Excellent Article about dating Transwomen?

[bluesoul]

that is the first time I have heard the word "non-op" in 15 years of being around TS girls. wow

they don't call this place the "guide to shemales and transsexuals" for nothing

[Chaos]

This article is awesome! Now if only the girls around my area weren't escorts...
(I have nothing against them,I just never paid for sex and never will)That isn't what I want.

[MHarrigan82]

This article is awesome! Now if only the girls around my area weren't escorts...
(I have nothing against them,I just never paid for sex and never will)That isn't what I want.

Choas what big city do you live near? I see Pennsylvania as your location. I am sure there are some nice non escort tgirls near Philadelphia or Pittsburgh.

[Chaos]

I'm in Pittsburgh....Philly is too far for me and the only non-escort girls I have seen I am not attracted to....It sucks,but I still have hope.

[MHarrigan82]

This article is awesome! Now if only the girls around my area weren't escorts...
(I have nothing against them,I just never paid for sex and never will)That isn't what I want.

Have you tried any online websites?

[Chaos]

I've always been afraid to....Afraid that I'll be greeted by someone different than I agreed to meet...Or worse...there are some seriously shady people around here...It can be hard to trust people quite often.

[nina_lisa]

Excellent article. thanks for posting it.

Trans girls are battling a mistake in nature to become what they were supposed to be. Many of them consider it a birth defect. It’s difficult to for them to find acceptance. Imagine waking up one day in the wrong skin and not being able to see yourself in the mirror as you see yourself inside.

I always say dating a trans girl it is not as exotic as it looks on the outside, and it can be something hard. You are talking about people that are struggling to be themselves.

Imagine your girlfriend not wanting to go to a restaurant with you, because she is afraid how people will treat her. Or coming home and finding her crying, because while grocery shopping some one screamed at her: you are a man.

Remember it’s about the quality of the girl as a person. Appearance and feminization can depend on how far along they are in their transition. Their goal is to blend in undetected and live like a normal woman.

I know a girl that dated a trans women that was early in transition, in her own words: it was an extremely hard experience, but a few years down the road, seeing how happy she became, and seeing her smile non stop, makes it worth it and priceless.

Don’t be nervous. Simply approach her in person, in chat or email her like you would any other woman. Talk to her about your concerns, she will understand. Be respectful and decent. Do not ask her for multiple photos or discuss sex with her on initial contact. You will come off like a pervert and will get rejected. Also don’t be fanatical or an admirer. It’s creepy. Just be yourself and have a normal conversation as if you met at a party or cocktail lounge.

Treating her like you treat any other woman, will get you way a head of 95% of the population. No girl like it when she read: i feel like doing something crazy, so i thought why not date a shemale. Or even: I am curios about having sex with another guy. (i am not kidding, i do get lot of those message)

asking for cock pics, or if i am top or bottom, is just a red flag. Same thing for aksing about my pro/post op status, i am more than what is between my legs, and if you only want to date me because of what it is between my legs, then i'd rather be single.

I've had a client via an escorting website, what he wanted was company and not sex, we just had some coffee and talked.

When he asked: how much i owe you? i said: nothing, was nice chatting to you. His talks where not sexual, neither did he ask about my genitals status, he used correct pronouns, and treated me like a lady, and never even mentioned or brought up the fact that i am trans, so i thought: There are so many people that don't know how to treat me, i can appreciate a gentleman and since we only talked i wouldn't ask for money.

[Tyler___Durden]

This article is awesome! Now if only the girls around my area weren't escorts...
(I have nothing against them,I just never paid for sex and never will)That isn't what I want.

Most (99%) of the Ts women in your area aren't escorts. FACT

[nina_lisa]

Here is the thing about dating a transgender girl.

How widespread is the birth defect of been born into the wrong body? while the exact number is hard to know, studies gives number going from 1/1000 up to 1/30,000

Gender identity disorder may manifest in children, adolescents or adults, and appears more frequently in males than in females [source: WebMD]. While there are no recent statistics to show us how prevalent gender identity disorder is, we do know that an estimated 1 in 30,000 adult males and 1 in 100,000 adult females seek gender reassignment surgery, a treatment chosen by some people with GID [source: Merck].

another study http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conw...revalence.html

To calculate a rough lower bound on prevalence of MtF sex reassignment surgeries in the U.S., we simply divide the number of postop women, which is about 32,000, by the number of U. S. males between 18 - 60 (the age range from which most current post-ops originated), which is about 80,000,000:

32,000/80,000,000 = 1/2500.

Then how many are Stealth? Even when not stealth, no one go: Hi My name is Sally, i am trannsexual, and i am pre-op, do you like ts women?

Unless you have a friend and the friend one day say: George there is something i want to tell you......etc chances you might meet or not trans women in everyday life and you will never know it.

Of course you might get lucky, but don't hold your breath and say: unless i a meet a trans girl i want to stay single.

It can be like saying: i want to date a girl that is half Israeli, half Palestinian, her mother must be Brazilian, and she should speak 4 languages and know how to prepare authentic Indian dishes. While you might get lucky and be able to find such a girl, don't hold your breath.

[nina_lisa]

Most (99%) of the Ts women in your area aren't escorts. FACT

Here the thing, if the girl is not an escort, why would she let people know her status? it is not like the law ask her to wear a t-shirt that say: hey i am trans.

The aim of transition, is to look like any other girl and not stand out, and there is no point letting every know they are trans, unless she want people to switch to male pronouns, and start arguing that as long as she have a penis she is a man.