what if you learned your GF was an escort?

[smoothboi]

As long as I knew in the beginning, I wouldn't mind. I'm into promiscuous partners anyway.

[youngblood61]

It would be over if she wasn' straight with me in the beginning.

[danthepoetman]

Everything in the human world relates to circumstances. I would definitely want to know why she didn’t talk about it, and why she is doing it. I’m pretty sure in many cases, I would receive a satisfactory answer, call me naïve if you want…
Now, would I mind if I was in a couple with an escort? Once again, it depends of what type of escort she is. Under decent circumstances, with safe practices, I’m pretty sure if I was in love with the girl, I could accept it.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

Is there some reason she wouldn't have told me straight up?? I would not be happy if it was hidden from me. That would bother me much more than the idea she was an escort.

[MdR Dave]

Is there some reason she wouldn't have told me straight up?? I would not be happy if it was hidden from me. That would bother me much more than the idea she was an escort.

Of course there's a reason she wouldn't come right out with it- most people, male or female, would judge her for it. The folks here are probably more understanding of such things, but not representative of the average person. We're special.

In this situation, if I felt strongly toward her (wouldn't even have to be "love" I would stick with her. If I didn't feel it I would leave, but not because she hid something from me. I would leave because she was an escort and there would be no guarantee it is a thing of the past only. I'm not going through that again unless that dumbass heart of mine signs off.

[tsmounting]

Can't make a hoe a housewife...

[Dino Velvet]

I still don't know. I've dated girls and never told them about me going to jail before. Just a little jail, not the cooler.

[onmyknees]

[QUOTE=danthepoetman;1226751] I’m pretty sure in many cases, I would receive a satisfactory answer, call me naïve if you want…


OK.....you're naive !

[Quiet Reflections]

If she was doing it when we met and she was upfront about it then that's cool We can be friends maybe more but It would be really slow going and Im sure there would be trust issues.

If she was doing it when we met and she lied about it or just left that detail out until after we were already in a serious relationship then I would offer her my friendship and emotional support but not stay in the relationship.

I don't like open relationships but I have been in a few and my first rule is 1) Let me know I'm in one

[onmyknees]

I know this chic who used to do bikini bike calendar shoots, and similar modeling. Killer body. Cool chic to hang and party with. I always thought she was doing something more, but it was no skin off my ass. A guy shows me a CL ad with her face shadowed out, and I easily recognized that body . I can't say I wasn't a little surprised , but again, she was a friend and I didn't think it was necessary that she tell me how she was supplementing her modeling income . I was surprised because the guy she was dating was a muscle head. A real asshole. Always lookin' to start shit because some dude said hello to her or bumped into him. I guess it became known to more people and ultimately he beat the fuck out of her in a roid rage, and all her girlfriends suddenly became real judgemental and severed all contact once they found out. I recall calling them out asking them why they gave a fuck how she chose to pay the rent. And the irony was some of her girlfriends were the biggest sluts I know...but they gave it away. I could never really reconcile why the exchange of money for sex was so horrid to some people....especially promiscuous women! It all fucked this girl up pretty good. She dove deep into addiction and after 2 years, is just now getting her shit together . Maybe she was weak and predisposed to addiction , but the way her friends treated her sure the fuck didn't help. She obviously should have informed her BF, or not had a BF with his hang ups, but the point is....rarely are these situations handled with calm and reason, and it's usually not a good outcome.