Addicted

[Valentine_80]

I'm 30, I live in London.

I've had 'real' girl girlfriends my whole adult life, one relationship lasting 5 years, another being 4 years, with the odd flings in between.

I have experienced dating with transsexuals in London, never an escort, and loved it.

It's actually starting send me crazy, the amount of time I think about tgirls. It's getting stupid, I've never been obsessed about anything.

I want children, I want to get married, but I don't think I'm ever going to stop this obsession I have? It will be unfair on the girl that I eventually end up with.

Anyone else have the same feelings?

I might try some sort of counselling.

[Saint_Frankenstein]

Why don't you just find a trans woman to settle down with and adopt?

[Valentine_80]

Yeah of course I've thought about that.

But I genuinely would like a biological child, I'm at that age now where I really want to settle down.

I have a good job, mortgage, feeling pretty settled.

Bored of the whole going out and partying.

I'm ready to chill out with someone now.

[danthepoetman]

Yeap, Valentine, you'll eventually have to make a choice. If you can't, seeking some help is always good.
If it really is something you need to do, well, there's always a surrogate mother, with an egg fertilized with your sperm... But one thing is certain to me: the worst you could do is to settle down with someone you don't completely desire, or with the thoughts of being with someone else, one girl or a whole lot of them.
All in all I think that if you find a girl whom you really fall for (g-girl or t-girl), all of this will probably seem much more simple; I mean, choosing shouldn't be so difficult in such circumstances...

[MacShreach]

Do some maths. You're thirty now. Find a gg, get married, have 2 kids with 2-3 years between. That means you're 35 before you're done breeding. You have to look after them and be there till they grow up, say 18. So you'll be 53 before you can find a tgirl to be with.

Personally, I think having kids was very much worth all those years. The first 18 or so were great anyway. It was even worth the last few miserable ones when my ex and I were only together for the kids. And, if I were 30 again, would I choose a transwoman as a lifetime partner? What if she turned back into a guy? That woudn't have worked.

It's a very personal decision, and I know I'll get flamed, but I would say, go with the GG and have kids. You never know, it might really defeat the odds and work. If it doesn't, stick with it till the kids are grown then call it quits, take an early retirement package and buy a condo in a nice part of Thailand or the RP, where you will be INUNDATED with gorgeous young transwomen just desperate to bounce on your cock.

[Valentine_80]

Do some maths. You're thirty now. Find a gg, get married, have 2 kids with 2-3 years between. That means you're 35 before you're done breeding. You have to look after them and be there till they grow up, say 18. So you'll be 53 before you can find a tgirl to be with.

Personally, I think having kids was very much worth all those years. The first 18 or so were great anyway. It was even worth the last few miserable ones when my ex and I were only together for the kids. And, if I were 30 again, would I choose a transwoman as a lifetime partner? What if she turned back into a guy? That woudn't have worked.

It's a very personal decision, and I know I'll get flamed, but I would say, go with the GG and have kids. You never know, it might really defeat the odds and work. If it doesn't, stick with it till the kids are grown then call it quits, take an early retirement package and buy a condo in a nice part of Thailand or the RP, where you will be INUNDATED with gorgeous young transwomen just desperate to bounce on your cock.

Wow! What a plan.

Problem is, I consider myself quite attractive at the moment. I'll be bald and fat by the time I'm 55 and will I still be able to pull the hot young ts girls by then? Probably not.

I'll end up old, alone and paying for sex.

[dderek123]

I'm going for the marry a TS and adopt children route.

I may regret this decision (you never know what may happen) but I love my partner. I've lived in Thailand for 5 years and ladyboys bouncing on your cock is great but it can be a lonely existence. I'm not 55 so maybe by then I wouldn't worry about that. At the moment, I'd rather be close to my family and the woman I love.

[MacShreach]

Wow! What a plan.

Problem is, I consider myself quite attractive at the moment. I'll be bald and fat by the time I'm 55 and will I still be able to pull the hot young ts girls by then? Probably not.

I'll end up old, alone and paying for sex.

YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE FAT AND OUT OF SHAPE AT FIFTY!!!!! Ok you might be bald, but so's Sean Connery FFS. Watch your diet, stay active, dress well. It's not so hard.

You will definitely be able to pull young Asian transwomen. Every observer I know of says the same thing: the trans population in LOS and RP is growing, not shirinking. Since almost NO local men will go near them except on the very very DL (so fuckin low they're sliding along the gutter IMO) you will still look like a very attractive proposition.

And since this masterful scheme will mean that you have kids, even when the urge leaves, you won't be alone.

[MacShreach]

I'm going for the marry a TS and adopt children route.

I may regret this decision (you never know what may happen) but I love my partner. I've lived in Thailand for 5 years and ladyboys bouncing on your cock is great but it can be a lonely existence. I'm not 55 so maybe by then I wouldn't worry about that. At the moment, I'd rather be close to my family and the woman I love.

Credit to you sir. I sincerely hope it works for you both.

I go beyond the simple cock-bouncing myself, I was just illustrating the fact that, as you must know, being over fifty does not equal 'on the shelf' when it comes to LBs.

[bluesoul]

i think a question you need to ask yourself is why you're so addicted to thinking about transsexuals. is it simply about sex or is it something else?

how do you know this addiction to thinking about them (or fantasizing) will go away after you start dating one or marrying?

Problem is, I consider myself quite attractive at the moment. I'll be bald and fat by the time I'm 55 and will I still be able to pull the hot young ts girls by then? Probably not.

I'll end up old, alone and paying for sex.

if you have lots of money @ 55, then you can always be a sugar daddy to one of the transsexuals and then at least you won't end up alone (but you'll be paying)