Backpage killed dating everybody is a escort:'(

[leomonster]

I look at it more this way... BackPage lets us find what we want in the short term, or the right now. as it were. Im OK with the logic of that. Besides shouldnt a women thats going to be "On Call" for your sick little pervese desires get something that she wants out of it herself...I mean after all fair is fair. She don't know you.
I have a personality so usually after seeing a girl a time or two they tend to warm up to me, The sessions get a little better, we will hang out for some-time and talk before and after... (which is always cool IMO). I like when the girl will answer a call, then tell me that she'd rather hang with me than to deal with the ass hole that just called. At the same time I understand that MY regular girls, have regular guys themselves so I try not to impead on anybody else's good time. If I am asked to leave so that she can see another client I do. but then Im a little stange for a man as I'm OK with sharing. or to be honest I prefer it a little bit

[itsago]

Most guys like myself don't see ts women as just sex toys or a dirty little secret...who would date or be in a relationship with a woman or ts thats a escort thats a death sentence It got to the point where i had to check and see if a girl was on backpage after i met her to make sure she was good it's not worth it and yes i know not all ts are escorts except they are in stl

[amberskyi]

lets be honest here...how many of you guys are really trying to get to know a ts girl on a real and deep level? i dont think its a leap to say not many.you cant fault a girl for not wanting to just be a sexual experience.
real talk, if you just approach a girl like a normal person and actually have a genuine interest in getting to know her than most likely she will respond to that.of course you have to meet her through the right situation of course.calling a girl from her ad to just kick the breeze isnt really going to get you any where.thats her business so respect that.there are several dating sites,clubs, etc in which to meet a ts girl in a more normal social situation.
of course even after making contact with a girl through a more appropriate medium you still need to take care in how you approach her.saying things like "ive been curious about being with a ts" or "im looking for my first experience" isnt exactly going to make her excited to get to know you.neither is any mention of being discreet or on the low.
i feel like the only guys that complain about how hard it is for them to meet a ts girl (excluding proximity issues) are guys who dont have a clue or care to have a clue on how to treat a ts woman normally.

[bluesoul]

Im OK with the logic of that. Besides shouldnt a women thats going to be "On Call" for your sick little pervese desires get something that she wants out of it herself...I mean after all fair is fair.

this works if she doesn't enjoy the sex. if you both enjoy the sex, why does one party get paid? and you said most women enjoy your company- so why are you paying? are you paying someone to enjoy your company?

[SheWantsTheD]

lets be honest here...how many of you guys are really trying to get to know a ts girl on a real and deep level? i dont think its a leap to say not many.you cant fault a girl for not wanting to just be a sexual experience.
real talk, if you just approach a girl like a normal person and actually have a genuine interest in getting to know her than most likely she will respond to that.of course you have to meet her through the right situation of course.calling a girl from her ad to just kick the breeze isnt really going to get you any where.thats her business so respect that.there are several dating sites,clubs, etc in which to meet a ts girl in a more normal social situation.
of course even after making contact with a girl through a more appropriate medium you still need to take care in how you approach her.saying things like "ive been curious about being with a ts" or "im looking for my first experience" isnt exactly going to make her excited to get to know you.neither is any mention of being discreet or on the low.
i feel like the only guys that complain about how hard it is for them to meet a ts girl (excluding proximity issues) are guys who dont have a clue or care to have a clue on how to treat a ts woman normally.

When I first got into all of this I was one of those naive guys just looking for a girlfriend with a little bit extra. All that happened was I would meet these girls and get used like some sort of sex toy.
They just wanted me for my race, cock size, toned body and because tehy knew that I could be easily manipulated since I was new to the scene.
After meeting about 8 ts girls who only seemed to want sex I stopped seeing them for a little over a year.
When I returned I was just like them, only in it for the sexual encounter.
Funny thing is now, now that I pay, I am meeting tgirls who are thinking of a relationship with me. Life is full of these little ironies.

tl;dr

If you are treat them respectably they take advantage.
If you show experience and you ask them no questions they want to open up to you.

[Rusty Eldora]

I look at it more this way... BackPage lets us find what we want in the short term, or the right now. as it were. Im OK with the logic of that. Besides shouldnt a women thats going to be "On Call" for your sick little pervese desires get something that she wants out of it herself...I mean after all fair is fair. She don't know you.

