Trans Girls and Couples: The Bisexual Question

[BellaBellucci]

This isn't really a debate about bisexuality as much as it has to do with idioculture and defense of false identity. If someone doesn't claim to be something that they're not, then they can't steal the benefits that come with acceptance.

Claiming that you're bisexual because you WILL be with another person of the same sex in order to please your partner is not much different from CDs and TVs attempting to claim transsexuality, as I've mentioned. Interestingly, the people making the claims that they are something that they're not will quickly revert to an argument against the entire idea of labeling as soon as they're found out, and yet, we're just supposed to take everyone at face value. To that, I say no. Today's social mandate is anything goes. I try not to discriminate, but I am discerning, as we all should be.

Self-labeling just doesn't work. Anybody can claim to be anything, and they do. I can claim to be a defector to Iran, but that doesn't mean that I'm not still a CIA asset, for instance. The LGBT community is an excellent case-study in my theory. We can't agree on anything usually, not even terms, because so many people are insincere and trying to redefine certain concepts for their own personal benefit and no other reason.

Either way, you're the bad guy when you call somebody out on bullshit. That's called 'cognitive dissonance,' but it's OK for me. I'm a bitch who just don't give a fuck about your self-delusions and your entitlement complex. I live my life in complete honesty and I earn my place in social circles with sincerity and consistency. I don't just slap on a badge that says, 'Hi, my name is Bisexual' and expect everybody to see me in a way in which I don't even see myself.

It's scary for many, but natural for me. Damn though, people! Stop trying to be something that you're not!

~BB~

[MrsKellyPierce]

I do it cause it pleases me..I like the feel of it and like big tits..

I just feel comfortable with a male being there..just like it makes me feel weird when I'm with a guy that has a smaller dick than me.

It's for comfort..

[loveboof]

sur wat eva yu sai

While we're here, 'eat my nauseous vomit' doesn't really make a lot of sense... I'm sure you think it sounds cool, but it's completely unnecessary.

Anyway, just gimme a shout if you want any help with cover letters (etc)...

[BellaBellucci]

I thought ppl are allowed to write the way sounds better for them

Case-in-point.

~BB~

[jamiethewild]

While we're here, 'eat my nauseous vomit' doesn't really make a lot of sense... I'm sure you think it sounds cool, but it's completely unnecessary.

Anyway, just gimme a shout if you want any help with cover letters (etc)...

sur wat eva yu sai.... ill give you a shot 4 latters.... MIIGA HYPUUCRaTE

[BellaBellucci]

I do it cause it pleases me..I like the feel of it and like big tits..

I just feel comfortable with a male being there..just like it makes me feel weird when I'm with a guy that has a smaller dick than me.

It's for comfort..

Comfort? So otherwise, you find being with a woman uncomfortable? I mean, you can do whatever you want, but I'm asking you as a truly bisexual person to stop claiming that you are too. You're feeding into stereotypes.

~BB~

[loveboof]

sur wat eva yu sai.... ill give you a shot 4 latters.... MIIGA HYPUUCRaTE

Yes, we're making progress! Maybe next time you could start with:

I would like to apply for the position of cleaning lady because I have extensive experience cleaning strangers cum off my thighs. In addition to this I become nauseous when I vomit, so I like to avoid offensive smells and stains.

Something along those lines would be much more appropriate!

[BellaBellucci]

Yes, we're making progress! Maybe next time you could start with:

I would like to apply for the position of cleaning lady because I have extensive experience cleaning strangers cum off my thighs. In addition to this I become nauseous when I vomit, so I like to avoid offensive smells and stains.

Something along those lines would be much more appropriate!

Wooooow!!! You just channeled ND there. Literal lulz!

~BB~

[MrsKellyPierce]

Comfort? So otherwise, you find being with a woman uncomfortable? I mean, you can do whatever you want, but I'm asking you as a truly bisexual person to stop claiming that you are too. You're feeding into stereotypes.

~BB~

No I just think I'm not comfortable playing the dominate role with a woman as I am with a man.

So I guess in my case, like many men do to transsexuals, I fetishize women...

Every once in awhile...I like it

So call me a female chaser

[acouplenyc]

can we classify sexuality as true? is anyone a true bisexual, heterosexual, homosexual? i doubt it. there are varying degrees of sexuality and thank god there are.