We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight

[Tim&Erin]

The way I look at it is I gave up trying to figure it out because it really didn't matter. Those are labels. As far as I am concerned if you are with someone and you are happy then the rest doesn't matter. My gf and I have discussed this and we finally said f*** it and live our lives the way we want to without trying to figure out what I am. Her transition journey would be a much heavier trip than anything I could come up with. Just my thoughts.

[nysprod]

Anytime!

So what's not straight about how you see the curve of my waist to my ass and want to fuck me?

Nothing...but I would want to give you head first...

[bluesoul]

The way I look at it is I gave up trying to figure it out because it really didn't matter. Those are labels. As far as I am concerned if you are with someone and you are happy then the rest doesn't matter. My gf and I have discussed this and we finally said f*** it and live our lives the way we want to without trying to figure out what I am. Her transition journey would be a much heavier trip than anything I could come up with. Just my thoughts.

i think that's a great way to live, but i'm just curious: what do you write when you get forums that request your orientation? do you just write "i don't care what i am" or something like that?

[amberskyi]

So if a woman has an enlarged clitoris (like 2 to 3 inches) is going down on her gay?
If you have vaginal sex with a trans man is that heterosexual?
If your gg partner fucks you with a strap on what's that?
Or if your gg girlfriend is intersexed with a vaginia but has testicles internally?
You see how stupid shit like this is smh

[Ms.Stepford]

Nothing...but I would want to give you head first...

Nothing wrong with a gentleman making a lady happy

[Tim&Erin]

Actually never had that happen. This is the only one I am on. Good question though. If they had a box for whatever I would hit that one. Lol

[nysprod]

i don't think gay means you are interested in male persona. there are actually many types of gay identities such as bears, twinks, effeminate/flamboyant or gay guys that look/act straight (i.e. you'd never know).

Yes, but they all personify as male.

being gay means you're attracted to someone with the same sex or gender as yourself.

Exactly my point...TGirls are not the same sex or gender as me (us). I (we) are unquestionably male.

[tsadriana]

We are unisex

[nysprod]

Nothing wrong with a gentleman making a lady happy

Oh, don't get me wrong...I'm quite happy with myself and where I am...

[ed_jaxon]

Asked of me "Ed are ya gay?"

Me: "If you knew everything I have done you would run screaming....I am a damned sight beyond gay"

I ain't gay but I sure as hell ain't straight!