when girls say "I don´t need to escort"

[Nikka]

nobody NEEED to escort

IMHO

[Remy757Photog]

I don't escort nor do I NEED to but I do sometimes think about the extra cash I could be making especially when times are hard with my business.

[AmyDaly]

I think it just comes down to the pure lazyness of not wanting to get a real job in a lot of cases.

[jamiethewild]

I think it just comes down to the pure lazyness of not wanting to get a real job in a lot of cases.

Completely disagree with your dumb logic....
Have you ever been in this industry ? Its a life style we are used to and why change it ? when we can used the time that needs to be used for escorting. Why not used the youth and the skills that its on demand

[Remy757Photog]

Completely disagree with your dumb logic....
Have you ever been in this industry ? Its a life style we are used to and why change it ? when we can used the time that needs to be used for escorting. Why not used the youth and the skills that its on demand

I disagree. I don't believe it is dumb logic nor a life style that a trans person is inherently "used to". Most of us aren't realizing when we are kids that we want to be women that escort. We have the same hopes, dreams, and aspirations as any other women. Its more a vicious cycle of our peers escorting and girls just falling in line with their peers status quo. I grew up working regular 9-5 jobs since I was 15 so when my "gay mother" told me I would need to start tricking when I began my transition I balked at such a presumption and kept working jobs and transitioning.

[AmyDaly]

Completely disagree with your dumb logic....
Have you ever been in this industry ? Its a life style we are used to and why change it ? when we can used the time that needs to be used for escorting. Why not used the youth and the skills that its on demand

Its not dumb logic when I'm basing it off my personal life experiences of knowing a lot of prostitutes.

What you just said is dumb logic. When you are old and nobody wants to hire you any more, have fun on welfare or working at McDonalds because you are throwing away years of experience.

"Have you ever been in this industry". Look at you with your little "Oh no you didn't" smilie. lulz

[tsmounting]

Completely disagree with your dumb logic....
Have you ever been in this industry ? Its a life style we are used to and why change it ? when we can used the time that needs to be used for escorting. Why not used the youth and the skills that its on demand

That's a little defensive of you Jamie. I think Amy has a reasonable view here. It could well be that some people have a clear choice to set up as an escort or pursue some kind of vocation, apply themselves and see returns after a much longer period of investment. They choose the easy option because they are fundamentally averse to exerting themselves in any way shape or form aka lazy. Nothing wrong with being lazy per se, it's just not great if you want to get peoples respect and have a good self-esteem etc. This of course does not apply to every escorting case but it's fair to say this is true a significant amount of the time. One only has to read the posts/reviews on here to see that! N.B. lazy people are not always escorts! lol

[RallyCola]

I think it just comes down to the pure lazyness of not wanting to get a real job in a lot of cases.

ding ding..we have a proper answer.

well...i've said it before...if i could make money man whoring, i would...it is easier than most jobs and its tax free.

[bluesoul]

Completely disagree with your dumb logic....
Have you ever been in this industry ? Its a life style we are used to and why change it ? when we can used the time that needs to be used for escorting. Why not used the youth and the skills that its on demand

you actually just proved her point

[BellaBellucci]

I think it just comes down to the pure lazyness of not wanting to get a real job in a lot of cases.

Are you serious? 'Get a job?' That's your response? Are you a Republican?

The fact is that even here in 'open-minded' California, it's hard for a trans person to find work because, well, it's hard for ANYBODY to find work right now. Adding the complication of being trans to the equations makes it all that much more difficult. Rejection sucks, especially when it's nearly perpetual. I feel for a lot of girls.

In my own case, I have a bunch of part-time jobs, I go to school, and yes, I also escort, albeit highly selectively. Every little bit helps.

you actually just proved her point

Didn't take long, did it? She just walked right into that.

~BB~