Got a new tgirlfriend!

[SheWantsTheD]

Okay, I like you guys so I come to you for help on this.
Before now it was all sex but suddenly I got feelings for this one tgirl.
So I just started seeing this new girl and it looks like we are going to be exclusive.
I've not had an official tgirlfriend before, only one nighters, fuckbuddies, friendships and escorts.
People at work know that I like women and ts but have only ever seen me with gg.
How do I go about introducing my new girl to them?

I also told some of my fuckbuddies and got various reactions. Some seemed jealous and said it will never work. Others gave their blessing. Some still want me to come and play with them on the side.
I want to be faithful though so how do I best deal with these other tgirls from various sites?
Should I delete those profiles? Should I cut off people I have slept with and just keep the ones I haven't as friends?
Or should I keep the profiles but just update them to say I'm in an exclusive relationship and not looking for anyone new?
What do you all think is the best approach for a new admirer and tgirl couple?

[Teydyn]

How do I go about introducing my new girl to them?

"Hi, this is Klaus, erm, Linda. She used to be a man"
or
"Hi, this is my new Girlfriend Linda"

Which one do YOU think you should pick?

[MacShreach]

"Hi, this is Klaus, erm, Linda. She used to be a man"
or
"Hi, this is my new Girlfriend Linda"

Which one do YOU think you should pick?

Seconded.

Just remember that it's for her, not you, to decide who gets told and when they get told. Some girls want it all in the open right up front and can even get shirty if you don't tell, others want to keep their history quiet. To an extent this depends on how passable they are.

Discuss, beforehand, what you are going to do if you decide to say nothing, she gets spooked and some person who needs better manners actually challenges her or you. I mean, she may not really want you to deck the bastard. Whatever you decide together, stick to it. The first public outing is the most stressful.

You really need to discuss it with her with no pressure either way.

BTW, since you have never had a serious relationship beforel, I would share that in my experience, tgirls can be very sensitive, actually more than ordinary girls, so be prepared for, ummmmmmm, emotional fireworks, from time to time. (With luck you'll be getting them in bed too, so it's a fair trade.)

[nysprod]

Okay, I like you guys so I come to you for help on this.

I want to be faithful though so how do I best deal with these other tgirls from various sites?

What sites are you referring to?

[Willie Escalade]

What sites are you referring to?

I'd assume sites like TGPersonals and such...

[Prospero]

Why don't you and the lady figure it out. She's a girl. None of your friends have any right to know what is in her pants ... or anything else about her she doesn't want revealed. Show her respect.

[dderek123]

[1] I want to be faithful though so how do I best deal with these other tgirls from various sites?
[2] Should I delete those profiles?
[3] Should I cut off people I have slept with and just keep the ones I haven't as friends?
[4] Or should I keep the profiles but just update them to say I'm in an exclusive relationship and not looking for anyone new?
[5] What do you all think is the best approach for a new admirer and tgirl couple?

1) If the relationship gets monogamous it's best to move on. My rule of thumb is to find out if your new partner is not comfortable knowing of your sex life prior establishing the relationship. If it makes them real uncomfortable and you want to stay with her then moving on would probably be a wise choice.

2) Yep. If she is not cool with all of that and found out about it she wouldn't be too pleased. Trust in the relationship would take a hit. Maybe 65 HP.

3) Don't keep them as friends if you decide to move on. Once your new SO finds out it could make her incredibly jealous.

4) I would update them explaining your new situation and then delete everything. My current partner found an old message on my facebook from years ago before we met from another ladyboy. She got really upset. But hey that's just me.

5) Honesty, transparency and building trust. I think this is best since she is TS she'll be mindful of guys that just want to use her for sex and will bullshit and lie to do so. In my experience, it takes a while to break down those barriers to be more intimate.

Good luck!

[nysprod]

I'd assume sites like TGPersonals and such...

In NY, TGPersonals had about 7 profiles, 3 of which were escorts, before you got into people who had joined 300 days ago and more.

"And such"?

[yosi]

Okay, I like you guys so I come to you for help on this.
Before now it was all sex but suddenly I got feelings for this one tgirl.
So I just started seeing this new girl and it looks like we are going to be exclusive.
I've not had an official tgirlfriend before, only one nighters, fuckbuddies, friendships and escorts.
People at work know that I like women and ts but have only ever seen me with gg.
How do I go about introducing my new girl to them?

I also told some of my fuckbuddies and got various reactions. Some seemed jealous and said it will never work. Others gave their blessing. Some still want me to come and play with them on the side.
I want to be faithful though so how do I best deal with these other tgirls from various sites?
Should I delete those profiles? Should I cut off people I have slept with and just keep the ones I haven't as friends?
Or should I keep the profiles but just update them to say I'm in an exclusive relationship and not looking for anyone new?
What do you all think is the best approach for a new admirer and tgirl couple?

Introduce her as your new girl .

what to do with your past profiles if your intent exclusive relations with her? do the same as you expect her to do about her past profiles.

[Prospero]

This guy is either attention seeking or hugely emotionally immature.
As i said before - sort it out between you.
Don't come on here asking for help.