For men that have been with ts...

[bellamy]

I bet some of the issues are the fact that most guys first time with a ts is also with a prostitute which can add to the nervousness also

[reformedcharacter]

the first Ts I knowingly spoke to was a girl who supported the same soccer team as me but it was only after one occasion I saw her in the pub after a game and she tickled the top of my head as she said goodbye that I became curious.

Strictly speaking the first ts I had sex with was a post-op girl and it felt totally natural and just like with any other girl.

A few years later I took the plunge and met a pre-op TS escort and I only started to feel nervous when I thought that maybe once I saw her in the flesh that I'd find that I wasn't as into the idea of having sex with her as I fantasised.

Needless to say I found that not to be the case and afterwards it felt like I had made this amazing discovery and I couldn't wait to do it again.

To be honest I in my experience I feel like I connect more with ts girls than other girls which is the main reason why I've continued to see them I just wish there were more of them that you can meet in everday life rather than this relatively secretive world

[Spittingboobs]

Never been in my life consider myself straight.
Now saying that many many beautiful babes out in the world.

But only one I would ever be with is allanahstar and yes I would allow anything and everything. She is the bomb

Sorry was on the iphone hard to type so now on laptop.

To continue on from what i was saying.
If a guy decides he wants to become a girl and goes through with all this work to become what she is... The motivation and desire to succeed in life is strong.
So why cheat with your desires.

Reading so many threads here as to wanting a ts gf... and who would you want to be with etc..

Just do it stop wasting time in this once chance you got!

[timid1]

actually it did and quite eloquently.you did have the immediate feelings of fear but i liked reading about your journey to acceptance.i wonder if it was really fear you were feeling or just a case of nerves about a new sexual experience.
i know when im going to be intimate with someone new im all nerves and awkwardness lol.of course im talking in regards to interactions within my personal life.when it comes to "work" its like a switch goes on lol

Amber, I guess a combo of both fear and nerves? I don't enjoy Gay Porn generally, as there is a lot of aggression , whereas TS girls are far more feminine and generally more gentle ? Therefore (maybe my perception only) I felt less threatened, but a little scared nonetheless. (Scared of the " unknown"?) However , I take your point re: nerves about a new sexual exp. I'm nervous each time I meet a new girl for the first time. I've met 9 different girls, only one encounter was disappointing . We just didn't connect personality wise. However , her reviews on this site were generally poor, but she lived close by . I was hoping we might click, I usually get on with people , but she was exactly like the reviews said. All the other girls were friendly, and I really enjoyed the meeting. I've seen 4 of the girls at least twice, and have exchanged messages with a couple of the girls whose personalities I liked the most. I appreciate it is "business" for you girls at times, but I like to strike up a nice relationship if possible? It makes subsequent visits much for fun..... Hopefully for the girl too?!! And stops me being scared! X

[blckhaze]

Did any of you after your first time, say never again?

If so, why? What made you change your mind?

Then after you did it the second time, was it due to being more secure or was the experience just better?

I said never again, but because she was a hookup I knew nothing about. By the time I made the attempt for physicals i knew it was something i wanted long term just not what role id ultimately play.
My secodn time rocked mainly because it was with a girl who i knew more than just as a piece of flesh with a half way working brain.

[Kire89]

I think it's easy to become ambivalent, insecure and thoughtful after such an experience. I think that I've reflected long enough on this matter that my first time with a TS (assuming I see one that's recommended or get lucky with one that has no HungAngels "cred" (or is reviewed elsewhere)) will be wonderful. I look forward to the day it reaches fruition!

[spunkette]

I'd spent a lot of time using TS porn before taking the plunge with my 1st escort who was a TV. The experience was horny but unfulfilling given all the build up. It didn't put me off - just made me more curious. Feels like a long journey to find something - still travelling. Seem to have plenty of breaks on the way where I divert my energies to GG or football!

[txjr3]

Couple of ads in the back page of the local free rag causght my attention, and I followed up with a call. Had a great time, never looked back - now I think I prefer TS to GG, although I like 'em all. All started about 20yrs ago

[wiltthestilt]

I did it last summer. BJ both ways. It was a first time for me; and I was exhilerated during the lead up. The experience itself was OK. I chose the provider because she was very feminine and she had an established reputation. I wasnt overly attracted to her; not because of the cock, but she had a broader frame than I like. Services were very limited. Basically just the bj. I would have topped her, which was not offered. I would not bottom, which was offered. On the positive side I got hard and popped like normal and she was cool to chat with. She also got hard and came which I wanted.

With my curiosity satisfied, I am not motivated to do it again. Finding a TS who I find attractive, gets hard, and will bottom isnt easy and the few who intrigue me charge 2x to 3x as much as a gg. I only watch TS porn these days, but Im happy with gg providers. I am open to doing it again. I dont know when it will be though.

[brickcitybrother]

The first time was awkward... but hot nonetheless. But it was a long time before I did anything again. And it really takes being confident with yourself before you enjoy anyone or anything.