Which would rather date you? A Porn Star or Not a Porn Star?

[MdR Dave]

I don't know. Neither, I suppose.

Hooking up is easy, but I'm putting out some serious "leave me the fuck alone" vibes these days. When I want to get laid I assume a specific attitude- one that doesn't fail me- I could charm the panties off the devil herself.

But in every day life I'm just not approachable, for a variety of reasons.

[Wendy Summers]

Poetry to Wendy Summers
I am that man from Nantucket
who's dick is so hard you'd fuck it
don't give me no sass
cause you have a great ass
now open your mouth and suck it

I have a section on my blog for Fan Poetry -- may I republish your poem there?

Same question to jayallday LOL

[Wendy Summers]

I would gladly only wear the tie for you

That;s ok - I prefer other clothes on the floor anyway

[danthepoetman]

I’m just a very ordinary guy who didn’t have much of anything easy, either by my own fault or because of circumstances, but made it somehow as a relatively decent human being –at least I like to think so. I’m not sure how to answer a question about “dating”; I guess I’m more of an extreme type, I’ve always swung for the home run. I think what we all want is just a good sense of acknowledgement, we want people to consider our presence, to know we’re there, to simply “count us in”. When you get to find someone with whom you can share your whole intimate world, someone who gives you the feeling that it should always have been, like the earth and the sky, like the waves and the ocean, someone who gives you such a sense of belonging that at last your life seem in place, meaningful and even important, who cares if that person is in porn or not? To me, it would totally be irrelevant.

Now, should I really plead my case, here? I don’t mean to sound over dramatic, but when I stop to think of what you ladies go through, when I witness how hard most of you work, how courageous you have to be –or else how beautifully desperate-, how lovely you all are despite the worst conditions life has imposed on you, I find myself not quite worthy of any of your love. And well, I happen to be in such a situation anyways. I’m with someone I’m not worthy of. And yet she loves me. I can’t explain why, but I must say I’ve endured enough shit to just take it. Voilà. So… what’s the question already? Oh! yes: I wouldn’t mind either way, as long as the right ingredients are there…