If i suck a man cock im gay if a sock a transexual cock im straight.im confused.

[TSCURIOUS]

^ Damn! I should have Phd attached to my name!

[tragicomedy]

I'm sorry...worried about being gay?My family wonders to this day if I am or not....right to my face. Yet there is no malice involved,they just continue to see me by myself and think that I just don't like women.And ask about it...all the time...(Yes it's tiresome,but at least it shows they still care). Hell,my father is a Vietnam Era Marine and literally hates everyone,everywhere...and he would support me if I were.


I "feel the need to explain myself" because I am paranoid that people don't understand what I say,or that it might come out the wrong way. Because I spent most of my life having everything I say questioned to the point of absurdity.

For example,me explaining now that this is not an attack for what you said,just a reply.

Are you attracted to gg enough to pursue a relationship? There are far more of them out there than tg. Are you attracted to men, if so what type? It sounds like there are plenty of people here who like trans the most and don't have interest in women or men. I like gg but find gay porn to be be a turnoff, even revolting and creepy. I realize thatthe thingsmany gay men like are very different, even though we are all men. Many straight and gay men would find you and I to be weird for liking ts

[robertlouis]

Then you are an aegagrusphile. I don't blame you; satyrs are particularly adept at sexual acrobatics. I never knew one who didn't know how to give a girl a wonderfully good time.

I'd say this guy is very self-centaured.

[tragicomedy]

So a TS will always be a man as long as she has her penis?

We are rapidly moving away from that as a society. As for relationships, having a penis and not a vagina is a deal breaker for most men and lesbian women. Though you will find many who like it too.

[robertlouis]

From a purely psychological/sociological point of view... this forum is entertaining as fuck. That being said...

I don't get how people are so quick to assume that the bulk of society has anything against transsexuals... yet are all part of this forum.

NEWSFLASH: IT'S 20FUCKING13 NOW, NOT THE 80's, NOT THE 90'S

WE EVEN HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT IN THE US! (OMG)

Society and culture are rapidly moving faster and faster toward acceptance of people... regardless of race, sex, orientation, or gender. The internet allows free access to information and encourages people to challenge old norms. The younger generations that have spent most of their lives online are increasingly open-minded... and even the older generations are softening up as secondhand exposure to new information leaks into their lives and their minds.

In the past couple weeks, a group of Saudi exchange students I'm friends with found out I'm trans... even coming from a culture that supports Sharia law, they still are accepting... and attracted to me.

It's worth adding, that I currently live in one of the most "conservative" areas of the US. It's a town where churches bussed people to City Hall to put mass public pressure against passing a bill that would have protected against discrimination toward LGBT people. (Surprise surprise, they succeeded for now... politicians have no balls)

Despite that, today I started work with a call center with several hundred employees... dressed in women's business casual. To their knowledge, I'm the company's first transsexual employee. Under my states law, they could have easily used that as grounds not to hire me in the first place. However, they took time to research in advance to figure out how to accommodate me the best they can. They even went as far as to give me the choice what bathrooms I'd prefer to use... even offering to convert their facilities to include a single person "family restroom".

And they're perfectly fine with my decision to use the regular women's facilities.

On top of that, people I've dated since my transition have no problem introducing me to their family. Hell, generally people's families absolutely LOVE me. So you can preach all you want... and I know people that aren't as passable always have it harder... but our society is definitely becoming more and more accepting toward trans people.

Terrific post Molly. There will always be parts of society and within communities which instinctively react and can be hostile to anyone different, be they gay, trans, a different race, religion, immigrants, but the long-term trend is definitely towards acceptance. In the US, old angry white men will die out, just as angry Tory backbenchers will here in the UK.

There will be firefights on the way, but there will be only one outcome.

And the very best of good fortune to you in your continuing transition.

[tragicomedy]

Terrific post Molly. There will always be parts of society and within communities which instinctively react and can be hostile to anyone different, be they gay, trans, a different race, religion, immigrants, but the long-term trend is definitely towards acceptance. In the US, old angry white men will die out, just as angry Tory backbenchers will here in the UK.

There will be firefights on the way, but there will be only one outcome.

And the very best of good fortune to you in your continuing transition.

Isn't that funny how it is acceptable even chic for liberals to single out White men? Plenty of those angry old White men are former hippys who vote Democrat/Labour/Green but they are prbly same ones who think they are being hip for bashing fellow Whites. All the while decrying bigotry, except when it is bigotry toward Whites.

[Molly D'Vyne]

Isn't that funny how it is acceptable even chic for liberals to single out White men? Plenty of those angry old White men are former hippys who vote Democrat/Labour/Green but they are prbly same ones who think they are being hip for bashing fellow Whites. All the while decrying bigotry, except when it is bigotry toward Whites.

I'd imagine it's more a reference to the really loud, but powerful, minority that often derails progress in a politics... than to old white dudes in general. Most old white guys I personally know are cool with me lol.

[ed_jaxon]

Go back and read the difference between hetero and bi-curious... you sound pretty delusional. The fact is that regardless wether you like it or not you're aren't straight because the sexual activity you're engaging with a transexual. Yeah she's a woman regardless if she's topping you but don't forget her genitalia isn't a vagina.

Don't be in denial ... the ones that are and keep explaining themselves makes themselves more obvious ..... peter puffer.

Yo dumbass, I never used the word straight. I avoided that word by design.

I know exactly who I am; thanks for your concern.

A bisexual likes men and women. The thought of kissing a dude is not appealing for me and a lot of dudes here, so we are not really bisexual. Trans attracted male is what we are. We like the feminine of a woman or trans and that fact that some have a dick is not a problem.

Get over yourself and keep your goddamn labels to yourself.

[jamiethewild]

Yo dumbass, I never used the word straight. I avoided that word by design.

I know exactly who I am; thanks for your concern.

A bisexual likes men and women. The thought of kissing a dude is not appealing for me and a lot of dudes here, so we are not really bisexual. Trans attracted male is what we are. We like the feminine of a woman or trans and that fact that some have a dick is not a problem.

Get over yourself and keep your goddamn labels to yourself.

okay butt pirate ... re-read my post's in this thread.
who the fuck are you to tell me to keep my labels.

Say who you are instead of flustering on your conclusion moron.

[robertlouis]

I'd imagine it's more a reference to the really loud, but powerful, minority that often derails progress in a politics... than to old white dudes in general. Most old white guys I personally know are cool with me lol.

Thank you Molly, that's exactly what I meant, and they're self-identified and proud of it too. And as for "bashing fellow whites", I don't differentiate my fellow human beings by race. We're all the same and deserve respect, just as every individual's sexual preference does.