View Poll Results: Have you come out?

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  • I am in the closet, nobody knows

    12 28.57%
  • Some people know

    13 30.95%
  • Everyone knows

    3 7.14%
  • I came out as straight

    12 28.57%
  • I came out as bisexual

    6 14.29%
  • I came out as gay

    1 2.38%
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  1. #1
    Givin ts the d since 2011 Junior Poster SheWantsTheD's Avatar
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    Default Coming Out... As Straight?

    This is a thread for the tranny chasers.
    The poll is multiple choice.

    Have any of you guys into transsexuals ever come out to people you know about this?
    Are you still in the closet or in denial about your love of trans women?
    How was it for you explaining that you are straight? Or did you explain things differently as I have?

    I found when I was telling people that I like transsexuals (I just said ladyboys) they first thought I like it up the bum or that I am gay or maybe all I need is a girlfriend who likes a bit of strap on. This was really making me laugh so to explain things easier I told them that I am Bisexual and that I like women and people who are in the process of becoming women and that I always play the man/dominant role and that I am not interested in men at all.

    So far everyone in my life from work to family knows except for my childhood friends who have always been very homophobic. But they are so far away that I never see them anymore so I don't know if there is any point in saying anything.


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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    People close enough to me knows. To me a girl is a girl and a t-girl is no different. I appreciate femininity, like any other straight man, for what it means, and I simply find hypocritical someone who act as if a beautiful girl wasn't just because she wasn't born with a vagina. I try my best to be honnest with myself, and others too when I find I should be.
    I know how some people are narrow minded, but they're the ones with a problem. You should never miss an opportunity to explain to them well, what the world is about...


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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    Quote Originally Posted by danthepoetman View Post
    You should never miss an opportunity to explain to them well, what the world is about...
    What the world is about?



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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    I think there should be an option for queer. I've told some people I like tgirls. I'm starting to be more open about my preferences.



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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    My only problem is, if anybody finds out, especially a baby momma or whatever, she will try to use it to slander me to my kids.

    Plus i still love pussy too. I'm not that type that prefers ts or women.


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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    Most know, but I don't make it obvious.


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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    I won't deny my love of tgirls, but I don't volunteer that info either.
    As a hetero man, it's kinda hard to explain to family and friends why you really dig TS women, in many cases more than GGs.

    Many can't get past the 'born a boy' part and then it's trying to explain your attraction isn't a gay thing necessarily.

    THe people my age in my family if I had to I guess I could tell, but the 70+ year olders would never understand.
    If I was ever in a this-is-it LTR with a TG, I'd tell who I had to and deal with it.


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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    I haven't had a sit-down-and-come-out with anybody, but just from discussions with a few friends and family, some of them know that I don't see any difference between cisgendered and transgendered women. In that vein, there's really no need for me to explain anything. Should I form a relationship with a transwoman, I'd gladly discuss it with anyone who asks about it, but it's not really that big a deal in my mind.


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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    Quote Originally Posted by FreddieGomez View Post
    My only problem is, if anybody finds out, especially a baby momma or whatever, she will try to use it to slander me to my kids.

    Plus i still love pussy too. I'm not that type that prefers ts or women.
    If the mother of your kids is the type to slander you she's going to find something, anything any way


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    Default Re: Coming Out... As Straight?

    Anything we go through as guys who admire ts absolutely pales in comparison to what the girls go through telling their friends family and co-workers so I don't have a lot of compassion to give out. My girlfriend knows, and is open to a 3some, most of my family and friends, it's not a big deal really.


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