Got a new tgirlfriend!

[rjshemalelover]

Most of these questions you are asking are things you should be able to answer on your own. The way you treat a t-girl should be no differnt than you would treat a biological female in a relationship. And how you go about introducing her to people is between you and her but if she actually feels that she is female she is NOT going to want people to know her personal business. I have been in a relationship with a transgender girl for over 2 years. The best advice I can give you is to treat her with respect, be up front with her about anything in your past. Girls on other sites ect. (which you will have to cut ties to if you want the relationship to work)


The only real differences you may see in the relationship from a biological female is frequent mood swings if she takes hormones. And if she truley does want a serious relationship make sure thats what you want too because most t-girls who do want a serious relationship have been lied to and used by guys before you because it is hard for t-girls to find a man who actally want a serious relationship. (Thats advise coming from my girlfriend not me)

[Jericho]

Oh man, I feel so left out. Noone ever includes me.

OH CANADA!

[SheWantsTheD]

Most of these questions you are asking are things you should be able to answer on your own. The way you treat a t-girl should be no differnt than you would treat a biological female in a relationship. And how you go about introducing her to people is between you and her but if she actually feels that she is female she is NOT going to want people to know her personal business. I have been in a relationship with a transgender girl for over 2 years. The best advice I can give you is to treat her with respect, be up front with her about anything in your past. Girls on other sites ect. (which you will have to cut ties to if you want the relationship to work)

I noticed she doesn't like to hear anything about previous partners or experiences. She says she doesn't get jealous but I think really she does. We went to a club and another tgirl dropped something on the floor. I helped the girl find whatever it was using the light from my phone and then she kissed me on the cheek. I told my girl what happened and she took offense saying that I mean to get her jealous, but I just wanted her to know to watch out for that one is all.
Then later at the hotel she was arguing with me about the girl who kissed me on the cheek. She claimed that some of the lipstick was also on my lips but my girl is the only person I kissed that night. She said I was probably too drunk to remember if I was kissed on the lips. I really didn't!
I was saying it must have been her own lipstick and she just thought it was different in the lighting but she is adamant that it wasn't.

She also argued with me about how I dealt with a guy that tried to make a move on her right in front of me as we were walking to the club. I'm there with her and her friend and this guy walking past grabs her arm and tries to chat her up. I simply shouldered the guy just to get him to back off but she made a big deal about it later saying that she thought I was going to get into a fight and get arrested. She said she was going to say that I'm her boyfriend but I didn't give her a chance. I apologised for that one since I've never been in such a situation before. I never went to a club with a genetic girl before on a night but if I was out in public with a genetic girl nobody ever tried to make a move on them in front of me. I was offended and if I wasn't such a calm person I would have done alot worse than shoulder him.

So yeah there have been some arguments, but the funniest thing is she was upset about one more thing. She asked me what it was she said to me in the first bar we were in when I was on my first drink but I couldn't remember and this one seemed to really upset her more than anything. Apparently she said to me that she loves me and I didn't acknowledge it. But then she has texted me two or three times now saying stuff like 'love you lots xx' so I just thought it was one of those mannerisms that people have, just a way of saying I miss you or something. But it turns out she is saying that she really does love me. I think its too soon but that is beside the point.
So I just ended up explaining to her that I am new to all of this and I'm sure i did handle alot of stuff in the wrong way that night but I really do care about her and I thought what I was doing at the time was the right thing. I mean, we are still getting to know each other and in time we'll both know how the other likes things to be handled right?
And so the rest of the night got all steamy and the morning aswell I was trying to wake her up so we could leave the hotel but she wasn't waking up no matter what I tried. So I got horny and started to kiss her and fondle her but she wasn't waking up still though she was getting excited in her black lace panties.

I never gave her oral before but since she was asleep and I was so aroused looking at her I thought I'd wake her up porno style and so I gave her O but I must be shit at it because she still didn't wake up!
It was only when I started to dry hump her that she finally woke and everything has been all good since then.

