Guys who want to bottom

[MsDazzler]

You know, even before I transitioned and was presenting as a "gay" man, I never really liked anyone touching my genitalia down there and was always a 100% bottom.

[innocentbychoice]

Well, isn't anal sex a big attraction for those guys? I have met some guys who told me that they love trans women because they love giving anal, and with transwomen, it is not up for debate. A lot of natal women refuse to even consider doing anal at all.

Well yeah but I'm guessing that if a guy looks specifically for a pre-op TS whether it is to date or just have sex with her, chances are that it is not precisely because of her ass.

[alyssaluxor]

ive written dozens of powerbottom topics before saying most TS admirer/chasers are powerbottoms but most guys here think im lying. well at least now they know its true lol

like i said 99.99999999999999% of TS Admirer/Chasers are powerbottom and ultra passive haha

[littletwink]

Dating is really incredibly difficult for straight male bottoms. I know because (in what seems like a past life) I used to see myself that way. This means that whenever a woman of any type is perceived to be a top or even versatile, she'll have tons of men flocking to her. I used to be pretty active in the bdsm community and I can say this is definitely true for non-trans women who are dominant as well. Men who are tops just have so many more options, many of which follow from the ability to be open about their sexual preference. The real problem as I see it is that most people in general think trans women who still have their penis must automatically be tops (when the majority actually seem to be bottoms). That would explain your experience on dating sites.

I'm really into TS/TV who *can* top, even if it's not truly natural for them. I'm a switch myself, typically very dominant by day, but more passive/submissive by night. In other words, you'd probably love waking up with me, Sophie.

[littletwink]

ive written dozens of powerbottom topics before saying most TS admirer/chasers are powerbottoms but most guys here think im lying. well at least now they know its true lol

like i said 99.99999999999999% of TS Admirer/Chasers are powerbottom and ultra passive haha

When you say powerbottom, are you talking about 'topping from the bottom' or bottoming almost exclusively? Something else?

[innocentbychoice]

When you say powerbottom, are you talking about 'topping from the bottom' or bottoming almost exclusively? Something else?

A powerbottom is someone who is dominant when bottoming. Takes charge in bed even though they're bottoming.

[hungluvr]

Top, bottom then top then bottom...I'm in either way.

[NRT]

I am 100% top and could never be a bottom. I have seen some tgirls who were top only and had a boring time. I find that strange, i thought tgirls are feminine and not into 'masculine' things like topping? there was a top escort, Lola from manhattan who was beautiful but was top only. Maybe some guys like paying for a passable escort to top them? I thought it would be the other way round. I would not want anything up my arse

[jamesedwards]

Well, isn't anal sex a big attraction for those guys? I have met some guys who told me that they love trans women because they love giving anal, and with transwomen, it is not up for debate. A lot of natal women refuse to even consider doing anal at all.

Well if there is a problem in the gay community dealing with bottoms vs tops, ummmmm well they would have to deal with it. I don't deal on a general basis and don't really care what gays do or go through dealing with top and bottoms. Lets face it, most men love to top because that's their nature, guys like me that love to top and bottom are a different species because we understand the affects of being a switch like that and enjoying the ecstasy and orgasm that goes along with being fucked in the ass. I have an anal fetish, I love GG's and TGirls, never would be into gay men.

The men that love to bottom in the gay community is basically Girls, they want to get fucked they don't want to do the actually fucking like women take dick they don't give dick. So the gay men community have to deal with a state that is unnatural, and the stigma that goes along with it. A straight guy wouldn't fuck a gay man but he would fuck a beautiful TGirl because of the concept that she is a woman and loves anal, and a lot of straight men want to fuck an ass and TGirls love ass fucking and it's basically no other choice but to take it in the ass unless they have their operation.

[Cannotresist6]

I wish more tgirls were only bottom. Like escorts that say they are dominant I have to avoid.