Why are TG relationships so difficult

[Kevin Dong]

Kevin, why do you say it sounds like a "Me" issue?

Because you're the one who needs his eyes opened. You said there's a business you started together and she's up at 10am and bed at 2? I'm a porn producer and I don't get up that late. You also said she's on Facebook as soon as you're out of the house. She's also checking out "hot guys" online. What is there to explain? She clearly doesn't see a problem with doing that. It's not her issue, it's your issue that you don't understand what's going on there.

[MrsKellyPierce]

It sounds to me you are looking for someone with a different mindset and lifestyle.

Maybe you should find another girl

[goku]

I've been in a relationship with a TG woman for over a year now (my first TG relationship) and we seem to always fight about something...everything is about her. We started an online business together and she doesn't seem very dedicated to it (up at 10am and goes to sleep at 2am). And it seems as soon as I leave the house she starts watching porn and masterbating and then starts checking out "Hot guy's" online or commenting on explicit content on facebook. And she's 32! Never had this issue with GG and wondering if it's her or are all of them like that?

It doesn't matter whether it's a gg or ts, you can't change anyone. If they aren't who you like it's time to move on.

[Castor_Troy05]

[ed_jaxon]

A couple of brief questions.

Was she like this when you first met?

Did something happen that caused her to slip into this behavior pattern such as job loss or another life change?

If it was there in the beginning was it something you slowly came to notice but now realize it was there all along?

Can you accept her never changing and be happy with the relationship?