Husband Material

[Bigshot88]

Tops the only important thing? How bout a guy who has his shit together but likes to bottom? No? Aww. What is your expectation for a potential husband to make you give up escorting and filming profitable smut?

[RallyCola]

that's all. the rest is just bonus if you have your shit together, are good looking and have a big dick.

[Prospero]

Rally -- you are almost certainly the most cynical guy here. I guess you've not yet located the soul in all your probings.

[RallyCola]

soul? me??? HA!

seriously...i am fully aware that ugly men with small penises and fat wallets are more likely to be husband material than poor dudes that can't support their wife. remember the term is 'trophy wife' because men marry a woman with looks to reflect their position in life. taken another way... for women, the term 'trophy husband' is a man with the means to afford a woman who looks hot.

i really do believe that generally, income is far more important to women when picking a mate than it will ever be to a man picks a mate.

[Chaos]

i really do believe that generally, income is far more important to women when picking a mate than it will ever be to a man picks a mate.

I have to agree....
Rare are the girls (at least here at home) that will stick around regardless of income...

[Prospero]

Actually you are probably right Rally... its in the genes really.

Here is little Bernie Ecclestone (small in stature but immensely large in fortune) and his trophy bride Slavica

[amberskyi]

This whole thread is misogynistic.
It really must suck to hate/dislike the very thing your attracted to

[Chaos]

Actually the only thing I hate is when a girl tells me I'm not what she's looking for in a relationship.......after finding out I'm not the guy that will enable her to quit working.
And I don't hate them for saying it.
If anything I feel like shit and hate myself for being so fucked up.
I mean I get it...I'm not worth very much financially.
I know not all girls are that way,but here in Pittsburgh?
It's fucking HORRIBLE.....
I dated a girl for 3 months....the second I lost my job (The store burned down),she dumped me...She told me her parents wouldn't let her date people that couldn't support her....WE WERE IN HIGH SCHOOL ....
Funny thing....She only wanted to date me because the night we met I was wearing a nice silk shirt and dress pants and she THOUGHT I had money...(It was payday..lol)
I found that out later from a mutual friend..
And it never got much better....

[Prospero]

Amber... why do you find it misogynistic? Misanthropic i can buy... since neither side emerge well from this point of view.

[amberskyi]

Neither side? So far only one side has chimed in without a single positive thing to say about woman.it's all "woman only care about money boo hoo..whine whine."
Here's my list of what i look for in a man in order of importance:
Honesty
Intelligence
Self aware
Confident
Supportive
Sexual chemistry
Humorous
Attractive
Financial security (not because i want to live off of him but because I'm not supporting a grown ass man again)

As a trans woman who works in the sex industry i have way more reasons to be jaded by the opposite sex.if i can resist being jaded and manage to keep in mind that all men aren't shit than surely you guys can do the same.