Is Internet porn making male sexuality more plastic?

[bluesoul]

I watch Transexual porn only now, chiefly the reason it started was because I was never able to attract a mate.I spend a lot of saturday nights alone, (and sundays, mondays, tuesdays, wednesdays, thursdays, fridays) so I turn on the computer and...

Now I have to admit this,over the years I have become attracted to Transexual Women only, I have no use for, or desire to deal with genetic females at all. Even in small daily transactions at the local coffee shop ect... They annoy me. The things they worry about seem silly and disingenuous. I have since gone out of my way to meet Transgendered girls and even have gone so far as to "hire" a few...OK its been more than a few

just out of curiosity- do you think this inability to attract mates during your salad years is what has turned you off "genetic" girls so much?

also, i've noticed that many times (when it's convenient perhaps) a lot of folks will say that there is no difference between genetic girls and transsexuals girls. but here you've clearly noted a difference (since the former annoy you and the later don't).

anyway, just thought this was interesting, especially considering that the only example you gave of your relationship with transgender girls were ones you "hired"

[leomonster]

Blue Soul, Yes absolutely it was the in-ability to attract a mate. I was a hell of a nice guy,(not any-more but at one time I was) Just ask any of the girls I dated back then. they'll tell you what a sweatheart I was... But I am short, I had a facial deformity, That I have since had corrected and I was "Better-Dealed" by all two of them. As soon as a more "handome" man came along.

As far as the difference C'mon there is a little differance. And thats why we are all here. I know that this may not be a popular thing to say but, I always try to tell the truth, as I myself hate being lied to. Even when its to "protect" my feelings". If some one is lying to you, they are being selfish.

I must admit that I have never Dated a Transexual woman in the conventional sense. Mainly because I don't even know if there are any of them within 60 miles of the town I live in (on Cape Cod) so yes when I do get the urge for a date I pretty much have to go to Boston. So that means Jaques, the girls there are all working so there you go....

[bluesoul]

I was a hell of a nice guy,(not any-more but at one time I was) Just ask any of the girls I dated back then. they'll tell you what a sweatheart I was...

how exactly am i supposed to ask them?

i do appreciate you being truthful and sincerely about this though- i just find it a little distressing that after 2 (genetic) women you're willing to completely disregard all women.

if two transsexuals treat you the same way, will you write them off too, or does strictly seeing escorts provide a fail-safe sense of security from rejection?

[mattavs1]

I have always liked lesbian porn but I rarely watch stuff made by the mainstream producers. Nowadays I look for more quality and passion eg films made by Girlfriend Films or Sweetheart Video. Their films are not extreme stuff but are in novel in that they try to give character or back story to their protagonists. However, I think it is true that too much porn can be damaging.

[BellaBellucci]

Lesbian porn is heterosexual?!

Who knew?

~BB~

[adude444]

I don't find I am desensitized because of porn or really looking for anything new. Porn has allowed me to explore different interests. The only problem is when having sex in for real does it match what turns you on in porn. I enjoy active sex in the way that there is a lot of movement and the participants are very audible, so that there expression of extacy is noticeable, so quite just laying still sex is a turn off.
I have noticed in a lot of the TS masturbation clips the models seem to be watching something to the side to help them get off is that a result of "creep" or just that they are being filmed.

[Tits McButts]

I see all the psychology papers on this and they all boil down to this concept:

Men keep watching more and more drastic porn to get off, therefore: it is desensitizing.

I really think that's a false conclusion.

Men ARE hard wired to seek out new when it comes to sex. Let's face it - reverting to cavemen days, the more women a man bedded, the better the overall survival of the species. While the influence this drive for "new" varies from guy to guy, it's still present, being as extreme as cheating on a spouse or buying new outfits for your lover.

Porn producers need to appeal to that sense of "new" to all their product. Overall we in porn are not truly creative sorts. We reach for the lowest hanging fruit of new: new faces; more extreme sex; etc. I think this creates a chicken and the egg effect. It's not that guys get more desensitized - it's simply that more hardcore stuff is the "new" that's available. A truly remarkable "new" scene regaurdless of hardcoredness will get anyone off - even someone "desensitized".

IMO, YMMV, Seanchai will correct me.

Very well-worded. You're right, but I don't think that newness is necessarily the only component. I believe a lot of these guys that have preferences for specific genres of porn have always had those preferences but perhaps were never previously introduced to content that conforms to them.

I think there is some graduation that occurs as men explore porn. As teenagers, there's always an interest in what's out there, even if it's something we would have never participated in. Once a guy hits 25, most of that exploratory stuff is finished, though.

[serial138]

Lesbian porn is heterosexual?!

Who knew?

~BB~

It might as well be seeing as how accepted it is. That and straight guys will jerk off to it, so it must be right!?!?