Does a TS have an obligation to tell a potential partner her TS status?

[Winkle]

Does a TS have an obligation to tell a potential partner her TS status? I had this discussion with a TS and she said she would but felt no obligation to, which I felt was a bit of a contradiction. I said yes.

So what say you?

[GroobySteven]

I believe before it became physical, absolutely.

[Winkle]

I believe before it became physical, absolutely.

If she was a post op?

[GroobySteven]

If she was a post op?

Yep.

[Ms.Stepford]

No. Never.

Most people really don't matter. If I were post op I wouldn't tell any of my deliberate one night stands, the same way I don't tell every guy on the street who obviously wants to fuck me.

[GroobySteven]

No. Never.

Most people really don't matter. If I were post op I wouldn't tell any of my deliberate one night stands, the same way I don't tell every guy on the street who obviously wants to fuck me.

Roll the dice ... load one bullet in the chamber and spin the barrel.
It's not an excuse for people's prejudices or behavior - but it's a fact that girls who have "tricked" guys into believing they're not a trans, have ended up hurt or killed.

[bluesoul]

No. Never.

Most people really don't matter. If I were post op I wouldn't tell any of my deliberate one night stands, the same way I don't tell every guy on the street who obviously wants to fuck me.

the question said potential partner not "every guy on the street who obviously wants to fuck me". also, if you say most people really don't matter- don't you mean people that are interested in transsexuals? because those that aren't, wouldn't be in danger of being deceived.

[Ms.Stepford]

the question said potential partner not "every guy on the street who obviously wants to fuck me".

I wouldn't feel obligated to tell either, in the exact same way.

My trans status doesn't affect them at all.

also, if you say most people really don't matter- don't you mean people that are interested in transsexuals? because those that aren't, wouldn't be in danger of being deceived.

Huh? I don't really know what you're talking about. If I were post op, either would be potential fucks, and neither of them would be in danger. They thought they were getting proper laid with a woman, and that's what they got.

Roll the dice ... load one bullet in the chamber and spin the barrel.
It's not an excuse for people's prejudices or behavior - but it's a fact that girls who have "tricked" guys into believing they're not a trans, have ended up hurt or killed.

I'm absolutely willing to deal with the consequences if it turns out they're assholes.

[GroobySteven]

I'm absolutely willing to deal with the consequences if it turns out they're assholes.

You're willing to take a bullet in the head or being set on fire, just so you can get your rocks off with a guy who doesn't know you're trans? This is like the extreme opposite to extreme tranny chasers.

[Ms.Stepford]

I'm willing to take my chances. I've probably been in worse situations.