Relationship with a T-girl

[TSMichelleAustin]

Oh lord here we go... first off I have lived the normal 9-5 job way before getting into the porn and escorting industry. I worked in a high end salon for over 8 yrs. Where I also was part of educating, and seeing clients and doing hair. After 8yrs my salon shut down, and I had been dealing with medical issues and decided not to pursue my career in the hair biz anymore. Ive done other jobs before entering into the porn/escort biz. I have been in a healthy relationship for five years now. We were together before I got into the porn biz, this was something we chose to take on together. I live a pretty normal life, my husband doesnt refer to me to peep as a tranny or tgirl. I am his wife, or partner. Also, my house isnt a revolving door for clients either. I am very picky about who I see, and dont need a client to survive. I work a lot behind the scenes on a daily basis, and I shoot for my site. Randomly other sites. But my life outside of porn is very normal. People have no clue I do porn, not even my family. So to people who go off and crazy on us working girl, we are normal people too!

[robertlouis]

You are totally wrong.
The vast majority of women with a Ts history have zero connection, ever, with the adult industry.

Ts escorts and porn workers are highly visible.
It's a consequence of the job.

Most Trans women do not look like the trans on HA
May I take you out of trans-land and into cis-gendered land?
Think of that stunning “Day-One” woman on this months cover of Rustler magazine?
You'd like to date her yes?
Now look at EVERY WOMEN YOU ENCOUNTER during the course of your typical day.
How many of them could be a hot top model? Probably frak all.
See the fabulous trans-women on here and other sites?
Well firstly, most trans don't look anything like that.
We actually cover the full spectrum of appearance,
just as “Day-One” women do.
Old, young, fat, thin, ugly, beautiful, average, (actually, a lot of average)
So the vast majority of trans women you just missed coz they don't look like Shemaleyum model of the month....

If a Ts woman is not renting out her body or naked image,
the last thing they would ever advertise to the world, is that they are/were trans.
Coz that has consequences from stigma through to murder.

Your totally wrong assumptions are widespread
which is why most ts women despise ts that work in the sex industry.
As they get the blow-back.

Of course it's impossible to find us
it's called stealth!
Duh!

. Great post, Tyler. Absolutely my experience here in the UK, where most of my trans friends make the very most of what they have, just as genetic women do and with varying degrees of success. It still amazes me that so many men on this forum think that what they see here and on other porn sites is an accurate reflection of the transsexual world.

It isn't.

If you're here to fantasise, that's fine, but please don't try to suggest that every trans girl should live up to your fantasy, and if they don't, it somehow makes them a failure. After what they've gone through in their lives they deserve your total respect and admiration, and if you can't give that, more fool and shame on you.

[Jayjj222]

Would love to have a relationship but its tough to find people u trust

[bunzy]

Why would you have a serious relationship with a tranny? Most of the trannies are fucked up in the head, they liars, deceitful, unstable...... it's just too much drama, after an argument she would call you all type of names that you can imagine: "gay, cocksucker, faggot"......... and the list goes on.

[Jayjj222]

I wouldn't agree with that last statement

[seektranny]

I like your input.

To me she was a girlfriend, most of the time i call here wife then we spend time together, life in the same house and it was a relationship!

so i am not thinking about the "term" for me it is a "GIRL"


Well my family and my business partners know that she is a Tgirl, and i like it. Also all of my workers know who she is and there was never a problem

This is my first post. I am sitting here with my girlfriend of the last 3 years and in our relationship, she is my girlfriend. I don't refer to her as my Trans girlfriend because that is just some nonsense. She has no connection to the sex industry and works a regular job. We have a quiet life which we enjoy. Some of my friends know and accept it. My family does not know and she is fine with that. In her opinion, it is less questions to answer. Obviously there are challenges such as surgeries, etc, but it is nothing that we have not been able to overcome. I have dated 2 other girls and both were escorts and one was involved in porn and I could not trust either one of them. It was always about money for them. I trust my girl and we appreciate one another. Just my input.

[seektranny]

well you are 99% correct.

most (all) of here t-girls are really liars and they are fucked up in the head. but if you look close to all those stones sometimes you find a diamond. (but there are 99% stones

but that is true, a lot of them are really crazy, but not all. I know some they go to work, do their business, have a husband and they are doing well, and i know those who are just prostitutes. who live from one day to other, without future, no school, no brain just focused on body.

my girlfriend was good in marketing and organisation, but sometimes people see the future in different ways

Why would you have a serious relationship with a tranny? Most of the trannies are fucked up in the head, they liars, deceitful, unstable...... it's just too much drama, after an argument she would call you all type of names that you can imagine: "gay, cocksucker, faggot"......... and the list goes on.

[Tim&Erin]

well you are 99% correct.

most (all) of here t-girls are really liars and they are fucked up in the head. but if you look close to all those stones sometimes you find a diamond. (but there are 99% stones

but that is true, a lot of them are really crazy, but not all. I know some they go to work, do their business, have a husband and they are doing well, and i know those who are just prostitutes. who live from one day to other, without future, no school, no brain just focused on body.

my girlfriend was good in marketing and organisation, but sometimes people see the future in different ways

I unfortunately could not agree more. I know 3 girls is a small sample, but the other 2 were obsessed with money and would not tell the truth if the evidence was right in front of them. The stress and drama from dealing with that nonsense wore me out. The girl I am with now is removed from that and the relationship is no different than any relationship I have had with a GG. I am just happier now. I realize that men will cause them to become this way among other reasons, but it does not have to be that way. Like I said before, just my personal experience.

[doctor screw]

This is my first post. I am sitting here with my girlfriend of the last 3 years and in our relationship, she is my girlfriend. I don't refer to her as my Trans girlfriend because that is just some nonsense. She has no connection to the sex industry and works a regular job. We have a quiet life which we enjoy. Some of my friends know and accept it. My family does not know and she is fine with that. In her opinion, it is less questions to answer. Obviously there are challenges such as surgeries, etc, but it is nothing that we have not been able to overcome. I have dated 2 other girls and both were escorts and one was involved in porn and I could not trust either one of them. It was always about money for them. I trust my girl and we appreciate one another. Just my input.

Fake!!!!

[Chaos]

most (all) of here t-girls are really liars and they are fucked up in the head.

4 posts,just joined,and you think ALL the girls here are liars and fucked up in the head?
I suppose sweeping generalizations are your speciality....