Well, I guess my life is over...

[amberskyi]

Ok, I can see where you're coming from however, I thought you might be "bigger" than this.

The guy is freaking out because he's now at high risk of being HIV+...he's obviously very angry with himself for being so stupid and careless...so don't take what he said in his self-loathing diatribe personally.

Few of us are gonna be thinking clearly when we're panicking, so cut him some slack.

Actually the girl is more at risk than he is.i wonder if she's freaking out talking about how disgusting and perverse men are to other men lol.
Any way this isn't the ops first post along these lines.I'm sure the girls have enough people telling them that there's something wrong with them.who wants to come read it here from the very men that are supposed to "admire" them.
Also I'm not taking it personally per se because i know we're awesome and anyone who can't see that is the one with the issues.I'm just calling out bullshit when i see it.

[BiBoyinBeantown]

A ship is safe in port, but that's not what ships are for.

Yeah, you took a dumb risk. Happens to the best of us. Odds are pretty low you actually caught anything, but go get tested anyway. If you're having sex with escorts, or with random hookups, you should probably be getting tested regularly as it is.

And if you took what you think was an unacceptable risk, then don't do that again. Learn your lesson and stop beating yourself up over it.

Other than that, if you're really experiencing guilt or shame or self-loathing over wanting to have sex with transwomen...can't help you there, get to a therapist's office?

[Prince Dan Albert]

Since we are talking science here.... is the assumption actually true, that TS-escorts can be counted to be HIV+ ? In Europe or USA, I mean- talking bout Brazil or Africa even I am not THAT naive.
But I mean, nobody would naturally assume that a high class female escort in, say, Paris or Rome should be positive - so why does it go with T-Girls by default?

Its a real question, I dont want to irk someone or something!

[Tits McButts]

Since we are talking science here.... is the assumption actually true, that TS-escorts can be counted to be HIV+ ? In Europe or USA, I mean- talking bout Brazil or Africa even I am not THAT naive.
But I mean, nobody would naturally assume that a high class female escort in, say, Paris or Rome should be positive - so why does it go with T-Girls by default?

Its a real question, I dont want to irk someone or something!

Getting an STD from hittin' it raw is always a moderate risk. Bareback with an escort is even riskier. Outside of the 'long' in a longterm relationship, it's a commonly accepted bad idea.

You asked why HIV is specifically associated with trans providers. HIV and AIDS have been associated with gay culture since the 1980's and likely by some misassociation, trans culture as well. I imagine that much of it is in Flaco's head, though. Anyone who recoils in guilt or shame after a session is just confused; a few apples short of a bushel, perhaps.

Up_For_It, Amber, and Westheangelino are all spot-on. I can't say anything they haven't. Flaco's a bonafide dumb ass.

[dc_guy_75]

Even if the OP did get HIV, drugs would allow him to have an average lifespan (think Magic Johnson).

I would presume there are many, many worse things in life than hearing you have HIV (brain tumor, pancreatic or lung cancer etc)

As for being consumed by guilt, I guess he's simply ashamed of his feelings, which will likely diminish with age.

[Prince Dan Albert]

Getting an STD from hittin' it raw is always a moderate risk. Bareback with an escort is even riskier. Outside of the 'long' in a longterm relationship, it's a commonly accepted bad idea.

You asked why HIV is specifically associated with trans providers. HIV and AIDS have been associated with gay culture since the 1980's and likely by some misassociation, trans culture as well. I imagine that much of it is in Flaco's head, though. Anyone who recoils in guilt or shame after a session is just confused; a few apples short of a bushel, perhaps.

Up_For_It, Amber, and Westheangelino are all spot-on. I can't say anything they haven't. Flaco's a bonafide dumb ass.

thanks for the reply!

[danthepoetman]

I've been feeling like my life is over since 14, or something like that. Man, the fun part is beggining...

[Tits McButts]

I've been feeling like my life is over since 14, or something like that. Man, the fun part is beggining...

Wow; your avatar pic sucks dude.

[danthepoetman]

Wow; your avatar pic sucks dude.

And yours is great, Mr Butt...

[Prospero]

I like Dan's avatar - twas, as I recall, the work of another member here who now seldom posts. Too stoned I suspect.