She says she really enjoyed the night out and that the arguments were small and silly. She keeps saying she feels like its all a dream and her life is perfect now that I am here and shes really happy for the dvds I brought her and all the little things I've been doing to show an interest in her transition and her life in general, trying to be supportive and make things easier and make her happy.

We have a long road but I think I'm in there with her, its just these damn fireworks, I need to learn how to avoid lighting them!

The only real differences you may see in the relationship from a biological female is frequent mood swings if she takes hormones. And if she truley does want a serious relationship make sure thats what you want too because most t-girls who do want a serious relationship have been lied to and used by guys before you because it is hard for t-girls to find a man who actally want a serious relationship. (Thats advise coming from my girlfriend not me)

Well I think the part about being lied to and it being hard to find someone good is universal. Its like a virus though, one person gets hurt and then in time they go off and end up hurting someone else. And so it goes.
I was very loyal and romantic in my youth, but these girls smashed my heart over and over. Now its a pig heart or something I don't know lol, but I'm trying to do right by this girl because she is different. And she deserves the best of me.

[nysprod]

I believe none of this and until there are a lot of photos, I won't.

[bluesoul]

I noticed she doesn't like to hear anything about previous partners or experiences. She says she doesn't get jealous but I think really she does. We went to a club and another tgirl dropped something on the floor. I helped the girl find whatever it was using the light from my phone and then she kissed me on the cheek. I told my girl what happened and she took offense saying that I mean to get her jealous, but I just wanted her to know to watch out for that one is all.

dude, you need to start reading the writing on the wall- that other tgirl obviously wanted the d. whenever i go to the club and help a chick pick anything off the floor with my phone i'm getting laid automatically afterwards. it's like etiquette at this point.

your second mistake was telling your tgirlfriend. she obviously knew what time it was (not literally but figuratively) and didn't appreciate it.

next time do what i do: just tell her you saw a bitch getting outta pocket and had to correct that shit asap

[MacShreach]

I noticed she doesn't like to hear anything about previous partners or experiences. She says she doesn't get jealous but I think really she does. We went to a club and another tgirl dropped something on the floor. I helped the girl find whatever it was using the light from my phone and then she kissed me on the cheek. I told my girl what happened and she took offense saying that I mean to get her jealous, but I just wanted her to know to watch out for that one is all.
Then later at the hotel she was arguing with me about the girl who kissed me on the cheek. She claimed that some of the lipstick was also on my lips but my girl is the only person I kissed that night. She said I was probably too drunk to remember if I was kissed on the lips. I really didn't!
I was saying it must have been her own lipstick and she just thought it was different in the lighting but she is adamant that it wasn't.

She also argued with me about how I dealt with a guy that tried to make a move on her right in front of me as we were walking to the club. I'm there with her and her friend and this guy walking past grabs her arm and tries to chat her up. I simply shouldered the guy just to get him to back off but she made a big deal about it later saying that she thought I was going to get into a fight and get arrested. She said she was going to say that I'm her boyfriend but I didn't give her a chance. I apologised for that one since I've never been in such a situation before. I never went to a club with a genetic girl before on a night but if I was out in public with a genetic girl nobody ever tried to make a move on them in front of me. I was offended and if I wasn't such a calm person I would have done alot worse than shoulder him.

So yeah there have been some arguments, but the funniest thing is she was upset about one more thing. She asked me what it was she said to me in the first bar we were in when I was on my first drink but I couldn't remember and this one seemed to really upset her more than anything. Apparently she said to me that she loves me and I didn't acknowledge it. But then she has texted me two or three times now saying stuff like 'love you lots xx' so I just thought it was one of those mannerisms that people have, just a way of saying I miss you or something. But it turns out she is saying that she really does love me. I think its too soon but that is beside the point.
So I just ended up explaining to her that I am new to all of this and I'm sure i did handle alot of stuff in the wrong way that night but I really do care about her and I thought what I was doing at the time was the right thing. I mean, we are still getting to know each other and in time we'll both know how the other likes things to be handled right?
And so the rest of the night got all steamy and the morning aswell I was trying to wake her up so we could leave the hotel but she wasn't waking up no matter what I tried. So I got horny and started to kiss her and fondle her but she wasn't waking up still though she was getting excited in her black lace panties.

