How dangerous is escorting?

[sophiebendable]

I just want to thank everyone for this discussion. I'm considering escorting, so this sort of information is much appreciated

[Jamie French]

What's with the Rolex thing? I don't get it.

[giovanni_hotel]

What's with the Rolex thing? I don't get it.

You have to click and read the link in post #81.

[Jamie French]

Oh. Welp, I don't have the time or patience to putz around with that kind of nonsense so I just put all offending parties on the ol' ignore list. No fuss no muss.

You have to click and read the link in post #81.

[LibertyHarkness]

But, if you take pics, it's not considered prostitution, it's considered pornography, and then you just need them to sign USC 2257 forms. Or something like that.

good luck getting a client to sign a model release form and give you a copy of his photo ID hahaha ....and vica versa for the girl to hand over her details ...


As for safety.. safety in numbers i say ...i always have someone else with me when i escort ...

Also as Tyler said here in the UK its much easier for us as its Legal to escort .. so we are afforded safety from the police ..So any iffy clients know this that we can turn to the police for help if we are beaten/robbed etc ... so this can act as a deterent for some iffy dudes ..

For example my old apartment had 2 CCTV cameras so I had copies of every client coming to see me at my disposal from the estate office if i wished .. one going into the building complex and one going into my floor ... Also with the CCTV door entry you can see if people are alone or in a group .. but generally you can spot them people on the phone easy enough .. for me it was simple I wont see anyone that doesnt speak clear english ..I wont see eastern europeans i.e albanians/polaks etc So its a like a filtering process as some have mentioned ...

Or as loveboof has said you can price yourself out of the market abit to get rid of a chunk of the dreamers etc ..Pricing etc comes down to how much you need the money i guess .. me i dont escort to live, i escort as and when i want to around my webcamming, photography work, paid shoots/ modelling ..so its just a bonus of cash basically to save up or use for surgeries etc.

Escorting is not 100% safe and it never can be, but then neither is shooting porn, neither is sticking massive things up your arsehole, neither is being a taxi driver, neither is working as a scaffolder, neither is being a soldier etc ... you can only limit the risks as much as you can ..

Some of my no no questions on phone that result in my hanging up or questioning further -

- Is it discreet where you are (can take this two ways good and bad)
- are you alone (i always take this as a bad sign)
- you dont have any camera's do you (always take this as a bad sign)
- Ghetto/Slang/Street speak - (not interested and hang up )
- to many sexual questions - (hangup or give them premium number)
- can you pick me up/meet me at station (errr no thanks, its an incall for reason)
- really bad english, or hardly any english (not going to be a good meet with me, so i decline these, if i cant understand them properly then i am not going to be relaxed and enjoy myself so easier to decline it)
- dont see people after 9pm (generally i find the later the time gets the worse condition the person potentially is in , drunk,high etc ) (i only see late night people if they have been prebooked in before on a booking system with reputable feedback i.e adultwork)
- Do you Party? (decline as no interest in druggies, orgies etc , have done 2 of these in past never again )
- Will you see 2 men at once ? (no i wont. i decline these again )
- Are you clean (get asked this alot, but it goes bothways i turn it back and ask them and explain why)

there are many more questions i could list ...

For me its just using common sense, and thinking about it abit and always go with my gut instinct... if i do get a iffty client that is weird etc then i will send his details etc to other girls so they know as well .. nice thing with adultwork is that the providers can leave information about clients on there on their profiles that the client cant see only other working girls can .. so if they are weird, pushy etc what not , or just great fun you can leave hidden feedback.notes etc for others to see . or warnings etc ..

just my thoughts x

be safe have fun x

[loveboof]

I just put all offending parties on the ol' ignore list. No fuss no muss.

Cool. If someone wants, they could let Jamie know that Tyler__Durden doesn't need ignoring! (She was just taking the piss out of me for my drama )

[darkrose2000]

good luck getting a client to sign a model release form and give you a copy of his photo ID hahaha ....and vica versa for the girl to hand over her details ...


As for safety.. safety in numbers i say ...i always have someone else with me when i escort ...

......x

True, true and again true.
And also there must be Respect. To each other.

Also, no matter how strange it sounds - trust your "6th sense".
One client less is much better that one possible problem more.

[Bunzee]

for the girls who escort, how often do you have a client that doesn't pay? do you make them pay first before the service?

[BiBoyinBeantown]

as Tyler said here in the UK its much easier for us as its Legal to escort .. so we are afforded safety from the police ..So any iffy clients know this that we can turn to the police for help if we are beaten/robbed etc ... so this can act as a deterent for some iffy dudes ..

Why the FUCK is this still illegal between consenting adults in a so-called "Free" country?

[Rusty Eldora]

Or, how 'bout I just advertise on Eros...I have the money to afford an ad.

And be very careful about what clients I select, and ask them to provide references, so I don't pick up a gangster or axe murderer.

On BP you almost need a daily ad as it scrolls off the page and not viewed. In Seattle and HNL I think it is about $10 for a BP ad, so $300 a month. A TG ad in Seattle is around $120 and you are up there for the month. Yes it is considered to be higher end. However, I have seen even very good escorts use BP to fill in when travelling.

For TS I have no problem using BP here, it does have the most options and about the same amount of fakes.

For gg escorts, I am always providing 2 references (prior ladies I have seen) that are checked. Greatly improved safety.