Dan Savage this week

[BiBoyinBeantown]

Dan Savage answers a letter: "I had a transwoman sex worker fuck me in the ass and I regretted it and felt guilty about it later. Am I gay?"

Short answer/spoiler: "No."
http://www.avclub.com/articles/january-9-2012,90615/

Wish the letter-writer would stop being so neurotic, sounds like he had a great time until he starting worrying that he could have ZOMG CAUGHT TEH GHEY from bottoming.

I don't get why people put so much emphasis on labels. You like who and what you like, to hell with trying to hang a label on it. That way lies madness.

Speaking of "party and play", from another thread, dude was fucked up on hash, too. This is why sex when you're fucked up is a bad idea, it leads you to make risky and/or poor decisions. He's lucky that that sex worker was scrupulous about condoms and safer-sex because he certainly wasn't in the headspace to be.

[giovanni_hotel]

LOL. Savage did say the gayest thing a straight guy can do is take a dick up the butt, but in his opinion it doesn't mean you're into dudes.

Like everyone here knows, it's STRAIGHT GUYS who get turned out by trans-women. Gay guys are into other gay dudes, not just the dick.

Hope that advice column reply clears shit up for some of the lurkers still on the fence.

[Ben]

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