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10-26-2012 #11
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10-26-2012 #12
Re: Excellent Article about dating Transwomen?
This article is awesome! Now if only the girls around my area weren't escorts...
(I have nothing against them,I just never paid for sex and never will)That isn't what I want.
I'm the most amazing person you'll never know,because society has convinced you I should be ignored or avoided. Want to know something? Ask... Just ask.
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10-26-2012 #13
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10-26-2012 #14
Re: Excellent Article about dating Transwomen?
I'm in Pittsburgh....Philly is too far for me and the only non-escort girls I have seen I am not attracted to....It sucks,but I still have hope.
I'm the most amazing person you'll never know,because society has convinced you I should be ignored or avoided. Want to know something? Ask... Just ask.
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10-26-2012 #15
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10-26-2012 #16
Re: Excellent Article about dating Transwomen?
I've always been afraid to....Afraid that I'll be greeted by someone different than I agreed to meet...Or worse...there are some seriously shady people around here...It can be hard to trust people quite often.
I'm the most amazing person you'll never know,because society has convinced you I should be ignored or avoided. Want to know something? Ask... Just ask.
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10-27-2012 #17
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Re: Excellent Article about dating Transwomen?
Excellent article. thanks for posting it.
I always say dating a trans girl it is not as exotic as it looks on the outside, and it can be something hard. You are talking about people that are struggling to be themselves.
Imagine your girlfriend not wanting to go to a restaurant with you, because she is afraid how people will treat her. Or coming home and finding her crying, because while grocery shopping some one screamed at her: you are a man.
I know a girl that dated a trans women that was early in transition, in her own words: it was an extremely hard experience, but a few years down the road, seeing how happy she became, and seeing her smile non stop, makes it worth it and priceless.
Treating her like you treat any other woman, will get you way a head of 95% of the population. No girl like it when she read: i feel like doing something crazy, so i thought why not date a shemale. Or even: I am curios about having sex with another guy. (i am not kidding, i do get lot of those message)
asking for cock pics, or if i am top or bottom, is just a red flag. Same thing for aksing about my pro/post op status, i am more than what is between my legs, and if you only want to date me because of what it is between my legs, then i'd rather be single.
I've had a client via an escorting website, what he wanted was company and not sex, we just had some coffee and talked.
When he asked: how much i owe you? i said: nothing, was nice chatting to you. His talks where not sexual, neither did he ask about my genitals status, he used correct pronouns, and treated me like a lady, and never even mentioned or brought up the fact that i am trans, so i thought: There are so many people that don't know how to treat me, i can appreciate a gentleman and since we only talked i wouldn't ask for money.
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Re: Excellent Article about dating Transwomen?
Here is the thing about dating a transgender girl.
How widespread is the birth defect of been born into the wrong body? while the exact number is hard to know, studies gives number going from 1/1000 up to 1/30,000
Gender identity disorder may manifest in children, adolescents or adults, and appears more frequently in males than in females [source: WebMD]. While there are no recent statistics to show us how prevalent gender identity disorder is, we do know that an estimated 1 in 30,000 adult males and 1 in 100,000 adult females seek gender reassignment surgery, a treatment chosen by some people with GID [source: Merck].
To calculate a rough lower bound on prevalence of MtF sex reassignment surgeries in the U.S., we simply divide the number of postop women, which is about 32,000, by the number of U. S. males between 18 - 60 (the age range from which most current post-ops originated), which is about 80,000,000:
32,000/80,000,000 = 1/2500.
Unless you have a friend and the friend one day say: George there is something i want to tell you......etc chances you might meet or not trans women in everyday life and you will never know it.
Of course you might get lucky, but don't hold your breath and say: unless i a meet a trans girl i want to stay single.
It can be like saying: i want to date a girl that is half Israeli, half Palestinian, her mother must be Brazilian, and she should speak 4 languages and know how to prepare authentic Indian dishes. While you might get lucky and be able to find such a girl, don't hold your breath.
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10-27-2012 #20
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Re: Excellent Article about dating Transwomen?
Here the thing, if the girl is not an escort, why would she let people know her status? it is not like the law ask her to wear a t-shirt that say: hey i am trans.
The aim of transition, is to look like any other girl and not stand out, and there is no point letting every know they are trans, unless she want people to switch to male pronouns, and start arguing that as long as she have a penis she is a man.
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