Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore

[Cannotresist6]

Good luck bro your story is powerful.

[fivekatz]

Your putting words into my mouth, i never said he had faggoty mannerisms, i said he might IDK am just assuming why she called him a faggot. Srry, but stop with this bs.

Like i said, she called him a faggot because at the moment of anger she probably did see him as faggot and that word help her release anger.... I get get it ... HE probably did deserve it ? i want to hear her story ... theres always two sides of the story in an argument or relationship.

I won't neglect that am jaded just a bit lol

All I did was highlight your post, not put words in your mouth.

Now it doesn't take a 6 year old to figure out that TS girls that are pre-op have figured out that calling a dude a faggot is way to cut him to the quick.

Yes there are two sides to a story but seldom is the pain inflicted by one party enough to just justify taking the shortest, meanest route to counter attack, and certainly not when and if this dude had accepted his girl as a girl and their issues were about the shit all couples go through.

At any rate you are defending a pretty indefensible point, using the word faggot is socially regressive.

At any rate this guy should move on from using this forum for advice and now that things are cooling down he will be able to find his own perspective on whether this was a major speed bump in their relationship or the end of it.

[Genetic]

StraightTricker who was banned last week.

I missed that, but thank fuck. That was one stupid stupid woman.

[StlyeMeCunty]

\ Most TS are gay...

You dear are misinformed about what truly being a transwoman means.

[StlyeMeCunty]

Wow this is just so sad!

No comment until ive heard the side of the TS girl

From my experience its always the guys(TS admirer/chasers) who played games, bullshits, lied and take advantage of me the reason I ended up as an escort. At least now im getting paid and saving for the future

This excuse is just used to place blame on someone other than yourself for your CHOICE to be an escort. Men didn't make you an escort, as you have total control over what you're doing.

[be2378]

That sucks guy, find someone that makes the world go around better with many things in common, and it ends.

[tsdvdman]

This excuse is just used to place blame on someone other than yourself for your CHOICE to be an escort. Men didn't make you an escort, as you have total control over what you're doing.

I really like this comment Thank You!!..

[tsadriana]

Things were good for a while, we had a lot of common interests and there was a real connection, but after a while things started to get real messy. So much issues and insecurity, which I was more than willing to try and help with.

Sick of being up all night, every night till 3am "convincing" her that I loved her, and accepted her for who she was.

Sick of convincing her that my family and friends did accept her (they really did, not a single fuck was given) and that they weren't always staring and talking behind her back.

Sick of being called a "fag" whenever an argument happened.

Sick of panic attacks and depression.

Sick of no gratitude for anything, and being compared to past "lovers" who had cheated on her and treated her like crap when i didn't.

Sick of being told to "fuck off, fag"

Yeah, just sick in general.

I made a real go at this, but it was such a headfuck, and very very bizzare, when I first met her she lied about being a virgin (i didn't really care) and being "innocent" etc, after a while the cracks and lies started to show, but still I put up with it, she called my parents at 3am the other day to talk to me because i was "getting agressive", all that happened was every time we argue she calls me a "fag" and tells me she could "beat the shit out of me" (serious) which I just laugh at, but this time I was eating a bowl of cereal and had had enough, so literally I just dropped the bowl which smashed on the floor looked her straight in the eye and said "try it then". now, I would have never lifted a finger against her, i would have just let her hit me, whatever but I am sick of being put down and having this fucking issue with testosterone levels, and every time she gets mad, trying to belittle my masculinity, it's BULLSHIT.

Not going back, fuck it she drained all my money too so she can move back in with the parents because i'm the one who pays the fucking rent, bills, food, gives her going out money.

Or go back on fucking cams again, lazy fuck.

SRS

/rant

Why this story is familiar to me?Been there done that ...

[bluesoul]

The way Jamie spells out her view suggests it is damn nigh impossible for a serious relationship to happen between a man and a pre-op transexual. So she meets an attractive man. She keeps her gender identity secret?. For how long? Until she is sure the guy is into her? He meanwhile wonders why she refuses to allow a sexual relationship to develop. Then he finds out. He freaks or he may be cool. An immediate possibility of hurt for either side But perhaps before that point he wonders about her anyway - why she is so cool about him for so long? It's a barrier to a relationship. On the other hand if he knows she is transgendered then for her, he can only be seen as a fag. Tough for both sides IMHO. In her view NO man attracted to a transgendered woman is interested in her for any reason other than her cock. Couldn't human relationships and sexuality be a wee bit more complex than that. yes - the guy is attracted to girls sexually who are pre-op, but perhaps he is also attracted to more than that. Like in the wider world some guys like blondes, some like brunettes. But can get back and past that on the strength of personality. So a guy whose point of entry into a relationship is the fact that this hot girl also has the sexual apparatus that really turns him on cannot be allowed to love her for herself alongside this bioigical fact. He has to be branded a fag? That seems to have been the plight of Infern0.

I am sorry to hear of his story. Sorry he felt that he had to come here to pour out his angst and anger. (Maybe in his real world the people he'd talk to would or do harbour prejudices that build a barrier between a sympathetic ear and prejudice).

But I am also sorry to read such a bleak viewpoint as that expressed by Jamie - where she may never be loved for herself because she will automatically reject those who are drawn to her sexually - without giving a chance to see if alongside that deeper feelings are possible.

i'm curious as to why no sadness was expressed to the chasers who may fall for jamie or any other transsexual that subscribes to her viewpoints.

the reason i say this is because, perhaps that may be the very reason why such view points exist in the first place.

and coincidentally, i find jamie's viewpoint actually makes a lot of sense.

[Infern0]

Cheers for the responses and that guys.

Hey a few things, first off this shit is no way exclusive to TS, as i've said in the past, I have dated and am open to date GG or TS, i'm not a cock fetishist so it's all good for me, I like attractive women, i find many TS to be some of the most attractive but it's not an exclusive thing. Hey insecurity runs in a lot of people especially can understand for TS they have a lot of struggles to get through but some of them are the most "together" people i know, so it's not an excuse to be a piece of trash human being.

I wished my ex luck, but am moving on, and I don't take her behaviour (which was appaling) to be anything to do with being TS, just consider her to be a person with a lot of problems, she has no self respect so how can she be expected to respect anyone else?

Onwards and upwards