Would you allow your tgirlfriend to meet your friends.

[bluesoul]

but everyone here keeps going on about how they don't care what others think, and the op has even stopped talking with his folks for this person because they didn't approve of their son dating a transsexual and that was well supported here.

but now they logic has gone back to "don't let your friends know she's a transsexual"?

...and if she's an adult, it isn't an illicit relationship.
We should be well past that shit on this site at least.

my comment had more to do with "her secret" being kept from his friends. what shit are we supposed to be past exactly?

[bluesoul]

The point is that it's "her" reason ...not yours- and it will affect her more than it will ever affect you.

considering that the op is no longer in speaking terms with his folks, i'd say it's affecting him more than her.

btw: i'm not saying to tell the friends without her knowledge, but not to keep it hidden

[fred41]

considering that the op is no longer in speaking terms with his folks, i'd say it's affecting him more than her.

btw: i'm not saying to tell the friends without her knowledge, but not to keep it hidden

You don't know that. You don't know what shit she goes through on a daily basis.
You really want to imagine the difference?
Okay, ...you see the shit the OP went through just because he told his father he's dating a TS?..They don't talk...but there's a chance they might one day. Maybe not.
All because he said he's dating a TS.
Now imagine what would have happened if instead of saying he's dating a TS...
he said that he was a TS.
.
There's a difference.

As for the second part of your question...you can't tell your friends without her knowledge if she says "No".

[hwbs]

i have plenty of times...only a few people in my personal life don't know i like ts and work of course.....but i always keep work separate whether its about gg or ts

[Prospero]

I think you should proudly introduce her - if she is really your girlfriend and not just a fuck buddy ora casual date. As to her gender identity. That is for her to decide.

[tao1kiku]

If she wants people to know she is a TS, then she will make that announcement. Not your place to say anything. And if you're not comfortable being out with her and the chance of someone clocking her, stop dating her - that's for her sake, not yours. You should be proud to be with her

[robertlouis]

I think you should proudly introduce her - if she is really your girlfriend and not just a fuck buddy ora casual date. As to her gender identity. That is for her to decide.

Totally.

[Willie Escalade]

I did; the crew (who is NOT in the scene) didn't care. Many of them know NOW she was TS; they STILL don't care.

[Chiba5]

if I had a Ts gf I would introduce her to my relatives and my friends and it's up to her to reveal that she's a TS I would still love her with all my heart and support her

[RallyCola]

wait...i have a question.

are you more concerned with what your friends will think of you or how they will treat her?

if this is a real relationship with a girl you truly care for, it should be the latter.