The "Real" Dita Dior Info

[christianxxx]

thanks for the kind words

[nysprod]

Christian has made a very elequent argument, and an interesting perspective...but I think that what's being said between the lines is that there is no going back to life as it was before porn...

[asianphoenixx]

porn/escorting/sex is a tough business on many levels. there is no guidebook for getting started or navigating through it. Things that don't enter your mind as potential obstacles/roadblocks/problems become HUGE later on.

I too didn't realize that my real name would get out there, but I was quickly disabused of that notion soon after my first 2 scenes came out. Real life friends/acquaintances know me and know my real name and they talk (and clearly watch porn) and one thing leads to another...

11 years later and the whole world knows, my entire family knows, my entire classmates from high school & college knows, all of my teammates know, the kids I taught and coached know.

This is not the way I would have liked it, but it is still a fact. You can't undo decisions that have already been made. Now I have an obligation that since I have inextricably linked my real name with my porn career, that I MUST earn every single last penny that I can from this business and make sure that I didn't waste these years by leaving the sex industry with less of a (financial) future than when I entered into it.

That's what I would tell Dita or anyone else who has already entered the business. There is no putting the lid on the box. Whether you continue on in the sex industry and people know your real name & stage name, or you get out and make minimum wage....people still know your real name & stage name. The only difference is that if you get out of the industry early, you get 100 percent of the stigma and reap very little of the benefits (increased financial security and/or quality of living). Every performer should read that last sentence and understand its an indisputable fact.

I feel badly for my family sometimes, having to live with the stigma of having a son/brother/nephew/friend thats in "dirty" porno. But I am an adult and make my own adult decisions. For the past 10 years I make six figures annually, I travel the world, I work when I want, I don't have a boss, I make my own schedule, and I have sex with beautiful TS and GG all the time. Before porn, I was making 30,000 a year, bored, aimless, 70k debt from 2 student loans for different degrees, driving a beat up car, maxed out a 5000 CC, and was close to moving back in with my parents at age 26 after moving out at 18 after high school. What choice did I have really?

okay sob story over, move along people, nothing to see here. I wish you well Dita...safe travels and I still enjoyed our time together last year in Toronto.

Good for you! It must be tough, but hey..you have made it along the way. Bravo!

I just hope people have more appreciation towards us who work in this line of business, escorting is included

[IWasHerxxxx]

porn/escorting/sex is a tough business on many levels. there is no guidebook for getting started or navigating through it. Things that don't enter your mind as potential obstacles/roadblocks/problems become HUGE later on.

I too didn't realize that my real name would get out there, but I was quickly disabused of that notion soon after my first 2 scenes came out. Real life friends/acquaintances know me and know my real name and they talk (and clearly watch porn) and one thing leads to another...

11 years later and the whole world knows, my entire family knows, my entire classmates from high school & college knows, all of my teammates know, the kids I taught and coached know.

This is not the way I would have liked it, but it is still a fact. You can't undo decisions that have already been made. Now I have an obligation that since I have inextricably linked my real name with my porn career, that I MUST earn every single last penny that I can from this business and make sure that I didn't waste these years by leaving the sex industry with less of a (financial) future than when I entered into it.

That's what I would tell Dita or anyone else who has already entered the business. There is no putting the lid on the box. Whether you continue on in the sex industry and people know your real name & stage name, or you get out and make minimum wage....people still know your real name & stage name. The only difference is that if you get out of the industry early, you get 100 percent of the stigma and reap very little of the benefits (increased financial security and/or quality of living). Every performer should read that last sentence and understand its an indisputable fact.

I feel badly for my family sometimes, having to live with the stigma of having a son/brother/nephew/friend thats in "dirty" porno. But I am an adult and make my own adult decisions. For the past 10 years I make six figures annually, I travel the world, I work when I want, I don't have a boss, I make my own schedule, and I have sex with beautiful TS and GG all the time. Before porn, I was making 30,000 a year, bored, aimless, 70k debt from 2 student loans for different degrees, driving a beat up car, maxed out a 5000 CC, and was close to moving back in with my parents at age 26 after moving out at 18 after high school. What choice did I have really?

okay sob story over, move along people, nothing to see here. I wish you well Dita...safe travels and I still enjoyed our time together last year in Toronto.

Thank-you Christian.
Your completely right and means alot for hearing this from coming from you.

