Guys who want to bottom

[FreddieGomez]

Conversely I can't wrap my head around a man wanting a Tgirl and NOT wanting to get drilled. Just go after a gg if all you want to do is top. But that is only my opinion. Instead of judging each other (not saying you were iainlondon) let's just have fun and fuck!

And i'll tell you to just get a man if all you want is the dick....

[amberskyi]

And the battle between tops and bottoms continue.this is so lame

[hondarobot]

I suppose a big problem is determining guys who like to bottom, have actually tried to bottom and those who imagine about it. I don't judge.

I've tried to, with a trans girl, and it sucked/didn't happen. It made me appreciate girls ass control better, because it seems like it would hurt like hell.

I understood why girls say "Don't go there". LOL

Too much information I suppose, but a cock in my ass doesn't work for me. I fault no-one for enjoying it though.

[blckhaze]

And the battle between tops and bottoms continue.this is so lame

pretty much
just have sex how u like, leave the bs for another topic

[surfer78]

I have no interest in being a bottom, I'm just not wired that way to be into being on the receiving end of that, but everyone is different. Maybe I am in the minority then, I don't know, but it seems like there are plenty of guys here that are attracted to both genetic and transgender women. I get turned off when I am watching TS porn and the woman starts fucking the guy. I am attracted to the female form, curves, smooth skin, hips, breasts, ass, etc. I'd go down on a transgender woman I was with, but wouldn't want her to fuck me, same as I wouldn't want a genetic woman to put on a strap on and fuck me. I'm writing this because not all guys who are into transgender women are looking to get fucked my them, but if they are I see nothing wrong with that either. We all have our likes, dislikes, preferences, etc. I fins it kind of interesting how quick people are to judge and stereotype others on a site like this, where you'd think the general view would be more tolerant and open-minded!

[MrsKellyPierce]

This battle thing is so silly to me!

Men have three G-Spots - frenulum (under the head), taint (between the asshole and balls), and of course the prostate.

The majority of men attracted to transsexuals identify as straight! Due to the fact they are still attracted to the female form/looks/persona! I also consider most straight with a penis fetish.

Anyways back to the g spots. Sex is supposed to feel good! Not everyone enjoys bottoming, maybe their nerve endings around their asshole don't set off pleasure feelings. Maybe they tried bottoming once and the experience was bad. Maybe they are not comfortable with it and think its not masculine, so it's not a turn on for them. Maybe they have tried it and it was just not their thing or painful every time. There are plenty of men who just like to be in control as well. Bottoming is more a submissive role. Not to say you can't bottom and be dominate, because you very well can.

And I assume guys that say why be with a trans-women if you just want to top, was never with a trans-women who he thought took the dick well or his preference/desire was always to bottom. Plenty of women won't let you fuck them in the ass much less suck dick. So for tops this gives them an outlet of a kinky and open-minded woman!

Now men saying one is more masculine than the other over one topping or not is just silly! A persons sexual desire has little to do w/ how they act outside the bedroom. I know plenty of fem gay boys that top only as well as transsexual women that do too. Too them bottoming has never gotten off by it so its a waste of their time and maybe some our butt lovers.

The men that bottom for ts you will find are very masculine and prefer being a man and being the dominate role in the relationship. A lot of times it's about cumming hard. If anyone has cummed with something in their ass or been with someone that knows how to aim for the prostate knows how freaking pleasurable it can be. I myself when hubby fucks me can cum multiple times when he hits it. It is awesome! But again I have a very sensitive and my arousal and pleasure sensors are high around and in my anus. Not everyone's is the same. That's why almost every guy I've been with had different areas of his dick touched or different ways of jerking dick or riding dick that felt the best for him.

People overthink and get to much in the semantics of straight/gay! I know plenty of women that use strap-ons on their men or finger or lick their ass. Does that mean the guy is gay? Umm no.. It's a pleasurable area and many times a woman who is into that initiates it.

