Guys who want to bottom

[blckhaze]

While I do think that a "true top" is harder to find, I dont see it as a bad thing. Its all about how that individual man goes about it. There are quite a few more bottom oriented men who simply will have dick in em from any source. Others are pickier (either it be strickly ts or guys, or even strickly females with straps). And the same on the other side of the coin, men who have no pref what hole as long as its a hole thall fit their dcks, others are only attracted to one.
Nowadays people are more able to explore themselves sexually and this leads to the large grey area of versatility. I think most people if on a scale of 1-10 fall somewhere on either the 3 or 7, prefering one role but being open to another. The extremes are far more rare, and usually a facade to hide the fact that they may want it, or even like it.

[Lovecox]

In the end (no pun intended) doesn´t it just come down to two people sharing each other´s bodies for pleasure? Aren´t all other judgements reduced to social roles that probably trace back to our hunter / gatherer ancestors? Can social conventions be left outside the bedroom?

I am attracted to women and transwomen. Why? I don´t know. I don´t bottom. I have tried it and it´s not for me. Will I try it again? I have no idea. Maybe the chemistry will be such with someone where we both want it.

I know many transwomen want a ¨straight¨man. Is that realistic? Is the idea that the man will never know the transwoman was born male? Is it like a hot dog insisting it be eaten only by vegetarians?

My two cents. Sue me.

[MsDazzler]

Lovecox... you mean "straight" or "straight acting" ? There is a distinction between those two. lol...

Do you also think Internet has enabled more "trans-curious" men to realize their fantasies? or has it been the catalyst by exposing more men to trans women because otherwise they might have not been aware of it?

I wonder about young horny teen boys who stumble on porn those days via Internet and especially on their phones, having it 24/7 available... and they see videos of transsexual porn stars at a very young age...

[jaxqt28]

Personally I'm vers. I have a more dominant personality and thoroughly enjoy topping, esp GG's. Topping a beautiful woman is truly enjoyable, regardless of what's between her legs. But with TS, the option to bottom is nice. A GG can't f*ck your ass (or at least do it well). Orgasms from anal stimulation are pretty amazing. Honestly my orgasms from anal stimulation are more intense than f*cking a vagina or an ass. But both are equally fun. So, because of this, it does seem like most guys that like TS are bottoms.

[MsDazzler]

I wonder whether post-ops get more "tops" than the pre-ops... because SRS is a viable option that I am considering in the future.

[dezz]

I wonder whether post-ops get more "tops" than the pre-ops... because SRS is a viable option that I am considering in the future.

Most likely. If a man was actively looking to be topped, especially a man looking for a tg top, why would he choose someone who'd have to use a strap-on?
I think part of the reason why so many chasers are bottoms is because anything to do with anal is treated having something to do with homosexuality. I know plenty of gg's who think men who want to fuck them anally are closet homosexuals. So you have a collection of men who are afraid to talk to gg's about wanting to the anal, many of whom are even more afraid still to mention that they want some kind of anal stimulation.
I've never been topped, but I'll admit what anal play I was involved in felt good. It doesn't for everybody, but not every man likes to get his dick sucked either (I know. It sounds crazy to me too)
But really if a man is paying for sex, it's likely for something he can't get any other way he can think of (hence so many bottoms looking for escorts). As for signs a man is a bottom in day-to-day interactions? Shit I don't know, drop something then see how quickly/easily, and in what manner he bends over to pick it up

[Flaco]

Lovecox... you mean "straight" or "straight acting" ? There is a distinction between those two. lol...

Do you also think Internet has enabled more "trans-curious" men to realize their fantasies? or has it been the catalyst by exposing more men to trans women because otherwise they might have not been aware of it?

I wonder about young horny teen boys who stumble on porn those days via Internet and especially on their phones, having it 24/7 available... and they see videos of transsexual porn stars at a very young age...

I can def relate to this lol, I remember being 13 and stumbling on tranny porn. I was so innocent lol I didn't know I had just discovered a new world entirely...

[Flaco]

Actually now that I'm old (Well, not that old lol) and I think about it, I hope young guys don't discover this kind of porn. It's just too much for a young person to deal with.

[Iainlondon]

I'm top and I cant get my head around guys who want to be fucked by T-girls, makes no sense

[Westheangelino]

I'm top and I cant get my head around guys who want to be fucked by T-girls, makes no sense

Conversely I can't wrap my head around a man wanting a Tgirl and NOT wanting to get drilled. Just go after a gg if all you want to do is top. But that is only my opinion. Instead of judging each other (not saying you were iainlondon) let's just have fun and fuck!