As for Tia I better see you soon! I know your going to Toronto this month or something and I won't be there. But I am almost certain I will be going to Europe with Lola next year in March or April. I hope we all can meet up in Istanbul. Congratulations on the new twins, always looking on top of your game. xoxo

[Ben]

porn/escorting/sex is a tough business on many levels. there is no guidebook for getting started or navigating through it. Things that don't enter your mind as potential obstacles/roadblocks/problems become HUGE later on.

I too didn't realize that my real name would get out there, but I was quickly disabused of that notion soon after my first 2 scenes came out. Real life friends/acquaintances know me and know my real name and they talk (and clearly watch porn) and one thing leads to another...

11 years later and the whole world knows, my entire family knows, my entire classmates from high school & college knows, all of my teammates know, the kids I taught and coached know.

This is not the way I would have liked it, but it is still a fact. You can't undo decisions that have already been made. Now I have an obligation that since I have inextricably linked my real name with my porn career, that I MUST earn every single last penny that I can from this business and make sure that I didn't waste these years by leaving the sex industry with less of a (financial) future than when I entered into it.

That's what I would tell Dita or anyone else who has already entered the business. There is no putting the lid on the box. Whether you continue on in the sex industry and people know your real name & stage name, or you get out and make minimum wage....people still know your real name & stage name. The only difference is that if you get out of the industry early, you get 100 percent of the stigma and reap very little of the benefits (increased financial security and/or quality of living). Every performer should read that last sentence and understand its an indisputable fact.

I feel badly for my family sometimes, having to live with the stigma of having a son/brother/nephew/friend thats in "dirty" porno. But I am an adult and make my own adult decisions. For the past 10 years I make six figures annually, I travel the world, I work when I want, I don't have a boss, I make my own schedule, and I have sex with beautiful TS and GG all the time. Before porn, I was making 30,000 a year, bored, aimless, 70k debt from 2 student loans for different degrees, driving a beat up car, maxed out a 5000 CC, and was close to moving back in with my parents at age 26 after moving out at 18 after high school. What choice did I have really?

okay sob story over, move along people, nothing to see here. I wish you well Dita...safe travels and I still enjoyed our time together last year in Toronto.

Interesting....
Christian, as you write: "I don't have a boss." This is enticing to most people, of course.
I could only imagine that friends etc. would consider it: "dirty" porno.
But it isn't illegal. Nor should it be.
People may wish that you would've pursued a different career path, as it were. But we do make our own choices. To an extent. I mean, if university were free, well, a lot of people wouldn't have to.... Well, here the legendary activist and academic Noam Chomsky elucidates why universities aren't free... at around the 2 minute mark:

[danthepoetman]

You're a very courageous, bright, lovely young woman, Heidi. You were a little goddess as Dita, it seems to me you're even more of a special being as yourself. Not only are you a beautiful, intelligent, successful woman, you also have been through things most people cannot even envision. There's not a slight doubt in my mind you will be successful at anything you do, Heidi..

[Bribi]

But I posted since I'm sick and tired of people picking at me

Picking at you?
You want to recall you why I act like that with you? What started all that?



When I explained that it was just a question and that I was not disrespecting you, all you could say was "Big fuck you to you too."
Who's picking on who now?!

So trust me, you have what you deserve for being so cunty. And probably not enough.

[maxpower]

Picking at you?
You want to recall you why I act like that with you? What started all that?

When I explained that it was just a question and that I was not disrespecting you, all you could say was "Big fuck you to you too."
Who's picking on who now?!

So trust me, you have what you deserve for being so cunty. And probably not enough.

You're responding to something she said 7 months ago? With screen shots at the ready, no less? Wow. Do you need a wagon to help you carry that grudge around?

[dderek123]

[moonunit7]

Christian, you probably already know this, but you have so many reasons to feel good about your decision to get into porn.
For every person who considers what you do as "dirty", unethical and un-christian (pardon the pun), there are a lot of more people who consciously, or unconsciously thank you and admire you. What you and other porn stars do is give the average person a chance to release sexual tension that, if bottled up, usually leads to bad decisions at some point.

Think how awkward, awful and bleak the world would be without any form of porn. People would get so sexually frustrated and deprived, the result would almost surely lead to violence (see Puritans, Taliban, etc...). I don't care what anyone says, but making love (or even just having sex) with another person is a damn site better than killing them.

There are a shit ton of guys who would love to be in your shoes, whether they would admit to it or not. Everytime you fuck some beautiful tgirl, we all live vicariously through you and for a moment (maybe 40-50 seconds) we experience an amazing feeling of bliss. For that, you get a major fist pump.