Dont's for first timers to a tranny club ?

[sucka4chix]

This is a joke, right? I would kick a guy in the balls if he did this to me.

Hmmm, so I guess I need to go back and kick alot of Tgirls!

[SXFX]

Fart and dressing like crap....oh and poor tipping of the bartender.

[nysprod]

Why wouldn't you just do what you do when you go to a regular club?

Because by and large, the girls are pros looking to do business...

[francisfkudrow]

This would be why I don't function well in clubs...straight, gay, trans, whatever. Just can't walk up to strangers and start talking to them. I've been introduced to people by friends, met people off the internet, whatever...but going up to a stranger and starting a conversation? Forget it.

I'm the same way. I have no idea how people just walk up to someone and start a conversation without seeming creepy.

[JenniferParisHusband]

Basic rules I've always gone by, not in any kind of order.

1.) Talk to people, if you can. If not, keep going back until you're comfortable enough to talk to them, or you are approachable for someone to come and talk to you.
2.) Don't be creepy.
3.) Tip the bartender and wait-staff.
4.) If there's a revue, tip the performers and compliment them on their performances, costumes, and beauty, if you find them deserving of your praise and money. If they aren't worthy, tip anyway.
5.) Don't be creepy. (yes, it bears repeating).
6.) They aren't Trannys, or ho's, be polite and treat every lady with respect. Being a gentleman goes a long way, being respectful of the fact that it's their world and you're just being a guest goes further.
7.) If it's your first time, admit it, and embrace it. Try to enjoy being there, and meeting new people.
8.) Super important one, don't be fucking creepy!!!!
9.) Don't expect to pick anyone up the first few times you go. If you're looking for relationships or even one nighters, you still go each time with the intent to build up a positive reputation, learn the land, and make connections. When you know what you're doing, advance your experience.
10.) Look for a mentoring opportunity, if there is one available. Chasers tend to stand out in the crowd. Meet someone there who is a regular, and not wearing heels, and get to know them as well, they can introduce you aroundand help you learn what the etiquite is.

[nysprod]

Basic rules I've always gone by, not in any kind of order.

2.) Don't be creepy.
5.) Don't be creepy. (yes, it bears repeating).
8.) Super important one, don't be fucking creepy!!!!

Define "creeepy"

[fred41]

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[Tina Francis]

I don't understand why the word 'Tranny' would be offensive in a crowd where the most celebrated industry award is named just that. I'd like some of the girls opinions on this. Some on here seem to hate it, some do not. None seem offended by being called 'Shemales'. But just try using the word 'Shemale' at a Southern Comfort convention....

[amberskyi]

I don't understand why the word 'Tranny' would be offensive in a crowd where the most celebrated industry award is named just that. I'd like some of the girls opinions on this. Some on here seem to hate it, some do not. None seem offended by being called 'Shemales'. But just try using the word 'Shemale' at a Southern Comfort convention....

because this is porn and in no way should you take any cues on how to deal with trans woman from porn.if you use industry words to a girl than either you should expect to be dismissed or get an industry response from her (i.e pay me trick lol).
you wouldnt go up to an older attractive woman and call her a hot sexy milf would ya lol (im sure some assholes do lol)
ps.call me a shemale in a social setting (ie outside of porn and escorting) i will walk away with your nuts

[sophiebendable]

I'm the same way. I have no idea how people just walk up to someone and start a conversation without seeming creepy.

Being bisexual, I can totally relate. When I was younger, I thought I was just bad at approaching people, but then I realized I just have no desire to do so.

This can be tough with women, but it really stands out when one comes on to me. I think this is because women are able to say dirtier things to strangers without seeming creepy, at least in my opinion, because I don't have to have many of the same safety concerns with them.

With men, on the other hand, I get approached all the time, but mostly only by the creepy ones. It seems like it's the same lack of social skills that makes them think it's okay to say offensive things to me that allows them to have no anxiety about talking to a stranger. Makes me wish some of the shyer guys would step up, because I assume they'd be more respectful and interesting.