I never gave her oral before but since she was asleep and I was so aroused looking at her I thought I'd wake her up porno style and so I gave her O but I must be shit at it because she still didn't wake up!
It was only when I started to dry hump her that she finally woke and everything has been all good since then.

She says she really enjoyed the night out and that the arguments were small and silly. She keeps saying she feels like its all a dream and her life is perfect now that I am here and shes really happy for the dvds I brought her and all the little things I've been doing to show an interest in her transition and her life in general, trying to be supportive and make things easier and make her happy.

We have a long road but I think I'm in there with her, its just these damn fireworks, I need to learn how to avoid lighting them!


Well I think the part about being lied to and it being hard to find someone good is universal. Its like a virus though, one person gets hurt and then in time they go off and end up hurting someone else. And so it goes.
I was very loyal and romantic in my youth, but these girls smashed my heart over and over. Now its a pig heart or something I don't know lol, but I'm trying to do right by this girl because she is different. And she deserves the best of me.

The hormones are definitely an issue but there's also a lot of self-questioning, I think. Transwomen pick over stuff that an ordinary girl would just blow off, you know? It can make them really sensitive. I mean I never met an ordinary girl yet who was worried about being challenged going to the bathroom...you mix these insecurities in with the 'mones and it can get volatile.

Oh btw you probably figured this out already, but she is almost certainly also an expert mind-reader...

[Tim&Erin]

Most of these questions you are asking are things you should be able to answer on your own. The way you treat a t-girl should be no differnt than you would treat a biological female in a relationship. And how you go about introducing her to people is between you and her but if she actually feels that she is female she is NOT going to want people to know her personal business. I have been in a relationship with a transgender girl for over 2 years. The best advice I can give you is to treat her with respect, be up front with her about anything in your past. Girls on other sites ect. (which you will have to cut ties to if you want the relationship to work)


The only real differences you may see in the relationship from a biological female is frequent mood swings if she takes hormones. And if she truley does want a serious relationship make sure thats what you want too because most t-girls who do want a serious relationship have been lied to and used by guys before you because it is hard for t-girls to find a man who actally want a serious relationship. (Thats advise coming from my girlfriend not me)

You hit the nail on the head in this reply. I am in a similar situation and my girlfriend has said the exact same thing. The advice is sound. I treat my girl no different than I would any girl and it works for us. Some of my friends know but we agreed on who to tell. My family does not not know and we have no intentions of changing that. I left those decisions in her hands as it was her life, not mine to decide whether or not to disclose.

[MacShreach]

You hit the nail on the head in this reply. I am in a similar situation and my girlfriend has said the exact same thing. The advice is sound. I treat my girl no different than I would any girl and it works for us. Some of my friends know but we agreed on who to tell. My family does not not know and we have no intentions of changing that. I left those decisions in her hands as it was her life, not mine to decide whether or not to disclose.

I agree

[amberskyi]

I believe none of this and until there are a lot of photos, I won't.

It's really none of your business...how arbor you post photos of your girl..actually don't cause that would make you an asshole.
God did i just defend shewantsthed?!?

[amberskyi]

The hormones are definitely an issue but there's also a lot of self-questioning, I think. Transwomen pick over stuff that an ordinary girl would just blow off, you know? It can make them really sensitive. I mean I never met an ordinary girl yet who was worried about being challenged going to the bathroom...you mix these insecurities in with the 'mones and it can get volatile.

Oh btw you probably figured this out already, but she is almost certainly also an expert mind-reader...

Hormones really don't have as much to play as you guys think.after long term use you balance out on them, your body adjusts and that includes the brain.
I'm sure y'all know bat shit crazy genetic girls no matter what the month lol.i know i do