Why are many admirers flaky?

[Westheangelino]

To my recollection, you've posted a few other of these hard-to-believe comments...CL, with a collection of freaks that I wouldn't touch with my worst enemy's dick and lo and behold, a "well known porn star" answers your ad and just found you impossible to resist?

You can believe it or not believe, I really don't care. I'm not someone who gets my jollies by embellishing things on the internet. And you really don't understand the situation or how peoples' minds work sometimes. Do you know any TS porn stars? Have a conversation with one for once. It's not rocket science.

[Rabbiteyes]

So, you're not a porn star or escort, and you work with kids. But you invite total strangers to your place and allow yourself to get "coerced" into having sex? Something's missing...

Yea... it happens. Guys will completely lie to you to get you in a vulnerable position and then manipulate you into sex.

Maybe it sounds strange to a guy who has never been in such a situation.

[nysprod]

Yea... it happens. Guys will completely lie to you to get you in a vulnerable position and then manipulate you into sex.

Maybe it sounds strange to a guy who has never been in such a situation.

What lie can someone tell you that will convince you to invite a total stranger off the internet to your place?

[nysprod]

You can believe it or not believe, I really don't care. I'm not someone who gets my jollies by embellishing things on the internet. And you really don't understand the situation or how peoples' minds work sometimes. Do you know any TS porn stars? Have a conversation with one for once. It's not rocket science.

It's not the talking...it's the idea that with one ad on CL, a famous porn star responds...and then just finds you so irresistible they have to run right over and fuck you...

[Westheangelino]

It's not the talking...it's the idea that with one ad on CL, a famous porn star responds...and then just finds you so irresistible they have to run right over and fuck you...

Obviously you didn't even read what I wrote. I post ads ALL the time. Over the past six/seven years, I will readily admit that I have posted hundreds of ads. It takes seconds, costs nothing, and can lead to a LOT of fun. So, why not? How many "stars" have I met by them replying to my ad? Three. Law of averages ,sir, and living in L.A. helps quite a bit. It also helps having a hot ass, great personality, and charm.

[MsDazzler]

So, you're not a porn star or escort, and you work with kids. But you invite total strangers to your place and allow yourself to get "coerced" into having sex? Something's missing...

That was when I was way younger back in my college days and before I ever started my job. lol.

[nysprod]

That was when I was way younger back in my college days and before I ever started my job. lol.

Lol...or maybe you're just like the rest of us in the sense that the "face" we present to world is quite different than what lies behind the mask...

[Westheangelino]

Lol...or maybe you're just like the rest of us in the sense that the "face" we present to world is quite different than what lies behind the mask...

Nope. What you see is what you get.

[nysprod]

Nope. What you see is what you get.

Lol...I left that comment for MzDazzler...

[ditadior]

I've flaked out on a few people in the past and I've had people flake out on me as well. It has worked both ways in my own life. The reasons why I've flaked are various, and include not yet being ready for a relationship or being too afraid to get into a relationship. I'm sure I've missed out on some good times, maybe some heartbreak too. I don't know.

Back in 2009, I had been seeing a very attractive young lady. She was Puerto Rican and very vivacious and fun to be around. We had met up a few times and had a few good dates, but when we were finally ready to be "exclusive" I flaked out of the relationship. I have been regularly dating t-girls for the better part of a decade, and I still don't know why I flaked out of that relationship. Maybe things happened too fast for me, or maybe I just wasn't ready to settle down. I don't know. It's a regret that I have that I must live with. I'm left to wonder about what might have been.

On the converse, I remember a very pretty young thing (a rather Dita-like young woman) flaked out on me, and that hurt me pretty badly. I was still a pretty young guy, and I have always been willing to be seen in public with a transgender gf, so I don't know exactly what I did wrong. Maybe she wasn't in the right frame of mind. Maybe I disrespected her somehow or I wasn't treating her how she wanted to be treated. But she flaked on the relationship, and I had to deal with that.

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