I have a personality so usually after seeing a girl a time or two they tend to warm up to me, The sessions get a little better, we will hang out for some-time and talk before and after... (which is always cool IMO). I like when the girl will answer a call, then tell me that she'd rather hang with me than to deal with the ass hole that just called. At the same time I understand that MY regular girls, have regular guys themselves so I try not to impead on anybody else's good time. If I am asked to leave so that she can see another client I do. but then Im a little stange for a man as I'm OK with sharing. or to be honest I prefer it a little bit

The girl has to make a living, being a provider actually is a decent choice if she likes the sex. The good ones usually have several regulars that they enjoy the time with and yes - are friends with - a crazy concept I know.

Having women in your life has a cost - escort, provider girlfriend, girlfriend, fiance, wife all have increasing cost for each enjoyable 'boom boom'. Then there are ex-wives that cost tons with no pleasure.

I may be doing a week long trip with a sweet Tgirl in April. Yes I'm covering the cost of a couple of sessions each day (she needs to live) but it is mostly hang out time as friends.

[leomonster]

this works if she doesn't enjoy the sex. if you both enjoy the sex, why does one party get paid? and you said most women enjoy your company- so why are you paying? are you paying someone to enjoy your company?

Blue-Honestly its because I am calling for sex primarily (as in I am single and I get crazy horny sometimes and I need a release)
...It is true that I'd love nothing more than to date a girl. But being as they typically live 110 miles away from me. A standard "long distance" relationship might not work out. I also don't want a girl to feel obligated to lead her life a certain way, when I am away working, out of some sense of "obligation" to me. I want my betroved to be free to do what ever her heart desires.
Besides when, or more likely IF, I find "the" one I figure she will decide what do as far as $$$, or coming to live with me or not... She has a say in it too.

But, I stay and hang out because I am honestly interested in knowing these girls. Ive been on a few public dates- and I find the girls Ive seen in public tend to relax thier attitude towards you. Because it Prooves beyond a shadow that your not "embarrassed", or maybe that your capable of "handling" it mentally. This includes a time in Southie when a few of the local "Irish" boys had a few comments about my choice of a date. Heated words were exchanged. We left to avoid an escalation. If that girl wasn't so into drinking I think it could have worked out at least for a little while.

[amberskyi]

When I first got into all of this I was one of those naive guys just looking for a girlfriend with a little bit extra. All that happened was I would meet these girls and get used like some sort of sex toy.
They just wanted me for my race, cock size, toned body and because tehy knew that I could be easily manipulated since I was new to the scene.
After meeting about 8 ts girls who only seemed to want sex I stopped seeing them for a little over a year.
When I returned I was just like them, only in it for the sexual encounter.
Funny thing is now, now that I pay, I am meeting tgirls who are thinking of a relationship with me. Life is full of these little ironies.

tl;dr

If you are treat them respectably they take advantage.
If you show experience and you ask them no questions they want to open up to you.

I see you suffer from what i call "perceived player syndrome".you and Freddy should meet,i think y'all would have allot in common.
I always find it funny how the guys boast way more about their looks and sexual desirability than the girls do.

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

I look at it more this way... BackPage lets us find what we want in the short term, or the right now. as it were. Im OK with the logic of that. Besides shouldnt a women thats going to be "On Call" for your sick little pervese desires get something that she wants out of it herself...I mean after all fair is fair.

Wow is that how you see your desires...?

I don't have anything to be ashamed of. It's simply a mater of finding a woman who likes what you like. Be it temporary or long term.

McThirsty is the profile name but women will never confuse this with being McStupid.

Men need to have more self respect and self control. If your looking for a good time and said chick is telling you that she's not sexually attracted to you then that should be the end of the conversation. Their issues, bills or other reasons for whoring are "NOT" your damn problem, so stop allowing them to feed you the bullshit. The fact that a prostitute isn't feeling you gives her the power. However you still have the power and/or common sense at this point to take or leave her proposition.

A nut for a nut is what would technically constitute as fair...not money that was yours leaving with her for a session that probably wasn't much better than if you were jerking off by yourself.

This is why I'm successful with girls who happen to escort during their free time. I pursue because I can do so efficiently at times, not because I'm some sick lowly perv who has to as these sex workers here would have you to believe.

There's a better way fella's. all you have to do is apply yourselves....

[SheWantsTheD]

I see you suffer from what i call "perceived player syndrome".you and Freddy should meet,i think y'all would have allot in common.
I always find it funny how the guys boast way more about their looks and sexual desirability than the girls do.

I'm not a player I'm a topper. And they never said I had handsome looks. they only ever complimented my body.