Addicted

[giovanni_hotel]

I don't have a problem with straight men calling their attraction to trannies an 'addiction'.

All it means is that for a regular guy who grew up chasing chicks and pussy since puberty, to wake up one day and realize your attraction to TS is GREATER in many ways than your attraction to GGs can be mind-altering.

I've already noticed different levels of arousal I have when I'm with a GG compared to the times I've been with a tgirl. I can literally feel my heart beat out of my chest when I've messed around with a TS, and I haven't felt that way with a GG since I was a young teen over 20 years ago.

Maybe it's the newness, the scarcity of TS supply. I don't know.
But the feeling of addiction to tgirls, something you have no control over and just overwhelms you, IMO is very accurate.

[MacShreach]

Gotta say to the comment about looking at transsexuals as sex objects, mens first feeling towards anyone whether they are gay straight or trans orientated is a sexual one. People get too offended when someone sees them as a sex object. It's called attraction.

Men objectify everything. It's because we are the hunter/protectors. We make responsive classifications of environmental factors--threat/safe, good/bad, attractive/not attractive, will buy/won't buy etc almost instantly. Women do this far less.

However they can't really complain about what is an innate male characteristic any more than we can complain about them taking three hours and visiting 6 boutiques to buy a bikini top. Gatherers are naturally much more picky, that's all. Somewhere in the distant past, picking the wrong plant might have wiped half the tribe.

[MacShreach]

I don't have a problem with straight men calling their attraction to trannies an 'addiction'.

All it means is that for a regular guy who grew up chasing chicks and pussy since puberty, to wake up one day and realize your attraction to TS is GREATER in many ways than your attraction to GGs can be mind-altering.

I've already noticed different levels of arousal I have when I'm with a GG compared to the times I've been with a tgirl. I can literally feel my heart beat out of my chest when I've messed around with a TS, and I haven't felt that way with a GG since I was a young teen over 20 years ago.

Maybe it's the newness, the scarcity of TS supply. I don't know.
But the feeling of addiction to tgirls, something you have no control over and just overwhelms you, IMO is very accurate.

Giovanni, I have always thought your posts were thoughtful and often enlightening. You did it again.

[SheWantsTheD]

Gotta say to the comment about looking at transsexuals as sex objects, mens first feeling towards anyone whether they are gay straight or trans orientated is a sexual one. People get too offended when someone sees them as a sex object. It's called attraction.

I really hated this about transsexuals when I first started meeting them. I tried to treat them like normal girls and all they did was use me for sex. They didn't want to get to know me and they didn't want me to get to know them. All they wanted to know was how big my cock was and see more pics of my body and get me to fuck them in front of the mirror etc etc.
They view me as a sex object and nothing more. Then the same tgirls turn around and say we do it to them just because we watch them in porn. I don't treat people I meet in real life as if they are a porn star I treat them as people. Or at least I did at first. I left the scene for a few months but when I returned I came back accepting that I was a sex object and I decided I would treat them as such. But it wasn't the real me it was an act. I was always hopeful of finding one I could call my own girlfriend and now thats finally happening

I don't have a problem with straight men calling their attraction to trannies an 'addiction'.

All it means is that for a regular guy who grew up chasing chicks and pussy since puberty, to wake up one day and realize your attraction to TS is GREATER in many ways than your attraction to GGs can be mind-altering.

I've already noticed different levels of arousal I have when I'm with a GG compared to the times I've been with a tgirl. I can literally feel my heart beat out of my chest when I've messed around with a TS, and I haven't felt that way with a GG since I was a young teen over 20 years ago.

Maybe it's the newness, the scarcity of TS supply. I don't know.
But the feeling of addiction to tgirls, something you have no control over and just overwhelms you, IMO is very accurate.

[steeveX]

After a decade in this "scene" I would admit I was kinda addicted as well, but not any more. In fact, I am put off by so many aspects of this subculture these days I have lost almost all interest. Of course, I don't know what your deal exactly is, but as with many guys I lost interest and turned back to real females. My only very thin connection to this scene these days are half year visits to this forum, and even those get shorter every time.

[MacShreach]

After a decade in this "scene" I would admit I was kinda addicted as well, but not any more. In fact, I am put off by so many aspects of this subculture these days I have lost almost all interest. Of course, I don't know what your deal exactly is, but as with many guys I lost interest and turned back to real females. My only very thin connection to this scene these days are half year visits to this forum, and even those get shorter every time.

I think a lot of men dabble because it's different and exciting, but once it becomes normal and habitual, move on. Also I have certainly known a number of men who decided, after a long time getting off to TS porn, to hire a TS escort to 'top' them (against my advice), couldn't handle it and bugged out. And there are other guys who either get fed up of fucking anuses or who decide that being with a natal woman gives them that option too. Some guys are into TS until they decide they want to marry and have kids, and sadly for any TS they might be involved with, that's time up.

I'd be interested in knowing what the aspects of the subculture that put you off yourslf are though. (You'd be welcome to PM me that if you'd rather, I won't pass it on.)

[Tits McButts]

Sorry, Amber, what is 'age appropriate' in the US is not elsewhere. Just the way it is. Just because Americans see things one way doesn't mean we all have to. xx

Taking advantage of children that don't have the capacity to quite comprehend the situation is reprehensible irregardless of mutual consent. I'll agree that it's ridiculous that an 18 year old can go to jail for having a consensual relationship with a 17 year old, but most people aren't equipped to maturely deal with concepts of sex and successful relationships until they're into their twenties.

[MacShreach]

Taking advantage of children that don't have the capacity to quite comprehend the situation is reprehensible irregardless of mutual consent. I'll agree that it's ridiculous that an 18 year old can go to jail for having a consensual relationship with a 17 year old, but most people aren't equipped to maturely deal with concepts of sex and successful relationships until they're into their twenties.

And your point is? Amber and I were not discussing people under the age of twenty.

[Tits McButts]

Gotta say to the comment about looking at transsexuals as sex objects, mens first feeling towards anyone whether they are gay straight or trans orientated is a sexual one. People get too offended when someone sees them as a sex object. It's called attraction.

You got rocks in your head? Perhaps you have a point; the first illicit reaction to an attraction is physical, but how are you going to let that take over your entire line of communication and motive? You seem to suggest that you don't have the willpower to make it through a conversation without disrespecting a chick just because you've got chubbs. That's pretty pathetic.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I wouldn't call it an addiction...I lean more toward the term 'preference'. I still enjoy the beauty and interaction (socially and sexually) with GGs. However, I 'prefer' the community and experience of this very special class of ladies.