Intriguingly Aroused and Concretely Enchanted, But Nervous, Scared, and Confused

[Bouncer1988]

Ok, I'm 26 years old and I con myself to be heterosexual. But ever since I was 14 and I stumbled on a Transgendered Pornographic Website I've been obsessed and have grown to love, admire, and appreciate the Postop Transwoman body and mind. It took over like I was born with it. I've tried to erase the thoughts and fantasies but I can't. So, over the past year I've thought long and hard about just going for it and search for a Transwoman to date. I'm still afraid of it though. I know it's what I want, but I feel I'll be judged. I don't consider my attraction to be homosexual in nature because the women I search for I consider them to be women. I just don't know how to go about meeting them discretely. I'm not ashamed of my feelings I'm just not ready to tell the world yet. Any Advice???

[TheFrenchman]

Hey there, I can totally relate although I'm much older and discovered my love for transwoman at much later age than you did, I chose "Yes, Just go for it" in your poll, you'll never know how it feels if you don't give it a shot at least once, it might even take you more than 1 try as you might question yourself if it's right or not. But then again, the younger generation (yours) seems much more open minded than mine so you might get a much better acceptance from the folks around you...

Good luck and welcome to our exclusive club

Salut

[itsnotme]

don't get to obsessed at least your not having a crisis over you gender or sexual identity that's a good start i guess if you meet you girl you like go for it but don't go over board and lol i didn't even know transgender was really a thing at 14 until afew years ago i thought transvestite was the correct term for a transsexual people should really teach kids about this stuff as teenagers so would stop alot of confused internet posts lol

[Bouncer1988]

When I say obsessed I'm trying to say I can't shake the attraction. It's like I unlocked my true self. I was in denial for a long time. But I knew it was true when I had sex with the old world's description of a woman and I didn't enjoy it. Then when I would masturbate to Transgender pornography or think of a all female woman I knew as a transgendered woman I get aroused a lot quicker. I didn't know how to explain it to them so I blam it on stress or alcohol. I knew deep down it didn't pleasure me anymore. I'm just excited, nervous, and happy that I found that out early. I'm okay with it, I'm just afraid of how it will effect people when I tell them that a perfect female body includes a penis. Because my mom and sister are devout Christians. My friends are super homophobic they shunned one of our friends after he came out. But I need to act on these feelings, emotions, and urges. I'm just scared...

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

Do what makes you happy. Take your time. If you are sure about your feelings like you say you are, take steps to fulfill your desires. Find out if you truly like what you enjoy looking at online.

I found out about t-girls in 2003, but didn't have my first encounter until 2011. I found out that day that I do truly love sex with pre-op transwomen. If your family would judge you about your interest, keep it private for the foreseeable future. Make sure your desire is real and not just some porn thing. If and when you find out it is for real, then decide who you want to share it with.

[fred41]

not enough info...where do you live? (i.e..in, or near a major metropolis...small backwoods town...in a storm drain eating people to survive)

[itsnotme]

oh im in the storm drain

[itsnotme]

i only ate human flesh once i swear

[fred41]

oh im in the storm drain

If you get some nice stuff from West Elm...it'll still be a warm and inviting home...maybe some nice rugs.

i only ate human flesh once i swear

I assume it's an acquired taste...do you drink white or red wine with it...


Anyway, this question is easier to answer depending whether or not the Op lives in an area that even makes his dating requirement feasible.

[giovanni_hotel]

I'm still waiting for someone to explain to me guys uniquely attracted to postop women.