Sex is meant for pleasure and hopefully orgasm. As we know most women never orgasm...poor girls! But it's the exact same why some women orgasm or love sex and others don't! Cause for many their sensory levels aren't as high, plus women think too much during sex. Many need to think like men during it I bet they'd cum that way.

But anyways stop the hate and how one enjoys sex is the best way for them! So why hate??? Cum how you like!

[nysprod]

I agree with pretty much everything you said, Kelly, and I'll add something; there could be a high preference to bottom among men who use TS escorts because if you look at the escort review pages, it seems as if the vast majority are looking for and rating the providers based upon their ability to provide this service.

Granted, it could be that men who strictly top don't tend to write reviews, but based on what's out there this would seem to be true.

[timid1]

Brilliant Kelly , so well thought out! So much of what you put rung true with how I feel.

I hugely respect those who want to do WHATEVER makes them feel great/horny/orgasmic , top,bottom,both with one or more consenting partners.

I feel as "macho" as the next fella, but I'm a bottom . I just am very honest when I speak to the girl to make sure we are both going to enjoy the meet, and there is no disappointment etc.

I have cum with a couple of girls in my arse (not on same night!) the feeling was almost indescribably good , an intensity I've not experienced from straight sex..... although I am still attracted to women too.

Thanks Kelly , I've not known how to answer this post, you said a lot brilliantly xxx

[blckhaze]

Smart woman
for a blonde

This battle thing is so silly to me!

Men have three G-Spots - frenulum (under the head), taint (between the asshole and balls), and of course the prostate.

The majority of men attracted to transsexuals identify as straight! Due to the fact they are still attracted to the female form/looks/persona! I also consider most straight with a penis fetish.

Anyways back to the g spots. Sex is supposed to feel good! Not everyone enjoys bottoming, maybe their nerve endings around their asshole don't set off pleasure feelings. Maybe they tried bottoming once and the experience was bad. Maybe they are not comfortable with it and think its not masculine, so it's not a turn on for them. Maybe they have tried it and it was just not their thing or painful every time. There are plenty of men who just like to be in control as well. Bottoming is more a submissive role. Not to say you can't bottom and be dominate, because you very well can.

And I assume guys that say why be with a trans-women if you just want to top, was never with a trans-women who he thought took the dick well or his preference/desire was always to bottom. Plenty of women won't let you fuck them in the ass much less suck dick. So for tops this gives them an outlet of a kinky and open-minded woman!

Now men saying one is more masculine than the other over one topping or not is just silly! A persons sexual desire has little to do w/ how they act outside the bedroom. I know plenty of fem gay boys that top only as well as transsexual women that do too. Too them bottoming has never gotten off by it so its a waste of their time and maybe some our butt lovers.

The men that bottom for ts you will find are very masculine and prefer being a man and being the dominate role in the relationship. A lot of times it's about cumming hard. If anyone has cummed with something in their ass or been with someone that knows how to aim for the prostate knows how freaking pleasurable it can be. I myself when hubby fucks me can cum multiple times when he hits it. It is awesome! But again I have a very sensitive and my arousal and pleasure sensors are high around and in my anus. Not everyone's is the same. That's why almost every guy I've been with had different areas of his dick touched or different ways of jerking dick or riding dick that felt the best for him.

People overthink and get to much in the semantics of straight/gay! I know plenty of women that use strap-ons on their men or finger or lick their ass. Does that mean the guy is gay? Umm no.. It's a pleasurable area and many times a woman who is into that initiates it.

Sex is meant for pleasure and hopefully orgasm. As we know most women never orgasm...poor girls! But it's the exact same why some women orgasm or love sex and others don't! Cause for many their sensory levels aren't as high, plus women think too much during sex. Many need to think like men during it I bet they'd cum that way.

But anyways stop the hate and how one enjoys sex is the best way for them! So why hate??? Cum how you like!

[zerokool]

Wow, Kelly's response is the best I've ever read on the subject. I just had to bump it so other people could enlighten themselves.