Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore

[jamiethewild]

Jamie, in a ll due respect while we are only hearing on side of this conversation, this isn't about a guy objecting to his TS GF wanting to have an SRS.

It sounds like every time shit went bad in their relationship, whether it was because somebody did not put the cap back on the toothpaste or put the toilet seat down that this dudes GF decided the best way to cut him down was to call him a faggot etc.

It is unpleasant behavior at best and frankly a weird way to treat a guy who accepted this woman's decision that being born a man was not her destiny.

From what you are saying basically no man should ever accept a woman with penis as a mate in life and that if he does so it is a sure indication he is gay.

There was nothing in this post where this guy said they arguments over his GF going through SRS. I think SRS is great for TS it is after all a completion of a circle of discovery. It sounded a lot more like they just had issues and she beat him up verbally for being willing to accept her as a woman with a penis, rather than a rejection of her desire to SRS. If I missed that in my sped reading than I stand corrected because any TS who wants to finish the circle should, but I read it differently. I read it as a guy who was pussy whipped by his GF for being a cock hound because he accepted her as a woman with cock.

Did I misread it?

I know this isn't about a guy objecting to his TS GF wanting to have an SRS. You were the one that changed the topic by saying "I wish them the best and I would hope that girls that don't choose SRS can find people they can share their lives with that accept them." Really ?

She's right on calling him a faggot ... I support her.... maybe some of his mannerisms are quite faggoty...

I quote you:
" From what you are saying basically no man should ever accept a woman with penis as a mate in life and that if he does so it is a sure indication he is gay."

No am not saying his gay, he might be gay, bi or confuse. But gay sounds more better when you want to take your anger out. But definitely his not a straight man, IMO. Also, it might depend on what type of sex they engage on during their relationship that might of provoke her to call him gay. IDK ... but i get why she would call him gay, i would probably do the same.

[Merkurie]

Calling someone a fag at this point is just comical.
If he were gay, he would be with a man -- no?

[fivekatz]

I know this isn't about a guy objecting to his TS GF wanting to have an SRS. You were the one that changed the topic by saying "I wish them the best and I would hope that girls that don't choose SRS can find people they can share their lives with that accept them." Really ?

She's right on calling him a faggot ... I support her.... maybe some of his mannerisms are quite faggoty...

I quote you:
" From what you are saying basically no man should ever accept a woman with penis as a mate in life and that if he does so it is a sure indication he is gay."

No am not saying his gay, he might be gay, bi or confuse. But gay sounds more better when you want to take your anger out. But definitely his not a straight man, IMO. Also, it might depend on what type of sex they engage on during their relationship that might of provoke her to call him gay. IDK ... but i get why she would call him gay, i would probably do the same.

I have bolded two things I wish to respond to.

From the best I can understand and have learned so far some trans-women do not wish to have SRS either because of monetary short falls or fear that they will no longer be able to enjoy sex after the procedure. Therefore my statement that girls who do not wish to choose SRS can accept men who accept them.

Your after statement about him being quite faggoty, baffle me. Not only am I not sure how you were able to come to that conclusion from the angry rants of a jilted lover, but the language sucks. Faggoty is offensive. Kike and Mick and Nigger are offensive. If you mean to say the guy sound fem just say so.

And yeah I get gay sound better than bi want you want to take your anger out by the way. And any man that can accept a TS woman pre-op is IMHO bi-sexual which in the world of labels may be weird but what the hell is so bad about being open to all humans and not bound by societies conventions?

At any rate this poor dude probably didn't need to be called a faggot for what ever his short comings were in that relationship and that woman should not castrate a guy verbally no matter what her greviances are because he was willing to accept her transition.

Jamie you may be right, I may be naive but maybe you are a bit jaded?

[jamiethewild]

Your after statement about him being quite faggoty, baffle me. Not only am I not sure how you were able to come to that conclusion from the angry rants of a jilted lover, but the language sucks. Faggoty is offensive. Kike and Mick and Nigger are offensive. If you mean to say the guy sound fem just say so.

