Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore

[scroller]

I've gotta say it -- I fear for Jamie because what she's writing here is equally unsustainable as that other girl's were, who wound up in a psych ward having slashed her wrists last year. I mean, say you don't like guys and need to be by yourself, that's fine and respectable. But to crow about how you're committed to piling abuse on anyone who shows you love, that's like, the definition of self-destructive squared.

I really hope you can focus on whatever good traits you must have, and follow Kelly's advice about getting therapy or something, because the alternative is just not good.

[jamiethewild]

I've gotta say it -- I fear for Jamie because what she's writing here is equally unsustainable as that other girl's were, who wound up in a psych ward having slashed her wrists last year. I mean, say you don't like guys and need to be by yourself, that's fine and respectable. But to crow about how you're committed to piling abuse on anyone who shows you love, that's like, the definition of self-destructive squared.

I really hope you can focus on whatever good traits you must have, and follow Kelly's advice about getting therapy or something, because the alternative is just not good.

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LMAO Now that was naive, moronic, and incomprehensible....

OH GOD PLEASE HELP.... help !!!!

[Infern0]

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LMAO Now that was naive, moronic, and incomprehensible....

OH GOD PLEASE HELP.... help !!!!

Grow up.

Seriously.

[alyssaluxor]

Alyssa, I hope you find a man who treats you right and i'm sure you will one day.

It's a shame the way things happened in the past, in my experiance, escorting can sometimes "numb" a womans feelings towards men, don't please write off finding someone in the future

Thanks my dear, you also all the best and just keep these things as a step for a beautiful future. Keep your heart open and dont give up for sure youll find the right one for you. Just be careful always and love yourself first before others.

[LongTom101]

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LMAO Now that was naive, moronic, and incomprehensible....

OH GOD PLEASE HELP.... help !!!!

As opposed to your posts which, taken in their entirety, represent a life affirming bibliography of wisdom, balance, emotional stability and intelligent common sense

[MDM23]

Yes at first i just tried escorting but its still the main reason I ended up as an escort. If thats what you think I respect that. And now im escorting to save money for the future. Im very careful dating guys now need to make sure they are genuine

Sorry but no self respecting guy with options is gonna want to have a hooker as a girlfriend lol too much jealousy to form a relationship. Honestly what guy is gonna want his girl to be fucking different guys every day? No offence intended just my honest opinion

[tsdvdman]

Sorry but no self respecting guy with options is gonna want to have a hooker as a girlfriend lol too much jealousy to form a relationship. Honestly what guy is gonna want his girl to be fucking different guys every day? No offence intended just my honest opinion

I agree

[nysprod]

Lol...there are plenty of guys with little self respect and few options...

[yodajazz]

I've gotta say it -- I fear for Jamie because what she's writing here is equally unsustainable as that other girl's were, who wound up in a psych ward having slashed her wrists last year. I mean, say you don't like guys and need to be by yourself, that's fine and respectable. But to crow about how you're committed to piling abuse on anyone who shows you love, that's like, the definition of self-destructive squared.

I really hope you can focus on whatever good traits you must have, and follow Kelly's advice about getting therapy or something, because the alternative is just not good.

I really agree with the part where you say 'focus on the good'. I have long believed that trans people dont get at much, philosophical/spiritual advice as others. And everyone needs this to find greater happiness. This seems to be the major problem, of the subject person, of the original post in this thread. An example of this is focusing on past hurts, rather than a present relationship. I remember one woman here advised others to breakup with their present boyfriends, if they planned on having srs, because she thought they would leave them once they got the surgery. Giving up something that you have positive today, based upon a negative future event, that is not guaranteed to happen, is very unwise. That's just plain negative thinking, which in reality, has little to do with trans life. And even if the breakup does eventually happen, you might be able to have years of positive things, in the meantime, such as daily emotional support.

It is written; "What so ever is good and true, think of these things." One way to do this is to be thankful for what you have, rather unhappy for what you don't have. The ages old saying for this is to, "Count your blessings". I think that all trans people have great courage to pursue, who they want to be. I appreciate trans women's femininity more, because they have to work to achieve it. One could make a list of many qualities that trans women have in general. To think that someone likes you for only one thing, is not reality. My life is not the same as Brad Pitt's, even though we both have the same plumbing.

We love people, not only for who they are, but for what obstacles they had to overcome to be who they are now. We also love them for what we see them becoming in the future. The more positive your daily outlook is; the more you will see the possible positive outcomes in your future, and also you attract more people with these positive visions, than you will with negative judgments of yourself and others. And it's also better for your long term, physical health as well. I wish more trans people could realize this truth. It's a big part of the true happiness, that the subject of the original post did not have.

[sosed]

Every person is his own personality, character and have his own dark sides in subconsciousness. Some couples could live together easily, some have to work hard to stay together and some couldn't. It is about how well their personalities and characters go together, as they say, being soul mates.

I think it is not always true, that males, who like Tgirls, are attracted to cock on Tgirls. Straight males want to be with a woman, who is a woman. It happens, that some GGs take their femininity for granted, as I'm a woman, I have a pussy, that is enough. On the other hand Tgirls work hard to be as much feminine as possible, to compensate the fact, they don't have a pussy. Sometimes Tgirls are more feminine and woman (not genitals) than GGs and with that more attractive for straight males.