is it wrong to be friendly with an escort? need help

[ew86riv]

so basically, i saw a girl at the beginning of december. we had a good time, and she said keep in touch. i don't really have any intentions of seeing her again for sex, but i would like to send a text and say hi. is it wrong to say hi if you're not going to see her anytime soon?

[RallyCola]

idk the nature of your interaction with her, but realistically, you should not be surprised if she does not return the friendly overtures. just think of things from her perspective as an escort who may be bombarded by former clients with similar sentiments.

[templek]

dont you get it? when she said keep in touch it, was not for a curtesy call but to make future bookings!

[wiltthestilt]

so basically, i saw a girl at the beginning of december. we had a good time, and she said keep in touch. i don't really have any intentions of seeing her again for sex, but i would like to send a text and say hi. is it wrong to say hi if you're not going to see her anytime soon?

In my opinion, yes. It is. Don't waste her time if you don't intend on booking soon. What type of relationshp do you intend to have with her? Sending worthless texts back and forth? Staying up late on the couch together watching movies? Get real. It's her job to try to have a good time with you. And even if she genuinely liked you, she has better things to do than texting back and forth with someone she hardly knows.

If you have seen her many times, and it's clear the two of you hit off, then you might send a few friendly texts now and again, or maybe even do something nonsexual off the clock if she is willing. But after one visit, forget it.

[ew86riv]

In my opinion, yes. It is. Don't waste her time if you don't intend on booking soon. What type of relationshp do you intend to have with her? Sending worthless texts back and forth? Staying up late on the couch together watching movies? Get real. It's her job to try to have a good time with you. And even if she genuinely liked you, she has better things to do than texting back and forth with someone she hardly knows.

If you have seen her many times, and it's clear the two of you hit off, then you might send a few friendly texts now and again, or maybe even do something nonsexual off the clock if she is willing. But after one visit, forget it.

i'm not looking for a relationship with the girl. i just want to keep in touch so the next time i want to see her she remembers me. that's the real purpose.

[rodinuk]

You don't have any intentions of seeing her for sex and you don't want a relationship then when exactly is the next time you're going to see her?

What's the change in outcome at that next time if she doesn't remember you?

[sophiebendable]

Since you say you don't intend to ever session with her again, I have to agree with everyone else that this is disrespectful of her time and business. It seems like half the men who call me are only interested in leading me on for some weird virtual friendship, probably because I seem like (and am) the GFE type. Luckily, I've gotten pretty good at identifying those guys.

What I hate, though, is how it makes me cautious in a way that I might seem a bit frigid to real guys first contacting me. I totally respect that some girls are all business, but I personally have no problem exchanging friendly emails with someone who I know I will see regularly. I actually enjoy it. The key, though, for anyone wondering, is to build that friendship in a way thay makes you seem like a regular well-adjusted guy! In other words, get in touch when you have something to talk about, not several times a day whenever you feel lonely

[ew86riv]

You don't have any intentions of seeing her for sex and you don't want a relationship then when exactly is the next time you're going to see her?

What's the change in outcome at that next time if she doesn't remember you?

when i do see her again i'm going for sex, but in the time i don't see her it would be nice just to be able to say hi. i also wouldn't text everyday or week. this would be like once a month. i'm just trying to be friendly. not looking for a relationship or special treatment.

[Quiet Reflections]

she is going to think the worst of you if you start sending texts and being weird about shit. Just leave it, best not to even seem like a stalker.

[ew86riv]

Since you say you don't intend to ever session with her again, I have to agree with everyone else that this is disrespectful of her time and business. It seems like half the men who call me are only interested in leading me on for some weird virtual friendship, probably because I seem like (and am) the GFE type. Luckily, I've gotten pretty good at identifying those guys.

What I hate, though, is how it makes me cautious in a way that I might seem a bit frigid to real guys first contacting me. I totally respect that some girls are all business, but I personally have no problem exchanging friendly emails with someone who I know I will see regularly. I actually enjoy it. The key, though, for anyone wondering, is to build that friendship in a way thay makes you seem like a regular well-adjusted guy! In other words, get in touch when you have something to talk about, not several times a day whenever you feel lonely

i do have the intention of seeing her again, but it may not be a weekly thing or monthly thing. every couple months i might see her so in the time i don't i would like to just say hi every now and again. i have no intentions on texting her everyday or every week. just every so often to maintain contact between visits.