And yeah I get gay sound better than bi want you want to take your anger out by the way. And any man that can accept a TS woman pre-op is IMHO bi-sexual which in the world of labels may be weird but what the hell is so bad about being open to all humans and not bound by societies conventions?

At any rate this poor dude probably didn't need to be called a faggot for what ever his short comings were in that relationship and that woman should not castrate a guy verbally no matter what her greviances are because he was willing to accept her transition.

Jamie you may be right, I may be naive but maybe you are a bit jaded?

Your putting words into my mouth, i never said he had faggoty mannerisms, i said he might IDK am just assuming why she called him a faggot. Srry, but stop with this bs.

Like i said, she called him a faggot because at the moment of anger she probably did see him as faggot and that word help her release anger.... I get get it ... HE probably did deserve it ? i want to hear her story ... theres always two sides of the story in an argument or relationship.

I won't neglect that am jaded just a bit lol

[giovanni_hotel]

Calling someone a fag at this point is just comical.
If he were gay, he would be with a man -- no?

No matter what they say, many trans-women deep down don't really consider themselves women. That's why many of them have so much self-hatred and project that onto their partners.

The OP's GF despite her problems just wasn't the type of person who should be in an intimate relationship with anyone else. She's too immature.

When a TS says she considers men interested in her without SRS to be gay or 'not straight', why the fuck would any dude even go there??

What sucks is there's no way to really know what a particular trans-girl thinks privately about herself (and you) until you get involved with her.

Not all girls think like Jamie and the OP's ex. But too many of them do unfortunately.

It's just shocking to me to realize that some of the most virulent gay bigots are TRANSWOMEN.

Just weird shit all the way around.

I hope the OP keeps an open mind. A lot of TS sorry to say are certifiably loco, but there are some really cool chicks out here too.

Hope he meets one.

[StlyeMeCunty]

Not going back, fuck it she drained all my money too so she can move back in with the parents because i'm the one who pays the fucking rent, bills, food, gives her going out money.

Or go back on fucking cams again, lazy fuck.

SRS

/rant

Well Damn!

[StlyeMeCunty]

I would have done the same if not worse maybe even more worse atrocious words and behavior, maybe would of have thrown things at you, thats why i don't date and only escort. I hate men that are into trans-women, yet am a trans-woman. Life is so fucking unfair.... the f*gs/bi/confuse are the ones that want to be with us, its a shame....

Ummmm... this sounds just a lil bit crazy dear.

[StlyeMeCunty]

The majority of transwomen are crazy as fuck, hence why I rarely associate with them. If the man is dating you, and he says he cares about you then hes telling the truth. Men don't tell lies like that unless they are starting to feel trapped and unhappy, and this man was clearly not trapped and free to leave. Men don't put in as much thought as girls do, and he is certainly not making shit up if he is carrying your ass through life. End of story!

[caliuncut]

Srry you don't understand why i would treat like man shit if his into transexuals. So i support her and applaud her for her behavior, she's taking her anger out and that's always healthy. She's taking her frustrations and thats healthy also. I support her at 100% what she did.

Like i said, try being a trans-woman in your other life.

Seriously, are you that incomprehensible towards women like us that desire SRS. How can be sooo lame to say " well i just hope girls accept themselves for who they are." look am not going to bring a controversial topic back but get your facts straight here. You sound soo naive. i will get a vagina wether cocksucker likes it or not.

Jamie, I find this hard to say to another person but I've read so much of your garbage on this forum I don't hesitate to say that you are a piece of shit. You are a fail at being a decent human being and are the embodiment of what is wrong with humanity in general.

Perhaps one day, probably when you are old and gray if ever you'll realize your shitty views on the world were the reason you were never able to find happiness in the love of another.

[caliuncut]

These girls are prone to all sorts of goofiness and bitchy behavior...they love testing your manhood by acting like bad little girls...the answer is to pull down her pants and give her a good hard spanking followed by a total pounding...

Ok broski...this is his real life, not your porno fantasy...lol