Would a TS escort give a virgin a discount?

[tsadriana]

Some escorts offer a discount in as much as they charge longterm regulars the fee they first paid - even if the escort has since put up her rates.

My low rates are only for the regulars Prospero and guess what im doing very well...im not keen in firstimers in any way x

[TSPornFan]

I don't mean this in a bad or obtuse way but I genuinely feel sorry for you, for having to think this way. I understand what you are saying about being a black guy and only into white girls, that's fine - you've narrowed your options - but how about all those girls out there who think if you show interest in them, then it's for your gain? You two are never going to meet.

I had a hard time dating, especially in the UK into well into my early 20's and didn't like to ask girls out in case of rejection and the humiliation that I thought would come with it. Like many others, I look back on that time and think, if only I'd known then what I know now. Seriously, go onto an online dating site like Friendfinder, Match.com or something. Put your details and exactly what you're looking for and look for some matches. Find some REAL people just to date and hang out with. Girls (whether T or GG) do want to meet guys for gain - but that gain is often companionship, fun, love and friendship.

A nice and thoughtful post Seanchai.... and good advice to you Franklin.

Thanks for the advice. I tried online dating years ago, but I didn't give it much of a chance. I only did it for a month or two without having any conversations with women. They weren't interested. I didn't give it enough time to see how it would workout for me.

I've never had a problem asking women out. My problem is that they're not interested me.

I've taken a lot of advice over the years. The typical advice doesn't work for me. I'm not a pushover or a kissass towards women. I'm going place in my life. I dress well everyday. I tell some people what works for some men is not going to work for other men. This doesn't work for me. It's something that I am learning to accept.

Franklin, you only date white woman?

Yes

[nysprod]

Thanks for the advice. I tried online dating years ago, but I didn't give it much of a chance. I only did it for a month or two without having any conversations with women. They weren't interested. I didn't give it enough time to see how it would workout for me.

I've never had a problem asking women out. My problem is that they're not interested me.

I've taken a lot of advice over the years. The typical advice doesn't work for me. I'm not a pushover or a kissass towards women. I'm going place in my life. I dress well everyday. I tell some people what works for some men is not going to work for other men. This doesn't work for me. It's something that I am learning to accept.

Perhaps I missed this from an earlier post, but why are you insisting on a discount? I mean, what's wrong with just finding a provider and paying what she asks for?

[TSPornFan]

Perhaps I missed this from an earlier post, but why are you insisting on a discount? I mean, what's wrong with just finding a provider and paying what she asks for?

This is just a hypothetical question. I'm not seeking an escort.

I was curious to see if any escorts would try to help a virgin to have a sexual experience. From what I see they look down upon virgin customers.

[RallyCola]

This is just a hypothetical question. I'm not seeking an escort.

I was curious to see if any escorts would try to help a virgin to have a sexual experience. From what I see they look down upon virgin customers.

there is no way to prove a man is a virgin so everyone would cry "i'm a virgin, can i have fries with that"

escorts charge for their time, service and effort. if you don't like her service after the deed is done, pay her rate, don't tip and post a review of your ill-content. asking for/anticipating a discount because of your failure to find non-professional sex, is kinda pathetic.

[zerokool]

What is the point of this thread, and why are people actually humoring this guy? He starts off by saying that it's a "hypothetical question". We then discover that it has no bearing on his life, because paying for sex would be "insulting for someone in my situation". That pretty much tells me that any response is meaningless given his mindset. Even if an escort does provide a discount, it's not like he'd be willing to take advantage of it.

I realize he's an active member that likes to start discussions, but we're not exactly covering new territory here. Anyone with a 2010 join date, and over 1000 posts should know how women in this industry feel about this subject. If not, there's a pretty straightforward solution, you could just call a few escorts to find out. I'm sure there's a few exceptions, but we all know the overwhelming consensus.

So, knowing all that, that shifts our focus to the person who started this thread, Franklin. He must be getting to the point where losing his virginity to an escort is starting to look appealing. Yet, acting on that desire, doesn't coincide with is beliefs. Due to this conflict, he doesn't want to be upfront about it, or isn't willing to admit it to himself. He can deny it all he wants, but starting a thread shows that he's thinking about it.

Based on his responses, and outlook on relationships, being a virgin is his choice! When you're incredibly selective, and close yourself off to the possibility of casual dating that doesn't leave you with many options, if any.

Also, I find it odd that he refuses to go into the details of his situation, but he's eager to know about other people.

Sorry, I don't want to do into details.

So you have experienced virgin clients? How old were these men? What were their background stories?

What's the harm if you're posting anonymously, and not uploading pictures? Just a little information about your life would allow people to better asses the factors that might be holding you back. The only way for people to help you is know where you're coming from. No one is asking for an ID or birth certificate.

Seanchai, Amberskyi, and others are trying to help him out, but it's a waste of time. The post about using online dating and companionship sites, is probably the best option. But, considering the amount of time Franklin spends on this forum, I'm sure he's well aware of it. So, that's another dead end.

I think after enough time passes by, the problem will solve itself. If Franklin refuses to open up to the possibility of dating and relationships, that's his problem. By restricting himself, and making certain choices, he's more or less choosing to remain a virgin. It's not like he's hurting anyone, but himself. And, who knows what the future may hold? Perhaps, as he gets older, he'll be willing to either lower his standards, or finally hire an escort.

Sorry if I sound harsh, but that's just how I see things. There's too many beautiful women on this planet to only limit yourself to one race. Good luck, Franklin!

[nysprod]

Yep to that!

[amberskyi]

Self defeatist attitudes are such a huge turn off

[Willie Escalade]

Zerocool, don't hack my computer

[RallyCola]

i think crashoverride is a better name