Would you allow your tgirlfriend to meet your friends.

[MHarrigan82]

wait...i have a question.

are you more concerned with what your friends will think of you or how they will treat her?

if this is a real relationship with a girl you truly care for, it should be the latter.

To be honest Rally Colla a little of both. I don't want her to be uncomfortable but I don't want to lose friends that I made before meeting her.

[bluesoul]

if this is a real relationship with a girl you truly care for, it should be the latter.

that's amazing. only that one answer is the correct one

[Jamie French]

I don't understand how people could be so attached to friends that wouldn't be comfortable with the harmless decisions one makes for one's self. What's so special about that kind of friend that you would feel shame rather than outrage at their reactions to your decisions? I fantasize about the moments somebody has something to say about the choices I make - especially if they are/were a friend... the fight I'm about to win feels so much more satisfying that way.

[bluesoul]

I don't understand how people could be so attached to friends that wouldn't be comfortable with the harmless decisions one makes for one's self. What's so special about that kind of friend that you would feel shame rather than outrage at their reactions to your decisions?

i can give an example: not all my friends agree with everything i do, or even everything i believe in, even as much as i'd like them to. the same goes for me too. one of my friends is dating one of the biggest bitches i've ever known in my life- and i've told him he's making the worst mistake of his life being with her. it hasn't ended our friendship, but it's certainly caused major friction.

[Jamie French]

That's weak sauce. Sooo dating a transgendered person is equivalent to dating a disagreeable person? What exactly are you trying to say? Furthermore... who get's to go through life without a little friction here and there? Who really deserves to? You gotta Check your rebuttals before you click, "submit reply".

i can give an example: not all my friends agree with everything i do, or even everything i believe in, even as much as i'd like them to. the same goes for me too. one of my friends is dating one of the biggest bitches i've ever known in my life- and i've told him he's making the worst mistake of his life being with her. it hasn't ended our friendship, but it's certainly caused major friction.

[fivekatz]

To be honest Rally Colla a little of both. I don't want her to be uncomfortable but I don't want to lose friends that I made before meeting her.

All due respect but you have already encountered sharp division with your mother and father. Now my guess is that regardless of differences either your mum or dad would walk through hell in gasoline suit for you if your were in trouble.

Now on one hand, the rejection of unconditional support from your parents may have you uneasy about further rejection from friends. But in all candor if you truly do love this lady, doesn't the rejection of friends mean they really aren't all that friendly after all?

Shit man, if you really love this girl, let it be and deal with whatever the reactions maybe. You will still have each other to hold on tight to no matter what these "quote" friends think. Losing someone who doesn't have your back is not as big a lose as it feels in the moment.

Your alternative is to live in the closet and that is not only demoralizing but in a bit of irony you probably should have made that choice before you told your mother and father.

Godspeed man. But remember if these are your friends they may react oddly at first but they will have your back, if not be glad you are strarring at theirs IMHO.

Just my take

[fred41]

Who needs friends anyway...just buy a dog.

[Special42]

I always did

[SXFX]

This really hurts my fucking head....
she's a good looking attractive smart woman...i mean what is there to worry about?
what are you dating? granny trannies?

[elchingon8]

We talked about yesterday. I told her I would love it if she met them but she wants to get more surgery first. Its not an issue for me. I know my friends wouldn't care