking up with someone who is in it for pleasure and not money.


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    Wow only with a few replies the overwhelming sense is to just go for it and take that chance or cock lol thanks all


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