Is this a crazy hope?

[SarinaFan91]

Of meeting and having the opportunity to have a relationship with someone such as this beauty:



Obviously I don't mean someone famous like Bianca, but a tgirl who has everything I like physically that I can then get a chance to get to know her personally and hopefully fulfil my hope of finding a TG partner..

I know that it is a touchy subject for some, or most, 'real life' TGs, that men are attracted to their genitalia but I personally have my own reasons for preferring TGs to GGs...

Does anyone here have any proper experience dating a TG? Anything you could tell me to shed some light on this?

I currently live in Surrey btw, so if there are places and ways to meet my perfect woman in or around London, let me know!

And I just want to finish by saying that I hope I didn't offend anyone with anything I just said, it's just my personal taste to prefer TG to GG and a TG is just the perfect woman in my eyes, so if there's a chance I can actually be with one for more than a night, I'd love it!

Thanks!

[Ms.Stepford]

Yes.

[Prospero]

Hi Sarinafan... yes there are ways. You coul try a dating site such as TVChix... or go to one of the many clubs in and around the London area. Many of the people who go to these are professional girls on their nights off 9and sometimes not off so much as looking for customers0 But some are not and if you've got the ability to flirt and chat and interact in the real world you might well meet someone. But remember most of the images here are of girls who work in the porn industry. And also that transsexual girls, like genetic girls are complex ordinary human beings - people in other words with all the strengths, flaw, delights etc. Good luck.

[RallyCola]

For every lovely lady of porn, hollywood, the modeling world, or whatever, there is a man that can sweep them off their feet...the issue is simply how to meet them. Yes there is a glimmer of hope that you could meet someone with the "total package" like bianca, but you have to figure out how to meet them and impress them without seeming like a lost puppy looking for love or a client trying to be something more.

[GroobySteven]

Can you attract 9's and 10's in GG's? If so there is no reason you shouldn't be able to in TG's also. If you usually attract 5's and 6's in GG's then set your aim at those in TG's also.

[RallyCola]

Can you attract 9's and 10's in GG's? If so there is no reason you shouldn't be able to in TG's also. If you usually attract 5's and 6's in GG's then set your aim at those in TG's also.

you know far more tgirls than i ever will...but that doesn't seem right. if you can attract a 5 or a 6 in the GGirl world, for some reason i think you have to aim for a 4 or a 5 in the tgirl world. its the issue of supply and demand isn't it: more guys lusting after a tgirl so they can be more choosy.

[GroobySteven]

you know far more tgirls than i ever will...but that doesn't seem right. if you can attract a 5 or a 6 in the GGirl world, for some reason i think you have to aim for a 4 or a 5 in the tgirl world. its the issue of supply and demand isn't it: more guys lusting after a tgirl so they can be more choosy.

No I'd disagree. In fact (contradicting myself from my previous post), I'd say for me personally, it's been the other way around (and this is before I was the business owner I am now). I think a lot of tgirls are looking for someone who is genuine, got a sense of humor, confident and well-mannered as they're probably sick of getting hit on by those that don't display those qualities. That being said, I could never meet anyone at a bar/club and they were all via personal introductions or originally from online.

I think my point to the OP is, that he's showing a photo of an obviously very popular model - if he can attract that sort of GG girl, then he has a chance to be able to attract a TG girl but if he's old/sloppy/ugly/cheap/ etc. and could never attract a model-like GG, then he should lower his expectations accordingly.

[Prospero]

It is true... here is a picture of me and my latest TS girlfriend. We met at the local geriatric day centre.

[nysprod]

As they say, if you have to ask...

[giovanni_hotel]

The problem is there's very little chance you're going to meet a TS like Bianca randomly during your normal day. Therefore you have to go seek them out socially. Fine. After putting in the time and effort to arrange a 'chance meeting' wherever, you have to hope you're charming enough or attractive enough to sweep her off her feet after that initial contact.

That's why I agree with Seanchi in part; if most women you know of similar attractiveness aren't your normal, scoring in a one shot deal with a beautiful TS is a crap shoot.
Most women I date I have to WORK to get, other than a random hookup. Women I actually like personally it seems require more effort because I don't want my interest in them to come off as desperate or too aggressive.

But while I also agree that TS open to dating may have scores more men who view them as lust objects and approach them as such, I disagree they have men lined around the block willing to DATE them like a normal GF.

That's why I believe if you have any level of physical compatibility with a girl(you both find each other moderately attractive), and have stability in your own life and aren't a jerk, many if not most TS would say YES to at least going on a date.

The supply of TS may be greater than the number of admirers in the world, but that goes both ways.
The number of men genuinely interested in dating or being in a LTR with TS is equally small.

What I've begun to realize is there are attractive TS who are just civilians and not in the adult entertainment industry. However because most of these women are SOOOO stealth, there's almost no chance you'd ever meet them IRL other than on a dating site.

Too many guys are looking at escorts and porn stars and thinking how much they'd like a GF who looked like her and want to date them. I don't see how that really works for the average guy.