Does a TS have an obligation to tell a potential partner her TS status?

[amberskyi]

Imagine i'm a man of good character, i fall in love with you, plan on starting a family, getting married, having kids, all that traditional stuff, do you think is fair not to tell me you are a transsexual? WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE YOU?

Question? So does your wife know about your interest in transsexuals or if not already married do you plan on telling your future wife?
There are so many guys on this forum who aren't honest with their partners about their thing for ts girls (some even see ts escorts) but why isn't anyone bothering them for their deceitful ways??stop picking on her.

[bunzy]

As do i, what i don't believe tho is that any one group of people are more deceitful than another

Yeah, your right on that one, my generalization was not of a good taste, i'm sorry if i offended anyone, but my point in this case is that "honesty is the best policy"

[RyderMonroe]

Does a TS have an obligation to tell a potential partner her TS status? I had this discussion with a TS and she said she would but felt no obligation to, which I felt was a bit of a contradiction. I said yes.

So what say you?

not at all.

i think its probably the smart thing to do but I definitely don't think its morally wrong to not tell someone you're trans.

[GroobySteven]

Question? So does your wife know about your interest in transsexuals or if not already married do you plan on telling your future wife?
There are so many guys on this forum who aren't honest with their partners about their thing for ts girls (some even see ts escorts) but why isn't anyone bothering them for their deceitful ways??stop picking on her.

Two completely different topics Amber. That's poor argument to bring one in, to defend the other.

[Ms.Stepford]

You're willing to put yourself in those situations when clearly, you wouldn't need to?

This is all hypothetical. It's about freedom and principle. I shouldn't have to be concerned with the fact that people might be irrationally prejudiced against me.

Thankfully, I expect Darwin has already put you out of the gene pool.

Are you kidding me? My genes are quite exquisite. I'm very well adapted to any situation, obviously smart as hell -just maybe a little crazy, but it's a compelling character trait.

It's a tragedy that I won't be able to have and love natural offspring, thank you very much. That was kind of a privileged and cruel thing to say.

It's people like you who give transsexuals a bad rap.

I'm way too young for that, and as a Dionysian priestess, I'm not subject to mainstream society's "raps" anyway.

[bluesoul]

Huh? I don't really know what you're talking about. If I were post op, either would be potential fucks, and neither of them would be in danger. They thought they were getting proper laid with a woman, and that's what they got.

actually it isn't. in fact, you said yourself "they thought" they were getting laid with a woman. what someone thinks and what is indeed fact are two different things.

although to your credit, i will say on this forum there are members who say they don't see a difference between women and transsexual women and in that case, i can see how you come to this train of thought.

[GroobySteven]

i think its probably the smart thing to do but I definitely don't think its morally wrong to not tell someone you're trans.

Morally I don't give a shit about - but not knowing the reaction of the other person - or their personal history, then nobody should put them or the other person, in that position.
Also if they wanted to start a relationship, then the foundation should be honesty.

[amberskyi]

Two completely different topics Amber. That's poor argument to bring one in, to defend the other.

Deceit is deceit

[Ms.Stepford]

i think its probably the smart thing to do but I definitely don't think its morally wrong to not tell someone you're trans.

In a perfectly practical sense, this is how I feel.

[RyderMonroe]

Morally I don't give a shit about - but not knowing the reaction of the other person - or their personal history, then nobody should put them or the other person, in that position.
Also if they wanted to start a relationship, then the foundation should be honesty.

I agree. But the reason its smarter to tell them is for the girl's safety. I agree with Ms. Stepford in that she shouldn't have to be responsible for some fuck's irrational prejudices.