Husband Material

[blkmamba]

Ms bootaylicious Amber, what are you doing up so early?

[amberskyi]

Ms bootaylicious Amber, what are you doing up so early?

Stressing about life

[blkmamba]

Sorry to hear mama....what ever doesn't kill you makes you stronger...be strong

[amberskyi]

Sorry to hear mama....what ever doesn't kill you makes you stronger...be strong

If that's true I'm freaking superman lol

[Bigshot88]

Amber... why do you find it misogynistic? Misanthropic i can buy... since neither side emerge well from this point of view.

I'll admit it comes off a bit "anti-porn" and against the escorting lifestyle, mostly because I had just come off a bad experience, but it certainly has nothing to do with hating women. There's a certain "damaged goods" factor that I think is bound to affect many people on these boards, leaving each side jaded to the other. But life goes on. No sense in being bitter toward people for things they can't control about themselves. The average trans woman isn't in porn and doesn't escort, so I don't think the other guys who say it's all about money are really talking about the whole community. I think it's important not to develop any illusions that the porn star lifestyle is something one can easily just walk away from.

[Chaos]

Well I did NOT say that the only thing women care about is money.
I know some don't care at all,but the fact is,here,in my city,there are far too many girls that just want a man that will do everything so they don't have to do anything...
There are a LOT of girls that think they're entitled and above everyone else.
You think I WANT to be alone? I don't.
But what choice do I have? I make 730$...A MONTH.
I get judged the second they hear I'm on disability.
And since here,guys outnumber girls roughly 3to1...They aren't looking for Mr.Right....they're looking for Mr. Gold Card.
I WAS working 4 days a week as a bouncer until the club closed,while on disability....Then the club closed and NO ONE wanted to hire bouncers...
Especially one that's only 5'6"...when there are MUCH bigger guys,even if they had less qualifications.
Ever walked up to someone you're attracted JUST to say hi and gotten Fuck You....you can't afford me right to your face? I have. THAT'S the shit I have to overcome.....with nothing. Sure,there have been a FEW that liked me for me.....for a while. But I'm fighting an uphill battle here....against a ten ton boulder....armed with a toothpick. Why do you think I make jokes about moving away so often? Not really joking...But things won't change for me just by moving,I know that. I have TRIED going back to work since the club closed....as something other than a bouncer.....but the club was the only place I could handle working....SO....yeah....I KNOW all girls aren't like that...but HERE most of them are (in Pittsburgh).To be clear... I'm talking about GG's... Not T-girls,porn stars,escorts,or anything else.

[amberskyi]

Have i ever gotten a fuck you from a guy i thought was attractive...I'm a woman with a penis what do you think lol

[Chaos]

You know what I meant.....and you know I don't try to argue with you.
I'm just 'splainin my story...as crappy as it is...

[nysprod]

But what choice do I have? I make 730$...A MONTH.
I get judged the second they hear I'm on disability.

What are you on disability from?

[LibertyHarkness]

honesty,
Common Interests,
Looks I find attractive,
motivated,
No Drugs,
Finacially Self Sufficent, i.e they can pay their on way ...
Open in life,
Good Sex Chemistry,
Not with me for my cock only,

But then I am dating a woman ...and its the same rules for her ..