Guys who want to bottom

[MsDazzler]

I am not disaparaging guys who like to bottom and want Tgirls to top them. That is their preference.

However, I constantly seem to get "bottom" types more than "top" types. Are there far more guys who want to bottom than guys who want to top in the TS community?

I know in the gay community, the ratio of bottoms to tops is far skewed and tops are always in demand, lol. Sometimes bottoms have to relcutantly switch to being vers in order to satisfy the other partner they have fallen for and they are bottoms only.

I just would love to find that dream man I want and he is a 100 % top... FML

On a related note, I just don't find asses attractive and when a guy emails me his ass picures upfront, I am instantly turned off. Does any other TG girl feel the same way?

[darkrose2000]

Nothing new under the sun

Lets be honest most of the guys are looking for Tgirls, because of her dick...

Ofcourse not everyone, but it seems that your observations are quite right.

Regards,
K.

[innocentbychoice]

I am not disaparaging guys who like to bottom and want Tgirls to top them. That is their preference.

However, I constantly seem to get "bottom" types more than "top" types. Are there far more guys who want to bottom than guys who want to top in the TS community?

I know in the gay community, the ratio of bottoms to tops is far skewed and tops are always in demand, lol. Sometimes bottoms have to relcutantly switch to being vers in order to satisfy the other partner they have fallen for and they are bottoms only.

I just would love to find that dream man I want and he is a 100 % top... FML

On a related note, I just don't find asses attractive and when a guy emails me his ass picures upfront, I am instantly turned off. Does any other TG girl feel the same way?

I don't think that is particularly true about the gay community. There are many tops just like there are many bottoms, and there are a lot of people in between.

When it comes to TS women, well I guess it's very common for guys wanting to bottom, after all they can always top with GGs right? I mean I know they can also top with TS but I think the possibility of bottoming is probably something that attracts them more to tgirls.

[MsDazzler]

Well, isn't anal sex a big attraction for those guys? I have met some guys who told me that they love trans women because they love giving anal, and with transwomen, it is not up for debate. A lot of natal women refuse to even consider doing anal at all.

[caliuncut]

my 2 cents - msdazzler is definitely right about tops being in demand in the gay community, just go look on your local craigslist boards. It's overflowing with bottoms, cocksuckers, etc...its like a 15:1 ratio lol.

I personally do not want a ts who is a top, I enjoy the femininity and the raw beauty so many tgirls exude. It's more of a mindstate - the yin and yang of fem and masc and an understanding of the dynamic which oddly enough most GG's just don't get.

Now as far as the problem of too many guys wanting to bottom...lol, I can feel your pain I guess. Might I ask where you are looking...are you posting on CL looking for guys, are you being clear about the type of guy you're looking for?

btw - it's fair to keep in mind that many ts' probably miss out on a lot of awesome guys because you can be so picky. Every guy must have a 6 pack, be 6''0'+ and pack a min of 8"....We're not all David Beckham here lol.

[sophiebendable]

Dating is really incredibly difficult for straight male bottoms. I know because (in what seems like a past life) I used to see myself that way. This means that whenever a woman of any type is perceived to be a top or even versatile, she'll have tons of men flocking to her. I used to be pretty active in the bdsm community and I can say this is definitely true for non-trans women who are dominant as well. Men who are tops just have so many more options, many of which follow from the ability to be open about their sexual preference. The real problem as I see it is that most people in general think trans women who still have their penis must automatically be tops (when the majority actually seem to be bottoms). That would explain your experience on dating sites.

[caliuncut]

Dating is really incredibly difficult for straight male bottoms. I know because (in what seems like a past life) I used to see myself that way. This means that whenever a woman of any type is perceived to be a top or even versatile, she'll have tons of men flocking to her. I used to be pretty active in the bdsm community and I can say this is definitely true for non-trans women who are dominant as well. Men who are tops just have so many more options, many of which follow from the ability to be open about their sexual preference. The real problem as I see it is that most people in general think trans women who still have their penis must automatically be tops (when the majority actually seem to be bottoms). That would explain your experience on dating sites.

Sophie - you're so purrdy, I am crushing on you big time

[canihavu]

My 2 cents on this topic. My personal preference is not to bottom. I have tried it a few times (always at the request of the lady) while it was different, its not really my thing. I asked on lady who asked if she could fuck me why she wanted to do that to me and she replied that she thought all guys wanted that. I do admit I love performing oral but receiving oral and topping is more my thing.

[MsDazzler]

my 2 cents - msdazzler is definitely right about tops being in demand in the gay community, just go look on your local craigslist boards. It's overflowing with bottoms, cocksuckers, etc...its like a 15:1 ratio lol.

I personally do not want a ts who is a top, I enjoy the femininity and the raw beauty so many tgirls exude. It's more of a mindstate - the yin and yang of fem and masc and an understanding of the dynamic which oddly enough most GG's just don't get.

Now as far as the problem of too many guys wanting to bottom...lol, I can feel your pain I guess. Might I ask where you are looking...are you posting on CL looking for guys, are you being clear about the type of guy you're looking for?

btw - it's fair to keep in mind that many ts' probably miss out on a lot of awesome guys because you can be so picky. Every guy must have a 6 pack, be 6''0'+ and pack a min of 8"....We're not all David Beckham here lol.

That is true - I probably am missing out on a lot more sexual opportunities by declining or turning down guys who are interested in bottoming for me. And true - I do tend to be picky about what I want in a man (physically) but lately I have been trying to open up my mind so I can have more options and broaden my horizons...

But, however... like for some people cigarette smoking is a dealbreaker, etc, there are some dealbreakers for me when it comes down to a man - which is if he insists on being a bottom.

[caliuncut]

That is true - I probably am missing out on a lot more sexual opportunities by declining or turning down guys who are interested in bottoming for me. And true - I do tend to be picky about what I want in a man (physically) but lately I have been trying to open up my mind so I can have more options and broaden my horizons...

But, however... like for some people cigarette smoking is a dealbreaker, etc, there are some dealbreakers for me when it comes down to a man - which is if he insists on being a bottom.

Definitely - there are always dealbreakers and I'm not saying you should settle on the basics. If you're a bottom or hate smokers, etc then that's totally cool and you can't change those things. Same goes for me...I would never get together with a girl than insisted on topping me or drugs, etc.

My point was more of people in general who have the superficial prerequisites.