What is the deal with the new bottoms?

[GreenIris]

In fact, you never really need to...

Messes happen when people dont shower/rinse correctly, eat the wrong things that day, or have other issues... An enema is not the absolute answer...ive even heard it makes messes more likely at times

[gaysian71]

IMO you do need an enema every time you are going to bottom for someone. You never know whats in there. The little bottles and bags that you buy at the store work ok, but the best thing is a detachable shower head with a long hose on it. You can take the head off and just use the hose. It works great. Just be careful not to turn the water pressure up too high or your head might pop off, or water might come spraying out of your eyes. Lol.

[Prospero]

Certainly makes it a lot less likely to end in a mess. Do you really want her to get shit all over the condom. just the smell of shit is, for me, a 100 per cent turn off. Its a courtesy in my view.

[gaysian71]

[nina_lisa]

I think that one thing I learned on HA, by reading posts, is that many men enjoy anal pleasure without being gay. And when you think about it, it’s perfectly respectable. I don’t share the desire, but why not? So what could be more perfect for them than a woman with a penis?
I guess that it must be troubling for a t-woman to see the fantasy some men have built and entertain about it or around it, the “dick girl”, the “futanari” who is driven by fucking guys if not anything that moves… Although many t-girls are versatile, this image so obviously doesn’t correspond to their harsh reality.

But besides that, Nina Lisa, what do you mean? Do you feel that there is actually a trend, a “vogue” of that? Do you feel there is more and more of that? I think I can sense that meaning in your question. Am I right?

In general the image many men have from transgender women and the reality is two different things.

I'll say the big majority of men that contact me want me to top them. Nothing wrong with them wanting to be fucked, but why would i as a woman want to top them?

Problem is the they want our bodies to work like men bodies work, but because of female hormones our bodies does not want to work that way. Even a few times lately it was physically painful to do it. (it was basically forcing my body to do what it did not want to do)

For many men that never been touch with a transgender women, we are feminine men, with fake boobs.

A few days ago, i got an email from a potential client:
Him: i am interested... in this that... i am that old... I've never had sex with a man before?
Me *i am not even bothering to reply*
Him resending an email: hey why are you ignoring me?

I am at the point of stopping escorting and i have no intention in making a career out of it, so i can be honest.

In real life if i have a partner, it wouldn't even want my birth defect to be touched, right now topping men did pay for a part of my transition, so it is just a job, you can not love every job you do, but sometime you have to do it.

[tsadriana]

Y our not the only one Nina trust me.xx

[Jericho]

All the enemas in the world wouldn't clear out Donald Trump.
Would you girls still fuck him?

[danthepoetman]

In general the image many men have from transgender women and the reality is two different things.
I'll say the big majority of men that contact me want me to top them. Nothing wrong with them wanting to be fucked, but why would i as a woman want to top them?
Problem is the they want our bodies to work like men bodies work, but because of female hormones our bodies does not want to work that way. Even a few times lately it was physically painful to do it. (it was basically forcing my body to do what it did not want to do)
For many men that never been touch with a transgender women, we are feminine men, with fake boobs.
A few days ago, i got an email from a potential client:
Him: i am interested... in this that... i am that old... I've never had sex with a man before?
Me *i am not even bothering to reply*
Him resending an email: hey why are you ignoring me?

I am at the point of stopping escorting and i have no intention in making a career out of it, so i can be honest.
In real life if i have a partner, it wouldn't even want my birth defect to be touched, right now topping men did pay for a part of my transition, so it is just a job, you can not love every job you do, but sometime you have to do it.

To me, that’s difficult to read, although I’m perfectly aware of what you’re saying. I just picture a lovely young woman having to go through this and it doesn’t come up in my mind as a pretty picture. I sincerely feel for you. I know that you already know this, Nina Lisa (and you also, Adriana), but there is some men that totally see you ladies as women, without any restraint and, in terms of desires, have the exact compatible drive. To me, your “birth defect”, as you intelligently put it, would only be another part of your body, and I would desire you as whole, for your femininity.
Good for you if you can stop escorting, Nina Lisa. You’re a lovely woman and you deserve to be happy and to achieve what you want and to be what you want to be. I have a lot a respect and admiration for you.

All the enemas in the world wouldn't clear out Donald Trump.
Would you girls still fuck him?

lol lol lol