Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?

[archineer]

Not sure why either, my husband prefers sex with trans over women. He says the ass is tighter and basically feels the same as pussy, and not a lot of females will let you fuck them in the ass. If they do, he said they were never good at it.

He also says, he loved eating out girls, but only found a few he actually enjoyed it with. He says as long as an ass is clean there is no smell and same with a cock if it's clean.

I think it's because they want to be seen and validated as women, hence they want 100% straight guys. The thing is these types of guys wouldn't touch them, as they tend to think of ts girls as 'men,' where as it's guys like us who like ts' that are likely to view them as women.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Basically they want to be seen and validated as women, hence they want 100% straight guys. The thing is these types of guys wouldn't touch them, as they tend to think of ts girls as 'men,' where as it's guys who like ts' who are more likely to view them as women.

Exactly and sex is meant to be enjoyed. What if the guy you are fucking can't get you off anally. I can with my husband, but I always thought gee what if I couldn't. That would suck.

Men want to please the woman they love, that's why so many women fake it. Otherwise it would work on the males self-esteem.

[TSCURIOUS]

Kelly - You have a point - a very valid one.
Sex is important, very! But there is a ying/yang dicotemy (sp?) here. There are trade offs. Maybe, for some, the aspects of the non-sexual, caring/loving part make up for some of the sexual?
And - in an open, trusting, (you know what you got into) relationship - the sexual part can be figured out.
Now - if the physical part is out from the beginning- it will not work - obviously - but you would never have gotten to that point in the first place.
We all like rocket sex, but as you get to a certian point in life - is that all there is? Trust me - we're all getting there!
For me - A SECURE STRAIGHT MAN - I actually enjoy sex with a TS girl as much or more than a GG.

It's the realtionship which it's all about--

Just me rambling-

[amberskyi]

Well that's because you prefer pussy over ass.

Some men may disagree with you, and I've been fucked in my ass over and over again by my husband and it's still tight.

The problem is a lot of girls don't fuck a dick like a pussy can, some girls can but a lot of girls can't.

You even see it in porn movies, the girl barely takes it and bounces on it here and there. The guy is always jerking off at the end to climax.

They're jerking at the end cause its porn and need to cum on demand.plus allot of directors want a visible cum shot.you see the same thing in straight porn

[TSCURIOUS]

^ Beauty AND brains!!

[BellaBellucci]

We could almost say the same thing back to you...why is it so hard to find a guy who wants something more than exploring what's between my legs, and wants a relationship outside of the bedroom.

We all face the same challenges in looking for a relationship, it's just a matter of never giving up until you find that needle in the haystack.

^ Fuckin' A this! <3

~BB~

[amberskyi]

Ugh..i hate how people try to say because a guy is with me than he isn't straight, he's atleast bi.for some guys it isn't about an attraction to cock but his attraction to the woman i am.its those type of guys who aren't going to get all bothered when i get srs.

[FreddieGomez]

it doesn't bother me

it isn't necessary unless it's a long term thing

[archineer]

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[archineer]

Exactly and sex is meant to be enjoyed. What if the guy you are fucking can't get you off anally. I can with my husband, but I always thought gee what if I couldn't. That would suck.

Men want to please the woman they love, that's why so many women fake it. Otherwise it would work on the males self-esteem.

Indeed. It's no good being with someone who isn't secure enough in themselves to be with you so why would any girl bother pining after guys like that?